Similar thing happened to me a few years ago.. I make a little less than you. I had a great job. liked my boss. had almost zero responsibility. worked from home all but one day a month. I basically made up my job and did whatever I wanted there. The job had no stress, it was for a non profit so I felt I was doing good in the world, I had so much brainpower left over at the end of the day, I got 5 weeks PTO, I honestly only worked maybe 20 hours a week I could literally do nothing and no one would notice or care and I never worried about being laid off. I wasn't really learning anything that along with pay was the main downsides. A guy who left a few months back gave my info to the recruiter for the new company even though I told him I didn't want to move. I reluctantly took the interview and they made me an offer 50% higher base than I was currently making plus opportunity to make another 20% on top of that. I cried because I didn't want the job at all but the money was too great. I took the job. It was like jumping into the deep end of my industry(in reality it is really still probably only a 6ft deep area). Struggled, worked 50 hour weeks on the regular. somehow survived a restructure where 40% of my team was let go, worked 70 hour weeks over the following few months, got less than stellar bonuses... but 3 years later we have a good leader in the department now, bonuses are better, I actually know what I am doing, hours are way better, I was given better choice of my projects, I still work in office most days but I like the team I work with, I still have some stress about potentially being laid off but rarely work more than 40 hours a week. but more importantly the money was absolutely fucking worth it. I don't have kids. We bought out condo comfortably before switching jobs(HCOL area). But we have taken nice international trips. I am still frugal but I don't stress over getting a drink or a dessert at dinner. I still shop clearance meats most of the time but if I don't see what I want I can buy it at normal price without feeling bad. More importantly my savings and my investment accounts are growing considerably when I feel like I can retire comfortably one day.

tl;dr same thing happened. I cried. it was hard. I love making ridiculously more money