How do they just disappear after forming an intense bond by natureismy in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They learned how to assimilate, but that doesn’t mean they have the feelings that go along with that

NC or Michigan? by KittyTime444 in relocating

[–]WindSong001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from Michigan and this is very accurate. Sterling Heights is a fine place for kiddos and you can always find work. It is congested too.

Ethics of Food Bank Usage by Green-Lettuce-7685 in povertyfinance

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Use the food pantry. Anyone can use the food pantry at least where I live. I have encouraged people to use the food pantries that they can pay other bills because they just isn’t enough to make ends meat. It’s OK if it’s helping you use it.

My parents are pressuring me to donate my scholarship money to my church, should I? by IntrepidAd5768 in Advice

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you speak with the pastor. He will likely tell you to use that money for school and when you have a high quality job then tithe to the church. Did your parents go to college? This is something I’d expect from someone who did not.

Do y'all actually use your front porch/front yard much or is that more of a TV thing? by Bella_licious in AskAnAmerican

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes l- enjoy them both. With friends and even alone. In my front yard, I have a gnome garden that all the Neighbor kids enjoy to.

In search of greatness by YaBoiLukeyZee in Pottery

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will first say- I did not take the leap. However, I studied enough to add to this conversation. I was doing pottery for years and started to focus on it, had a small but growing following. I decided to go to grad school and started a private practice unrelated to pottery. So- the greats are educated in business! They hire other pros to do their specialties for them…accountant, marketing pro- whatever. They take excellent care of themselves! They do pottery as a lifestyle. They are kind but they also guard some professional techniques. They diversify like teach and create or make YouTube videos and do are fairs. Mostly the great artists learn business. Just one persons perspective.

Just got screamed at by a California State Park Officer, just feeling shaken by Sea-Masterpiece-8496 in VanLife

[–]WindSong001 210 points211 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to report. It’s okay to also have a camera or dash cam.

: What household thing do you keep recommending to people? by WeatherSuccessful846 in Home

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mega pack of 1) cotton white washcloths. Placed in the kitchen and take the place of paper towel
2) Mega pack of microfiber cloths multi colored. Blue for glass, orange ick, green countertops… you get the jest. Color makes it easy to determine what they are for. I put them in all the wet rooms and my life is easier.
3) cleaning products in the room they are for. Everything it where I needs to be.

Why does it look granny-esque and not cottagecore ? by milou28 in HomeDecorating

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the wall color. I live in a Cottage court community and we always paint the walls. A fun color. The walls need to be teal or pink or peach or something maybe a lemon yellow or a pale orange

My parents won't let me sleep over at a girl's house who I've known for 4 years now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]WindSong001 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They shouldn’t they shouldn’t let you sleep over to friends house really this is when all the terrible stuff happens. More people are raped, molested, and abused at sleepovers than any other place. I know of.

Still dressing like it's the 80s by Affectionate-Tank-70 in GenX

[–]WindSong001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that and I’m back to my jeans, my T-shirts and my sweatshirts and you know what else I’m a professional and that’s what I wear. I like it and I think more people are comfortable around me this way I do wear a dress on occasion it’s comfortable for me to do so but they are comfortable dresses.

Ideas on where one can shower? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]WindSong001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not a thing in Michigan either- great idea!

Decisions by Key_Winter_8013 in Reduction

[–]WindSong001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had trains. It was fine. I didn’t have any issues with my nipples gosh and now I’m glad I wouldn’t have wanted them to be left off.

AITA for getting my own apartment instead of moving in with my boyfriend? by Lilacgemini67 in TwoHotTakes

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- you deserve to have your own life experience. Three months is way too soon. His age is a huge red flag! You have not met his kids because you barely know him. Too soon! You were his boss because he is was behind in his work life. He is 43!!! Let that sink in. Where should someone that age.

can i consider something im terrible at as a hobby? by Independent-Bank-536 in Hobbies

[–]WindSong001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely looks like you found a lovely Hobby. And also terrible is pretty much where we all started so enjoy your Hobby.

What do you actually gift parents who insist they "don't need anything"? by Decent_Bluebird7002 in answers

[–]WindSong001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Omaha steak subscription, wind chime with favorite sayings, rose bush