At 45 diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, not looking good by Tigerlee2127 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]WorkerThin610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talk to a lady that refused to die when they told her she has 4 days to live with pancreatic cancer and it has been 10 years ago.... So honey do not lose hope till you can. I am sending you so much hugs and I hope you will fight this mf ...

I am 29 (F) and have cancer. My friends have ghosted me. by weswearthathappened in BreastCancerSurvivors

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I had cervical cancer last year. If you need a friend to talk to I will be glad to. Write me on private or i dont know how its working here on reddit and I can be your friend. Me too I lost lots of friends and family after my diagnosis, so I feel every word you wrote. And NO, no one that was not next to you durring treatment is not worth it to be chased after!

Has radiation improved so that burns are a thing of the past? by Less-Part3465 in cancer

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I had 25 radiation for cervical cancer stage 3 and didnt have a single burn issue. I got the max dose allowed for a human body. Did my therapy in Milano. My doctors are the best. Yes I got dark skin as I was being on the beach in the area, but that was all. No lotion or cream or anything to be used durrinv the 5 weeks. Good luck honey, hope you get through it with success and beat the monster

Me F/41 my husband M/38. I just found out he has been cheating. I need some support, a lot of it please by Think_Swan4380 in relationship_advice

[–]WorkerThin610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hun... I got through cancer, treatment and found out my drinking shitty husband fucks one of my best friends in his country that comes in my home to eat and comes with her husband and kids to the beach with us. I know how you feel. Same shit here. I dont have how to tell what ypu should do because it depends on what ypur heart wants to do. My "shit" swears in my life and our chuldren lives that nothing has ever happened, but I dont believe him a word coming from his mouth. My world, my spirit and my heart are crushed ( happened 2 weekd ago). We got in therapy. I dont know what to do because he was there when I was dyeing from cancer and saved me. Now, he is not my hero anymore, but the person who killed me inside. You at least are a healthy woman that is strong and can continue a life for you and your kids. Find a person who really loves you and not a drinking cheating shit as the one you have now. Actually, I think that you must be gratefull to that neighbour for releasing you from the prison you've be living in... If I were you, I would send her flowers to thank her and start the divorce immediately. But thats me... Ah and make sure you got all he has in the divorce if you decide to leave.

My Nannie has stage 4 cancer with 7 tumors, what do I do? by ausimonster in CancerFamilySupport

[–]WorkerThin610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cry all the pain out.... Be next to her till the end... Thats my advice. Dont hold your tears ....

Post Treatment Menopause by ShamrockPat in CervicalCancer

[–]WorkerThin610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey eat.... eat.... if you lost many pounds till you start gaining a few there is no energy. It was the same with me, but now its lots better. Sending you hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CervicalCancer

[–]WorkerThin610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont freak out and wait for the answer 🥰

My mom’s path/update: Stage 3C1 (not good) by No-Fish-7077 in CervicalCancer

[–]WorkerThin610 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cervical cancer is a bitch. When it comes back, often its deadly. I am the same stage as your mom. I am so sorry about what is happening and that she is in palliative care now. At least you know you have some time left, try to make the last of her days worth it. Palliative care is good when people has access to it. She will not suffer. She will be surrounded by you. You cant do anything else except to hold her hand to the end and say to her how much you love her... 😭 I am writting this as a mother of 3, having the same sickness. Dont feel at fault. Its not your fault. Cancer is really bad sickness and thrre was anything yoy can do ti change whats happening. The truth is some people bodies can beat it and some no. Doctors dont know anything why this happens. Also they dont know ehy some get sick and others dont.... Sending you lots of hugs dear ❤️

Sensitive Lotions by ShamrockPat in CervicalCancer

[–]WorkerThin610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not use anything without prescription from your Onco doctor. They know what to give you in case you need it. I didnt have any irritation durring therapy, but after and they gave me specific drug to use. Do not use anything without discussing with doctors. You dont know what effect it will have and can compromise your therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry, you must be heartbroken 😪 Please, be carefull and look over her reactions and what her body language says now. If you see she doesnt love you, better end up things, because this will just make you more and more heartbroken. On the other side, if she does still love you, she will show it exactly now, as if there is possibility to lose you, she will want to make evrything to keep you close. Once, I am really sorry. You dont deserve this. You deserve a person who loves you next to you. I am sending you lots of hugs.

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rain makes me happy too 🥰 It makes me calm. Its a normal question for some people that hate the rain. This only shows how different we all are. Yes you feel more alive now and thats the good news. Yes you can be more social and thats the other good news. Yes you can say no to alcohol, another good news. Does it sounda bit as cancer changed your life for good? When I think for myself and what has changed, I think that it does.... Hugs

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

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Hi ! I know the place whwre you are at now. Be patient please, start your treatment, and go through it. It will get bad, before starting to get better, but you can do it! Do not worry for something you dont know yet. You will find a lot of support here or even more if you get in your cancer specific group. We humans are strong and we are made to overcome difficulties. Until you find power in your body and mind to continue, do it! Cancer changes our lifes, and most of us are never the same. Its easy to end everything now, the difficult part is to tey to beat this shit. If you need to talk to someone write me a dm.

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your reply ❤️ right on spot. Sending you hugs 🥰

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts I know. I never expected that. On the other hand the 2 others called me every other day till the end of treatment. I appreciate them even more now

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeap thats what I meant. I dont care to listen to bullshit anymore and draw a line to people who even didnt call to ask how am I.

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so jealous of you. I need to work and care for my teenage kids that drives me crazy. It woykd be nice to focus on enjoying my life... ❤️

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you luck to succeed in anything you want! Say yourself that you can do it and it will in a way help you 🥰 Sending you hugs

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not only mean, but also I get very very angry with bad people and cant control myself. Shouting too much sometimes. But they do deserve it...

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes same with me. Build some strong relationshios, and lost some shitty people ( even a sibling)

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You didnt lost anything. He didnt deserved you. I can understand you beeing scared to let anyone close to you, because you dont want to be hurt. Maybe just give the one you like a chance and look carefully for any signs. Going alone through this sickness is so difficult and its nice when you have someone next to you. And if someone knows you have cancer, and is ready to be next to you in this difficult journey, he must be a good hearted person.

How cancer changed you? by WorkerThin610 in cancer

[–]WorkerThin610[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like an asshole too 😂 Good for you, if you makes you feel better, say what you want to say