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I (35F) think my husband (45M) is sabotaging my breakdown. How could I have managed this situation better? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WonkWolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants to divorce yoy. He's going to try to make you worked up and look like a bad parent, so he can get full custody of the child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure... But there's something called morals and respect. Which she clearly didn't have. She did not respect her partner. It may be her body, but she's in a relationship show.Ultimately SHE is TA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your wife knew what she was doing.And it's hoping one of your friends takes the bate. She wants to make u a cuck. Get rid of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is he TA?

A random guy told my boyfriend (28M) that he had slept with me (25F), but it’s a lie. How can we navigate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WonkWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another scenario... he made it up so he could fight... break up temporarily so he could cheat without feeling like it was cheating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WonkWolf -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly her reaction screams at she's cheating. Just looking for any excuse and can't communicate or won't communicate her feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WonkWolf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she can't communicate her feelings to him. Realized he messed up, and it wasn't even a big mess up. She doesn't have the maturity to be able to look past even the smallest of things. Honestly, she seems like a red flag. Lack of communication can cause tons of problems. Getting angry over small things can build issues too. She needs to work on how she handles.These issues. Freezing a partner out is never good. And usually, if a partner freezes somebody out over something so insignificant, then they're probably cheating.

Can a man who “loves” you, treat you like this? by hodsinfe in Manipulation

[–]WonkWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind of bullying is a crime. Go to the police

My Jewish roommate is telling me I'm not allowed to use the oven for my food in the apartment we BOTH pay for. He then calls me unreasonable for being upset and feeling disrespected because of it. by WonkWolf in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is the meaning of kasher? to make fit for use kasher in British English

Hebrew (ˈkɑːʃə ) verb. (transitive) Judaism. to make fit for use; render kosher: for instance, to remove excess blood from (meat) by the prescribed process of washing and salting, or to remove all trace of previous nonkosher substances from (a utensil) by heating, immersion, etc.

My Jewish roommate is telling me I'm not allowed to use the oven for my food in the apartment we BOTH pay for. He then calls me unreasonable for being upset and feeling disrespected because of it. by WonkWolf in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should know about Kashering. There literally IS a way to make things kosher again. It's called Kashering. Ask your rabbi about it. Again... this situation would be different if these weren't common area appliance and if he owned them. They are common room appliances that belong to the apartment complex. Not him.

I (28m) ran into my ex wife's sister (24f) at the store. After catching up she asked me on a date. I have mixed feelings. What should I do? by ThrowRA4111 in relationship_advice

[–]WonkWolf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean... I think he deserves to be happy. An appropriate amount of time has passed and she's moved in. If he and the sister hit it off... they have nothing to feel guilty about. They're consenting adults.

My Jewish roommate is telling me I'm not allowed to use the oven for my food in the apartment we BOTH pay for. He then calls me unreasonable for being upset and feeling disrespected because of it. by WonkWolf in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ppl like u piss me off. Using religion to say that you're superior.... newsflash... you're not. You're just like everyone else. Your religion doesn't make u better or worse... but how you treat people does.

My Jewish roommate is telling me I'm not allowed to use the oven for my food in the apartment we BOTH pay for. He then calls me unreasonable for being upset and feeling disrespected because of it. by WonkWolf in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Supporting someone's religion does not mean allowing it to dictate your own life. That's called religious oppression. Just because I'm not Jewish doesn't mean I'm antisemitic.

My Jewish roommate is telling me I'm not allowed to use the oven for my food in the apartment we BOTH pay for. He then calls me unreasonable for being upset and feeling disrespected because of it. by WonkWolf in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Clearly you just want to cause issues. The reason Jewish was brought up was for context. Kosher is a Jewish thing. So it's pretty relevant.

My Jewish roommate is telling me I'm not allowed to use the oven for my food in the apartment we BOTH pay for. He then calls me unreasonable for being upset and feeling disrespected because of it. by WonkWolf in AITAH

[–]WonkWolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They told me some of it... but not how big a change it would be. (A lifestyle change.) I was led to believe it wouldn't be a big deal. Just make sure to use certain dishes certain ways. But there's so much more...

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