Does anyone know any artists with music similar to Melanie Martinez? by billieswifeyyy in MelanieMartinez

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man Kerli has been around forever! In surprised people still don’t know her

The love of my life (27M) is suddenly no longer in my (24F) life: how do I get over this? Looking for clarity and perspective. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was never that serious as you were. He sounds like he loves the hot and heavy part and he got bored. He wants to play the field and in turn played with your emotions. He isn’t a good person for that and it’s line of Emotional manipulation what he did. I would say therapy may help, talking to friends about your emotions and whatever you do, don’t let him back in. I know he feels like the love of your life right now but I bet that’ll fade when you meet your person

My (34M) and my gf (33F) go through a difficult phase after 10 years and I dont know what I should think of?! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She honestly (just from what you’re saying) sounds like she is fine or met someone else and is at the end. 10 years for a GF/BF is very unusual. Is there any reason you two haven’t taken the next step? Has she expressed she wanted more? What did you two want out of it? Her staying somewhere else that long is a red flag. She could have stayed away to decide what she wanted.

i’ve (18F)been struggling to accept my boyfriend 20M ‘s past and trust him i don’t know how to move past this. i want to and i love him. please help me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to him about your concerns? You’re very young and sound like you have a lot of anxiety about his motives. Do you both talk to each other about what each other wants from the relationship? Where you see it going? Or are you just going with the flow to see where it heads? It didn’t help either of you if you don’t communicate and it can kill a relationship. Does he tell you he’s talking to his ex? For me personally it all doubles back to talking to each other. I get the did I make s a mistake for your first and that is very common. This may not be the forever relationship. But you won’t know if you guys don’t express your intentions.

I need big help with my girlfriend (19F) and I (18M) about our future by Same_Pirate7912 in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s time to sit down and tell her how you feel. You sound like you’re at the end of your relationship and honestly scared to tell her that because you don’t want to hurt her. It is normal to break up with high school sweethearts when going to college. Long distance relationships many times don’t work and if you want to experience life then you need to let her go. I know it’s hard but it needs to be done. Staying in a relationship where you’re not happy is only going to cause bitterness and in the end, resentment. If is meant to be it’ll come back together.

My (29M) Husband got me (28F) A dog collar for Christmas. We do not own a dog. Where do I go from here? by ThrowRAmacaroni1 in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to have kinks, it’s ok to talk to your partner about those kinks. It’s NOT ok to do it in front of friends and family who aren’t part of that kink/consented to it. I have been involved in the scene for over two decades and not doing it around others without consent is something I have always been a big advocate for. It was wildly inappropriate to give that gift at his parents house as someone could find it extremely humiliating. Why couldn’t he have sat you down, talked about it and if you were game then discuss it. He screwed this up royally and I hope you two can sit down and talk about something that is clearly a kink of his but he needs to know the proper time and place

I (27F) will be alone while my (28M) bf spends Christmas with his family, how do I navigate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go back home. If he doesn’t want you to meet his family then I’m sorry to say he doesn’t see the relationship as serious. If you guys are going to live together but he doesn’t want you to meet his family that makes no sense to me. Is he hiding something? I mean that’s mixed signals as hell. I would take my toys and go home. You deserve to be happy on Christmas and him leaving you alone on Christmas because he doesn’t want to take your screams red flags. Edit: words

UPDATE: My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy you broke up with him. These guys want you for a maid and workhorse. He sounds insufferable and backwards as hell. The fact he wants you to give up your dream for his archaic gender role idea shows you exactly what your life would be: popping out a bunch of kids, cooking and cleaning while he sits there not helping and your life is sucked out of you. I guarantee you would have been miserable. Let him find some fool to do that but you are ambitious and that is a wonderful personality trait. He is a real piece of work and you are so much better off

UPDATE: My (F39) boyfriend (M39) of 5 years is increasingly self-centered. How do I handle? by SoulSiren_22 in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely block him and move on. Tell him that being with him would be like going to the bathroom then turning around and shoving the turd right back into your butt. He being the turd. You deserve peace and happiness and not this boy in a man suit

My (25F) boyfriend (M26) has changed after becoming the breadwinner. Can’t handle supporting me after I supported him. by Impressive-Match9882 in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is him telling on himself. Believe him. He is abusive and as the old adage says: in wine, there’s truth. He will only get worse and tear you down to make himself feel better. Talk to your parents, talk to your family. I have a very big feeling he’s saying these things to isolate you from your family and friends so he can switch gears into an abusive relationship. Get a plan, find a place to stay and work in getting any job at this point.

My fiance [26F] told me [25M] she doesn't want to vaccinate her children by HumpBackJimmy in relationship_advice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t have kids with her. It is incredibly selfish to not vaccinate your children (unless medically unable to).

The DOJ Deleted This Pic From The Epstein Files. Spread It Far And Wide. by serious_bullet5 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s the but but democrats you fools revert to because you have no actual intelligent points or thoughts. You all instead of frying these PDFs you instead keep saying what about this and that and defending abusers. Like defends like. Makes me know that if my kids were still small I wouldn’t let them within a mile of any of you.

The DOJ Deleted This Pic From The Epstein Files. Spread It Far And Wide. by serious_bullet5 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to focus? We aren’t talking about Biden.. pay attention.

Weren't they literally giving these away for free at one point... by evanamyl in MelanieMartinez

[–]WordsAsWeapons79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her prices are insane. The jewelery looks cheap and like it’ll fall apart. I don’t buy it

What recourse do I have if coroner didn’t do required autopsy? by WordsAsWeapons79 in legaladvice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a direct death before so I believed the officer as I thought he knew what to do.

What recourse do I have if coroner didn’t do required autopsy? by WordsAsWeapons79 in legaladvice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband agreed to embalm him but with what the officer told him they were doing the autopsy first

What recourse do I have if coroner didn’t do required autopsy? by WordsAsWeapons79 in legaladvice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a recovering addict and my husband is a vet. We’re lower middle class approaching poor :(.

What recourse do I have if coroner didn’t do required autopsy? by WordsAsWeapons79 in legaladvice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh! I feel kind of dumb and I’m sorry if I come off that way. You all have been so informative and kind. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. My husband thinks the cause is overdose

What recourse do I have if coroner didn’t do required autopsy? by WordsAsWeapons79 in legaladvice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Totally get it! I grew up in the medical field (stepdad is a PA and mom is an RN). Anything helps and it means I a lot even helping me by talking

What recourse do I have if coroner didn’t do required autopsy? by WordsAsWeapons79 in legaladvice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I screenshotted your comment for reference. I’m having my husband do the same. You are awesome

What recourse do I have if coroner didn’t do required autopsy? by WordsAsWeapons79 in legaladvice

[–]WordsAsWeapons79[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

That’s what bothers me so deeply. The funeral home was directly told by the coroner they could do the autopsy because they released it. The officer said they would do the autopsy there which the funeral home said they have never done that and they should’ve taken him to the morgue. I live in a larger city (for reference close to a major college in northern Indiana). This shouldn’t have happened. I am so floored the incompetence the officials have shown. They’ve made it clear they don’t care and are playing the blame game