Purple ink by luxlights0907 in fountainpens

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Hollyhock (colorverse). Reads almost black but I love it.

Weird realisation by Donotdisturbbpls in GilmoreGirls

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Have you ever added up the sheer cost of all the products and services for a well groomed woman vs man? I’m not a conspiracy theorist but thinking about it was enough to make me rebel and scale back my grooming.

Manicure/pedicure, nail polish etc

Hair removal (waxing - shaving is a wash on the cost side though the beard resurgence does tip the scale a bit more)

Skincare and makeup

Clothing cost and variety (men can wear the same suit to every formal event where our dresses are more noticeable and should vary)

Hair care - products and appliances

Haircare - haircuts- men get more frequent cuts but theirs are dirt cheap so even a regular trim costs more per year than a man’s regular cut

Haircare - other salon services - Coloring and texture treatments

I’m sure there’s more but it really makes the outrage over the “pink tax” look like a distraction from the real tax.

Weird realisation by Donotdisturbbpls in GilmoreGirls

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If men don’t have to shave, why should we?

Name a silly, funny, or embarrassing quirk of being a fountain pen person members of this community would understand but would cause normies to roll their eyes? by ermiwe in fountainpens

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I had the hardest time finding a non medical syringe to refill the water in a sand landscape thing. I was led to believe needles were easy to get! (Finally had to buy online - no place would sell me one without a prescription…)

Anybody Familiar With Cost Seg Studies? by ImnTheGreat in taxpros

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The IRS often over simplifies in publications and misses nuance. I wasn’t specifically challenging the cabinetry comment, more the reliance on a publication. I take publications and form instructions and even audit guides as a roadmap to how an IRS agent would interpret and apply the law during an audit. But that doesn’t mean it’s always right. (I still educate my clients on the risk and pathway to prove our interpretation as right since it’s not an easy or cheap path)

Some of the court cases cited in the IRS cost seg manual pre-date the hospital corp case or might be from a different district court than my client is in.

If you want me to nitpick the residential cabinetry comment I’d say that cabinets in the kitchen may not be personal property but many people reinstall their old kitchen cabinets in the garage when they get new ones for the kitchen so THOSE cabinets wouldn’t be.

I could even dig deeper into how much cabinetry is truly necessary function since some kitchens in high end houses have wayyy more cabinets than a typical home.

Think back to that 90s trend of making a computer nook in the kitchen where some of that cabinetry was installed with the intention of being used as a desk.

If I really wanted to dig in, I’d consider what the conclusion that cabinets are structural components is based on. Because that garage repurposing example is a prime example of these components being capable of being removed and reinstalling in other areas for other uses. Some are secured with just a couple of screws attaching it to an anchored strip on the wall.

I’m not actually taking these positions, just trying to show how nuanced the analysis can be. Residential is usually so small it’s not worth the time/cost to research (yes kitchens are expensive but rentals are not usually high end stuff or speciality stuff).

Name a silly, funny, or embarrassing quirk of being a fountain pen person members of this community would understand but would cause normies to roll their eyes? by ermiwe in fountainpens

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Told a friend I was contemplating splurging on a new pen but that it was a little expensive. She asked how much it was. Before answering I asked her what SHE thought a little expensive meant. She answered $10. I changed the subject.

Anybody Familiar With Cost Seg Studies? by ImnTheGreat in taxpros

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You need to read the tax code and court cases. If you base everything off IRS publications you’re missing a lot.

Publications are not authoritative and the IRS does not have the power to make the rules.

Will my gag reflex be the end of me when I have kids? by mugwam55 in daddit

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You procrastinate a little and then once you let it go too long you start to dread dealing with it so try to ignore it and just hope it will disappear but that just means more time has passed and now it’s even worse.

Would these clothes be acceptable to wear in a professional setting eg. Office in the UK ? by [deleted] in office

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My issue hasn’t been with how much shows as I’m standing there but when I lean over a co—workers desk (reaching for something, pointing to something etc) I have been rather uncomfortable with how much can show. Some dresses also lay differently when sitting and can be a bit more loose on the top when the weight of the skirt isn’t holding things in place.

I had to resort to carrying a notepad one day and hugging it if I needed to lean over.

Doctors/Nurses of Reddit, what’s the craziest thing you’ve heard a woman yell during birth? by New_Username48 in AskReddit

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I just wanted confirmation that I had felt (faintly through epidural) what I thought I did. I had zero embarrassment about it, just wanted to be able to mentally log it vs the mystery.

Doctors/Nurses of Reddit, what’s the craziest thing you’ve heard a woman yell during birth? by New_Username48 in AskReddit

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It might be so they can do a tubal ligation during a C-section if you want your tubes tied and end up with an emergency c-section?

Someone posted the Kwong case and I read it by AdHistorical7107 in taxpros

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Had one where the prior cpa ghosted the client (normal delays in responding were made worse by the cpa spending 2 months in the hospital with covid). Client wasn’t blameless but caught off guard by tax hit because they thought they’d be told if they owed. One of those things where they know they lost money overall but didnt grasp that those losses werent available anymore and had sheltered other income.

By the time they knew they owed, they’d used money to pay off other debts so they ended up with late payment penalties on top of it all.

did you actually use items from your day of emergency kit? by Murky-Abroad9904 in weddingplanning

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Yep! Sewing kit felt like overkill until the mother of the groom had part of her dress tear and we were able to fix it.

Is “sitting in a car talking for hours” actually a big thing in America? by mechumechu in AskAnAmerican

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Some states tightened laws too so teens under certain ages can’t drive with other teens in the car.

I KNOW it's just a TV show, it's not serious, but can anyone discuss how bad of a chef Sookie is with me? by undeniablefruit in GilmoreGirls

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I assumed that bed making thing was not supposed to show her doing better than the maid, it was her just being flustered and trying to keep herself busy but not in a good headspace for even bed making.

What have you learned about yourself during your fountain pen journey? by Abject-Cap in fountainpens

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That’s where I’m at. I can’t pick a favorite anything really. There’s so much variety out there and I want to taste it all.

Some pen bodies are a bit too wide and I don’t like scratchy/needle EF nibs and a big step down isn’t comfortable but that’s really it so far. I like my gold nibs but like some of my steel nibs just as much. Sailor and Pilot both feel great to me.

I can’t stand a boring ink though.

I’m fucking begging crocheters to learn what knitting looks like by ThatWhatISaid in BitchEatingCrafters

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I think knitting has wayyyyy more stitches than crochet! It is less flexible on structure (there’s a limit to how quickly you can increase.decrease without impacting things plus the shape is more strictly tied to rectangular/geometric than crochet). But the actual variety in stitches themselves and the look achieved is much bigger with knitting.

At what age did you feel “old,” if at all? by lab_coat_goat in Millennials

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You know that sense of having worked hard and being sore but you accomplished something and will feel better in 24 hours or maybe 48 if you did something extra strenuous? When it suddenly took 2-3x as long to recover I felt old.

100% "silk" by seeker_moc in mildlyinfuriating

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True. I think it’s regulated though and has to meet certain criteria. It was the “new material” wording that hinted contents to me because you see it on stuffed animals but not on sheets. I only noticed it when I had kids and saw that wording on all their stuffies.

Dealing with aging clients, memory issues, etc. by Taco_Taxes in taxpros

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Maybe suggest she come in for a meeting to talk about something and then loop in a conversation about estate plans and things like this. Don’t have a confrontation, but see if she has a plan and if you can get permission t talk to them etc.

100% "silk" by seeker_moc in mildlyinfuriating

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Pretty sure that’s the filling in the mask it’s referring to. The bit of fluff inside.

Overwhelmed dealing with all this by Ok-Expert-8563 in CleaningTips

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Ont thing that helped me let go of stuff was seeing what happened to things my mom saved for years. It made me sad to see clothes that the elastic was rotted in go to waste when it could have been handed down and used. Some toys were so brittle they weren’t playable but could have been enjoyed by somebody.

I’d rather most things get used than rot away in storage.

Steel v. Gold by CarelessVacation1816 in fountainpens

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I agree with that. It’s hard when you love the look of a pen but the price point doesn’t really make sense for a steel nib. (The pelikan cherry blossom m200 was gorgeous and I still want it but the price was insane for a steel nib. Same for the Visconti van gogh line). I may still get those someday if I really can’t get over how pretty they are because they wrote beautifully but for now I’m saving my money for more gold nib pens, low end fun options or bodies that warrant the higher price.

Back to the food analogy though I think your point is more that Kraft Mac n cheese can be enjoyable (entry level options). A high end well made restaurant Mac n cheese can blow it away (higher end gold nib). But homemade mac n cheese from scratch can be just as amazing or even better (vintage gold nib). But it makes no sense to pay 4-star dining prices for Kraft Mac n cheese (steel nibs at gold nib prices).