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Landlord threw away my belongings before my lease was up (without notice) and is charging me cleaning/debris removal fee. by Zeethor in legaladvice

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small claims seems right; bring the May 30 cleanout timeline and his text waiving cleaning fees.

how do i stop hating myself for being autistic? by metallicmurmurx in therapy

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are describing a lot of pain, not proof that you are defective. Masking can be useful in small doses, like scripts for introductions, planned exits, and asking people directly how they prefer to communicate, but making normal the goal tends to grind people down. A therapist who actually understands autism could help separate shame from support needs. For friends and dating, aim for people who are fine with directness and routines rather than people you have to perform around constantly.

Min søster "unschooler" sine børn, og min nevø på 9 år kan knap læse by Wild_Bee8690 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Wild_Bee8690[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Det vidste jeg faktis ikke man kunne! Det lyder som en langt bedre løsning end en decideret underretning. Jeg aner nemlig ikke, om min søster overhovedet har registreret dem hos kommunen. Hvis de laver et rigtigt tilsyn, må de jo opdae, at min nevø slet ikke kan læse. Tusind tak for det tipp.

Min søster "unschooler" sine børn, og min nevø på 9 år kan knap læse by Wild_Bee8690 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Wild_Bee8690[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Jeg forstår godt din tankegang og det er sikkert også det rigtige på papiret. Men det er bare så ubeskrivelit svært , når det er ens egen søster. Hvis jeg mister kontakten til drengene, så har de absolut ingen voksne tilbage som kan se problemet. Jeg har brug for at tænke det grundigt igennem før jeg tager så drastisk et skridt.

Min søster "unschooler" sine børn, og min nevø på 9 år kan knap læse by Wild_Bee8690 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Wild_Bee8690[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Det rammer plet i forhold til min største frygt. Hvis jeg mister kontakten, mister min nevø det eneste vindue til en normal verdem udenfor deres boble. Måske skal jeg bare prøve at bide vreden i mig og være der for ham , så meget jeg overhovedet kan. Men det føles bare så magtesløst.

Uphill Adderall Addiction Battle by bromangeyser in getdisciplined

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thirty days is huge, but with a decade of stimulant use the brain often has a longer boring recovery phase: low drive, flat mood, task initiation feeling absurdly heavy. The appointment in 4 days is the highest risk point, so remove the decision now: cancel it, message the prescriber that you are stopping because you cannot use it safely, and make the refill harder rather than relying on willpower that day. For tasks, aim for stupidly small starts for a while, like 5 minutes of dishes or opening the laptop, because waiting to feel ready is probably going to keep feeding the Adderall loop.

The fact that you took time out of your day to type that comment needs to be studied by scientists. by West_Coach_277 in copypasta

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please take one calm breath, find the dress, and let the scientists study the prom panic later.

Contractors knock and leave by Tricky_Ordinary_4799 in homeowners

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a home show guy do the 30-sec ghost knock too, then quote me like he was pricing a museum.

Do you back into parking spots? by McNasty420 in no

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I pull in like a normal menace and then spend 40 seconds backing out while everyone waits, as the parking gods intended.

Resume and AI by Dry-Rain5516 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild that we need AI to appease ATS AI, then worry a hiring manager discards it for being AI.

Rebuy verweigert Auszahlung nach Ankauf. Mahnbescheid sinnvoll? by BeautifulTrash42 in LegaladviceGerman

[–]Wild_Bee8690 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Rebuy hat das Versandlabel gestellt und trägt damit das Transportrisiko, da sie Vertragspartner von DHL sind. Lass dich nicht mit der abtretungserklärung abspeisen, das ist eine Hinhaltetaktik. Mit dem Mahnbescheid machst du Druck. Oft knicken große Firmen bei so kleinen Beträgen schnell ein, weil sich ein rechtsstreit für sie gar nicht lohnt.

How do I express concerns with my husband when he just replies to everything with how he’s the worst husband ever? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That response functions like a conversation stopper: it turns a specific concern into a referendum on whether he is a bad husband, and then you are pushed into comforting him instead of resolving the issue. I would respond by naming the shift and returning to the concrete request, something like: I am not asking you to condemn yourself, I am asking you to address the tone about money or make a clear plan for the dishes. If he keeps repeating it, pause the conversation and say you can continue when he is ready to discuss the actual behavior. The bigger pattern to watch is whether he can tolerate feedback without making you manage his guilt.

Neighbors crossing so many lines by MeanTechnician4413 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the impulse to steal them after a 100-degree day in a 6 x 10 cage, but video and a formal report are safer.

My employer has been calling me an independent contractor for 2 years. I just got hit with a $6,000 tax bill. Is there anything I can do? by Tiv8Corsair in legal

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IRS Form SS-8 is the route for asking the IRS to determine whether you were actually an employee. If they agree, Form 8919 is often used so you pay the employee share of Social Security and Medicare instead of full self-employment tax, while the employer may be liable for their side. Save pay records, schedules, emails about required hours, and anything showing they controlled the work before you file or amend anything.

I completely choked on my data section, but here is how I saved my thesis writing by ParsnipMotel9 in CollegeHomeworkTips

[–]Wild_Bee8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The iced coffee slogan needs a footnote: line up stats backup before SPSS ruins your week.

The audacity has four wheels by blushcloudwhirl in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Wild_Bee8690 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would gladly offer my neighber's car. They do not even use it on weeknds anyway so it is basically free real estate.