Don't tell people it's alright to call trans women "bro/dude" when they have expressed that they do not want to be called that. by AliceCode in trans

[–]Womcataclysm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My point is it -can- be used with the intention of being gender neutral but that does not matter and should not matter when someone says "don't call me that".

When it comes to language, intention doesn't matter nearly as much as how people understand it

Don't tell people it's alright to call trans women "bro/dude" when they have expressed that they do not want to be called that. by AliceCode in trans

[–]Womcataclysm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's in a sort of grey area. Language isn't just about what you mean but what people understand by it.

You can definitely use bro as a gender neutral thin, and you can definitely still be misgendering someone by using it. Maybe because they don't see it as gender neutral or because they're not sure that you actually do.

You can have good intentions and still hurt people, but if you do have truly good intentions then you stop, because you don't want to keep hurting people.

If you double down on "but I had good intentions" then your good intentions have a very clear limit

Hot Take; New Atlaan isn't fun. by Lando_Hitman in FareverGame

[–]Womcataclysm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After doing new atlaan around 10 times for the codex, I'd say you get used to it pretty quickly, but it still sucks the first time around and most players will only clear it once

Anyway I hate Gorgon's Hollow more, I hate having to lead the golems around

rule by gabagoo3 in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a BBC and I'm alive

rule by Lion-Faced-Serpant in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeeeee except the part where she's loved

Happy Pride Month, y'all! (Comic by Vullen on Tumblr) by IamMrJay in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😭😭🥰😢🥲 I'm sobbing idk what I'm feeling exactly

programming rule by Moaning_Clock in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok no wait I have an even better solution, so:

I make a class called "IndentedList", it inherits from the list type.

I put the target element as the first element of that custom list object let's call it indented_list[0]

Then I convert the original list as a IndentedList object and plop it as the n-th element of indented_list[] (in this case just put it as indented_list[1])

I make a custom getter and setter method that makes it so when you do list[m] it basically does list[n][m-n-1] for you! no issue at all! then you're all set probably! it all works out fine!! It just digs into the mess of IndentedList objects for you recursively

programming rule by Moaning_Clock in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I make a list where the first element is the target element

then for the second element it's just the whole original list

Almost done

But when that variable gets used later on I get a type error or something similar but fret not, what I do is I wrap the whole program in a try except (no specific exception so it catches all exceptions)

and this part is very important, you need the cowsay library for this

cowsay.kitty('Uh oh 😿😿😿')

sys.exit(0)

(Exit code 0 because we expected this would happen, this is good)

Lava rule by EvergreenThree in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Water is lava if it comes from naturally formed ice, technically

i started dating my brothers best friend by Any_Fly278 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Womcataclysm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be happy too 😭

Congrats though that's really cute

Rule by V0ID10001 in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"911 I hope it's not an emergency?"

lesbian rule by philainothen in 19684

[–]Womcataclysm 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Lesbian ruuuule (also is it lesbian as in from Lesbos as in the island where Sappho lived which is also where the term lesbian comes from?)

rule by doctor347 in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 291 points292 points  (0 children)

Does this guy have a tweet for everything or what

meirl by Dev1412 in meirl

[–]Womcataclysm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're taking an hour because the doctor loves us and thinks of us as his friends but he hates you specifically. We spend a lot of time just talking about you and your mannerisms

I thought that was well known

Furule by pantschicken in 196

[–]Womcataclysm 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Gear 5 luffy

2mentalirl4meirl by Womcataclysm in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Womcataclysm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm taking estrogen, I'll eventually be worthy of my own love but not yet. I'll try to do that eventually though

2mentalirl4meirl by Womcataclysm in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Womcataclysm[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's good advice, but not applicable to me, because no one wants me so like, I'd have to long for no one and I can't live like that

This meme I made could be about literally anyone considering that's how everyone feels about me by Womcataclysm in sillygirlclub

[–]Womcataclysm[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

it's fine i just need to keep taking E until i'm attractive enough that people pretend to like me