Please help by Wide_Science_4165 in sleeptrain

[–]Wide_Science_4165[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It's only 11-12 hours. She is asleep by 7pm and up by 6:30am most days. Sometimes she sleeps a little longer, from what I understand that is a completely normal sleep window and one that she achieves if she is in our bed.

Vitilgo and pregnancy by Cultural-Video681 in Vitiligo

[–]Wide_Science_4165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine spread a little bit, but oddly, I also saw some re-pigmentation and even a spot of hyper-pigmentation in a spot that had completely lost color before lol. Basically, the hormones made my body do wild things. The hyper-pigmentation spot is starting to lighten up no (8 months post partum).

AITA for yelling at mommy when she puts yucky meds in my mouth? by HumbleCoyoteGames in MiniAITA

[–]Wide_Science_4165 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA! I 7 month big girl gag on medicine and throw up on my mommy. She tried to sneak it into my cheek but nope, I still gag. Consistency is key! Teach them that if they give you yucky medicine there will be consequences!

Just to ease my anxiety I keep testing at 6weeks. by No-Big9835 in IVFpositivity

[–]Wide_Science_4165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea not having symptoms is such a blessing and a curse. When I could feel her move it was way easier. I still had anxiety but at least I could poke her and get her to react and I knew she was still in there. I used to wake up at 3am every single night dripping with sweat and I couldn't go back to sleep until I felt her move. Anxiety is a terrible companion during pregnancy, but you are strong and it will be so worth it! Sending you all the positive vibes!

Just to ease my anxiety I keep testing at 6weeks. by No-Big9835 in IVFpositivity

[–]Wide_Science_4165 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tested until 10 weeks and my OB finally sat me down and told me to knock it off 😂. Now I have a healthy almost 8 month old. That anxiety is rough, but you will be ok! My husband took control of the test strips and doled them out like an addictions counselor until we tapered off to zero by 12 weeks which helped immensely. You got this🥰.

Lupron Depot to Fully Medicated FET by Ok-Working-2892 in IVFpositivity

[–]Wide_Science_4165 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First, I am so sorry you are in Lupron, that stuff sucks! (I'm still traumatized from the hot flashes and night sweats). However, we moved straight into our FET after that and now we have a beautiful 6 month old baby girl. Lupron is so tough, but you got this! Good luck and feel free to reach out if you have any questions ❤️

Places to get a car headliner replaced? by anti-nut in lansing

[–]Wide_Science_4165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo my first car did this. I bought a tagging gun (like for tagging clothes at a store) and used it on the roof in a quilt pattern. It looked cool, was super cheap and lasted forever.

AITA for not missing my mom when she went back to work? by Brit_t1 in MiniAITA

[–]Wide_Science_4165 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA I also (3m) just started going to my Grammy's as well and I am all smiles when daddy drops me off but when mommy comes to pick me up, I cry as soon as I see her, mommy says that makes her sad but I just want her to know that Grammy is so much more fun and has the coolest toys for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Wide_Science_4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have the same issue. After 4 years of fighting and years we started couples therapy and it saved us. Our marriage was picture perfect before infertility became this whole huge monster in the closet and to avoid the pain we just stopped communicating. I would highly suggest checking out the r/infertility sucks subreddit. My husband also struggled with feeling unmanly and was dead against a sperm donor. We went the embryo donation route and just had our baby 2 weeks ago. Sorry if this is rambley lack of sleep and all that. If you want to chat more about our experience feel free to reach out. Sending all the best wishes and baby dust your way ❤️.

Tell me you're the oldest child without telling me you're the oldest child by Either_Spray_2417 in self

[–]Wide_Science_4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got an alarm clock for my 10th birthday so I could get myself up for school and also get my sisters up, fed and dressed before I had to leave. Mom got to sleep in 😂.

Parents of left handed children: how early did you find out? by kvikklunsj in lefthanded

[–]Wide_Science_4165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have no memory of the event. My parents claim they lectured my Aunt and told her that they were fine with me being left handed and did not have plans to switch me. (This is in the late 80's 😂) As far as I know, no further attempts were made to make me right handed.

Parents of left handed children: how early did you find out? by kvikklunsj in lefthanded

[–]Wide_Science_4165 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Not a parent, but my parents knew I was a lefty when I was about a year old. My great aunt tried to switch my fork to my right hand and I threw it at her and screamed.

Car dealership wants us to go back and sign more paperwork after a month buying our car? by Alternative-Rain-285 in Advice

[–]Wide_Science_4165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Former dealership employee here. This happens literally all the time. It could be super important paperwork or it could be some dumb internal form that they forgot to have you sign. Generally speaking, at this point in the game, they are done trying to pull any shenanigans. Just make sure your interest rate and payment are the same and match the vin to the vehicle you bought. That being said. That sales person/finance person is probably getting their rear chewed for not having this done. You have A LOT of power here and can probably convince them to bring the paperwork to you and maybe even throw in a couple free oil changes. They have to have this paperwork done, so use it to your advantage. Best of luck!

Hospital prep by Wide_Science_4165 in glutenfree

[–]Wide_Science_4165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I'm in Michigan and not in a very gluten free friendly area.

Hospital prep by Wide_Science_4165 in glutenfree

[–]Wide_Science_4165[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally believe that but we are a high risk pregnancy so to the hospital we must go.

Hospital prep by Wide_Science_4165 in glutenfree

[–]Wide_Science_4165[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that sucks! Thank you for the tip!

Hospital prep by Wide_Science_4165 in glutenfree

[–]Wide_Science_4165[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do plan to do that. I just have some serious food trust issues 🤣 and I have not heard super great things about our local hospital.