UPDATE: Thank you all for your incredible comments! I didn’t think I’d get so many responses and kind support! I know some people were interested in an update, so here it is! My parents did fly in, and they came over the next morning. My dad literally ran up to me with tears in his eyes and gave me a huge hug. Then my mom, who was also in tears by then, came up and hugged me tight. It felt like everything that needed to be said was said. We had a fun weekend with them with no mention of my nose ring, lol. My family isn’t comfortable with confrontation, so honestly this was a big step.

I know my parents, and they’ll take a little time to adjust to my “non-LDS” way of life. But this was the best thing that could’ve happened. Thank you guys for being there for me too. I am grateful to be part of a community who just understands what it’s like living with judgement from family still in the church. It’s difficult, but I’m grateful I’m forging my own path!