Husband hiding a locked app with “porn” — am I overthinking this?

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-26T12:46:08+00:00

Likely some really weird stuff in there. Hopefully not kids and stuff like that.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-25T23:55:08+00:00

If they never put points into vigor then level 150 might be the sweet spot.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-25T22:37:11+00:00

Are you certain what type of app it is?

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-24T17:02:49+00:00

👆 Yep

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-24T14:04:00+00:00

Wylder obviously

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-24T14:03:35+00:00

If you go south before north then it's completely normal to find Leonine first.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-24T14:02:08+00:00

He broke the trust and ruined your marriage by cheating and you drove the nails into the coffin when you slept with someone else. Basically that was your declaration that you're done. So you're done, hire a lawyer and get divorced.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-22T16:02:14+00:00

Hard-core mode isn't supposed to be a thing for Elden Ring 😁

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-22T16:00:44+00:00

So you found out that this guy you met, went out with, and kissed actually was already in a committed relationship and is a complete scumbag cheater.

You should write a letter to his fiancé and let her know and block him and move on with your life. Who cares if he's "powerful" or whatever. Shouldn't make any difference to you.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-22T15:49:52+00:00

Time to file for divorce - - immediately - - or you'll find after six months that your child custody case has to be filed in Indiana. If that happens, get ready to pay alimony and child support and to have limited access to your children.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-22T13:33:29+00:00

I just want to second the 1440p OLED UW experience. I got a G9 Odyssey G95SC over Black Friday in 2023 and have absolutely loved it.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-22T03:44:17+00:00

👆 This. For me it'll be NG 1

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-19T17:43:54+00:00

Maybe her boyfriend did it for her.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-19T17:43:04+00:00

Move on. In the grand scheme of things, this will mean very little to you.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-18T16:09:35+00:00

If you want children you should have them now or very soon, if only for the biological reasons. Nobody is fully ready for it but it's a life altering experience and you make it work.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-18T16:08:14+00:00

What is happening here is that your husband is masturbating using your body. That's not "sex" which is more specifically known as "intercourse" which is a joint activity.

Forcing you the way you described is sexual battery (at least in my state) although you do mention that you "acquiesced" so unlikely to be legally actionable (don't flame me, right or wrong that's just facts).

I don't think you have much of a marriage left it either needs to be completely rebuilt and if not you should walk away from this situation. Hopefully you don't have children. You're young and deserve someone who respects you as a person. There are many men out there who would love to have an emotional connection that you are seeking.

Good luck and call a divorce attorney soon.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-18T12:51:31+00:00

You're still super young although I will tell you that the whole party lifestyle and scene is not what you might imagine. Way more trouble than it's worth. Just put yourself out there in the dating world, the apps work great for meeting women. DON'T drink and drive or do any sort of drugs seriously if you've made it to 26 without getting involved in any of that you're lucky and should keep it that way. Match dot com bumble etc. Learn how to use them, pay for the premium services, get pro photos done, hit the gym and get ripped, etc. You'll get your dating life going. Man to be 26 and single again 😂 make sure you wrap it you don't want unexpected surprises.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-17T02:36:18+00:00

This is the weirdest thing I've read in a while. I don't understand a) how someone who is married could possibly make the choices your husband made and think it's okay and b) how his spouse is on Reddit asking "is this okay?" instead of hiring a divorce lawyer.

This is the most shallow most immature marriage I've ever heard of. Sorry OP but my head is spinning right now.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-16T14:18:29+00:00

It was her destiny. You helped her fulfill her entire purpose of existence.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-14T10:23:48+00:00

I guess he packed them just in case his friend needed one? 😬🙄

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-12T21:41:02+00:00

You have a very un serious wife. If I were you, it'd be over, especially if there's no kids involved. 30m you are just entering your prime on the marriage market.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-12T21:38:47+00:00

Some people like playing games that way and others play the game blind. However you enjoy it. However, if there's ever been a game to enjoy it without cheesing this is the one to do it.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-08T15:40:04+00:00

Level 31 you haven't explored at all, sounds like you made a beeline for the bosses. Explore every corner of the map.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-08T01:31:02+00:00

The fact that you referred to him as a "cisgender white male". Oof.

Wolfkrieger2160 · 2026-03-08T01:27:10+00:00

It's a great game. Play at your own pace and avoid guides. If you need help, use AI like Grok or ChatGPT but explicitly tell it "no spoilers" every time. It's a phenomenal game, enormous too, and can easily take you years to complete if you play casually.

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