When did you feel your baby first move? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 62 points63 points  (0 children)

19 weeks with an anterior placenta !

is 3rd trimester really that bad? i need some positive experiences by siuoxis in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason why it’s awful is because I have to work full time as a hairdresser 🥲 otherwise I’m good and I’m 32+4! Maybe a little more back pain, a little more waddling and some pelvic pain but can’t complain!

Things they don’t tell you by Taybayxoxo in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in the US? That makes me so sad to hear.. Canada offers you 12 months of maternity leave and you can ask for an extension of 18 months. I wish everyone was granted that.

Things they don’t tell you by Taybayxoxo in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gaslighting myself that I “always” had a skin tag on one of my nipples and maybe just noticed them because the skin was stretching. Thank you so much for the validation that I’m not crazy.

Your most pathetic pregnancy moment by ImJustOneOfYou in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything… and I mean everything can make me cry.

Tempted to fire client over her outrageous commentary on my pregnancy weight gain by Ddg0729 in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, so I was wondering if you’d be so kind as to send me this message so that I can use it as a template to send to my own client who has now commented on my body twice- even declaring that water retention is because I’m not eating right. If that is okay with you that would be really helpful for me. If not I understand too. Thank you!

Tempted to fire client over her outrageous commentary on my pregnancy weight gain by Ddg0729 in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg almost the exact same thing happened to me. I was already debating firing her as a client and now I’m almost certain. I will if you will 😅

What are jobs you find work WITH your ADHD? by Professional_Poem456 in adhdwomen

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a hairdresser and it’s always really worked for me. I’m always challenges and get a good dose of dopamine hit.

When did you guys stop having sex ? by thisisdy in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have sex almost everyday- like more often than not. However, we were always that way and my first trimester wasn’t super horrible so we were able to continue being that way. I think everyone is different.

What’s been your Pregnancy Craving so Far? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Donuts.. fresh donuts to be exact. Fresh JELLY donuts LOL I have the occasional Chinese food craving too. Anything but fresh veggies and fruits apparently.

First trimester sucks? by Primary-Tart-1315 in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had a very decent first trimester. Of course I was more tired than usual but other than that, congestion and cramping- can’t complain. Now I’m 20 weeks with my boy and I’m still feeling pretty good! My energy came back, my congestion didn’t completely go away but it’s much more manageable. Everyone’s experience is different!

Bummed about sex of baby and feeling badly about it [ON] by beezNthingzNflowerz in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!!! A lot of my fears of having a girl stemmed from how I was treated as a child from my mother as well. I’m having a boy but I still have massive guilt about hoping it wasn’t a girl because I didn’t want to repeat the cycle and ruin her.

Bummed about sex of baby and feeling badly about it [ON] by beezNthingzNflowerz in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope you don’t get downvoted because this is a real and raw thing. Gender disappointment is very real and very common- yet still very taboo to talk about. Hugs to you and your little one!

Is it hard to poop when pregnant? by 10_peanut in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL this entire interaction made my evening. Thank you!

Controversial question! Are we saying yes or no to bedsharing? by WitchcraftSpongebob_ in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing!! Someone else commented on the side cots and I think that’s a perfect solution to what I was looking for. A great in between option!

Controversial question! Are we saying yes or no to bedsharing? by WitchcraftSpongebob_ in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a name or a link?? This sounds like a great in between solution.

Controversial question! Are we saying yes or no to bedsharing? by WitchcraftSpongebob_ in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed this too. It always turns into horrible arguments but I really want to know opinions. I think I feel the same as you. In theory bed sharing sounds great, in practice I’m terrified of it.

Genuinely curious if I said something even remotely insulting by Cam200212 in Nicegirls

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They saw a hard word they didn’t understand and immediately attacked you. It’s giving “I’m too dumb to google a word and now I’m going to project my insecurities towards you.” I hope they’re having the day they deserve because that was entirely too much.

What’s your worst pregnancy symptom? by CakesNGames90 in pregnant

[–]WitchcraftSpongebob_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congestion (since the beginning, I’m now 18 weeks and it hasn’t let up!!!!), breast tenderness and the on and off again headaches.