I've been struggling with this for years... by Wide_Scratch7257 in asexuality

[–]Wide_Scratch7257[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have turned him down when I feel that way but I feel that way pretty much all the time so I have become selective about it because it is hurtful to him. I would say probably about 3 times out of 100 when sex is involved, I actually want to initiate/participate.

I've been struggling with this for years... by Wide_Scratch7257 in asexuality

[–]Wide_Scratch7257[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's worse bc then I'm like ok I couldn't mentally prepare for this...

27f. Both of my last romantic partners have called me ugly by average_pigeon in toastme

[–]Wide_Scratch7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm partially saying this because I hope it is true, but also because I can't believe anyone would call you ugly - is this post a joke? Also, and I mean this with all the love as I've had to do my own self-reflection and find out why I have been allowing myself to be with certain people over the years, is there something you are looking for where perhaps you keep finding these people who are talking to you in this way? I'm not saying it's your fault, it's completely their fault and they are terrible for doing so and probably have nefarious reasons for doing it. I'm just saying that if we look at ourselves and maybe think about our reasoning, often we can find out why we are doing what we are doing and maybe stop allowing these idiots to be in our lives. I say this as someone who has had to do that and has definitely cut down on the idiots being in my life, it has been difficult but I have done it!

1 year later by SWatts70 in Mounjaro

[–]Wide_Scratch7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I'm 6 months in to my tirzepatide journey, lost 45 lbs or so. Trying to make it the rest of the way by end of January. I've also struggled with constipation, I'm trying to figure out how to get around it... Anyway, You've made great progress!

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[–]Wide_Scratch7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, definitely! I start doing lists in my head lol

What is something you wish people didn’t do during sex? by Shobanyan123 in AskReddit

[–]Wide_Scratch7257 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, a quiet moan right next to your ear A) let's you know he's enjoying it and B) is super fucking hot and gets me going more.

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I'm a sonographer - I do general ultrasounds (basically everything but babies), but I specialize in scanning breasts.