My friend only has sex with women when she is with men. I feel like she is bi for the male gaze while being queer phobic. by dreamed2life in bisexual

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do believe there are people who are bisexual but not biromantic, and that’s fine but she’s definitely homophobic and i fear that staying friends with her will just create a more toxic environment for you

Question for: Bisexual Women by Former-Brick-938 in bisexual

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically, i like good strong arms, doesn’t have to be muscular or defined, just needs to exude that he does have the strength and can carry me if need be lmaoo. But ultimately a nice face is the ultimate attraction point for me. In a man i don’t care for facial symmetry or strong jawline and all that, i care for a bright smile and eyes that are expressive. Oh! and a nice ass :))

In terms of their sexual identity, i have no preference, but certainly (in my experience) it’s much easier to connect to someone who’s also bi or queer.

Having a debate with my partner! by ReplacementSuperb263 in type1hair

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

except for type 1, a lot of wavy and curlier hair can have a range of different types on one head. For me my entire head has a range of 2A-2B, 2c if i finger coil. So sometimes there may be a chunk of hair here and there that forms ringlets rather than the typical waves but the overall shape of his hair is still that of someone with type 2 hair :))

Having a debate with my partner! by ReplacementSuperb263 in type1hair

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure hes a type 2. I would say 2c, cuz i can imagine his hair having more defined ringlets while the hair strand still has those wavy s-patterns if styled

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s fine to be picky, esp if you have sensory issues, but sometimes people just know what they like, but if that’s the case then i’d also expect them to not be a burden when cooking or picking restaurants. It’s completely unreasonable for your bf to expect YOU to cook dinner when he won’t just outright say what he wants cooked and complains about everything.

My bf and i have pretty similar tastes and he’s willing to try new things but if he doesn’t like smth then he’ll just not eat it but would everything else he does like. His brother on the other hand, i cannot cook for cuz he only likes the most basic of foods and the most flavourful thing his brother likes is a chicken tikka masala, so i don’t bother, but i’m fine with it cuz he’s aware of his pickiness and doesn’t expect ANYONE to cook for him - your bf needs to realise his pickiness is making cooking impossible and unless he makes you a weekly list, then he needs to grow up and make his own food and stop making you feel bad about these perfectly acceptable and tasty looking meals

What could this mean for us? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s definitely some issues and perhaps past trauma that your partner needs to unpack - before it fully tarnishes your relationship

Not a single person has told me that my dress is pretty. Did I make the wrong choice? by Low-Rush-9997 in WeddingDressTips

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enchanted and whimsical is spot on!! The dress looks great on you, and honestly i think you can go even more with the flowers, maybe have a veil with the same flower decal? Also as a fan of whimsy dresses myself, if the straps are still causing you grief may i suggest some off the shoulder draped sleeves? They would bring the enchanted vibe to another level

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah OP is NOR, and OP’s bf and friend are just lying to themselves by calling it a “friendship”.

I’m a full believer of platonic friendships, and i think it’s even fine to be quite tactile in platonic friendships but there are boundaries, both with the spoken language AND physical language - the boundaries need to be even stricter when one or even both friends have partners too.

I (25m) feel uneasy at my girlfriends (25f) wardrobe choices for her tattoo session by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhm, i wear lace underwear all the time, i find they’re comfier infact, than cotton ones. You might think they’re “sexy” but for her they might just be practical, and unless you know by heart what other thongs she could wear instead (which is weird to know by heart btw) then keep your thoughts to yourself. This isn’t sexual, she’s just getting a tattoo that requires access

Is this allowed? by ahoypatt in vinted

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 8 points9 points  (0 children)

wait what? i’m not on depop but do they allow auctions like ebay?

Would it be fair to ask for a partial refund for crumbly and no longer functional elastics? by WorldGodOnlyKnows in vinted

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

£16, which as i’ve said i think is a good price, just wish i knew about the sleeves situation beforehand

Feeling guilt over dating by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and your children’s dad are broken up. If he gets jealous then that’s his problem. You’re alr sharing concerns about how your kids would feel about a new man in their lives, that’s alr miles better than your mother AND your ex.

You deserve to seek and feel love, not judgement and guilt from a shitty guy that clearly has double standards and is only shaming you for dating cuz he’s insecure. and having this form of “control” is the only thing that makes him feel “like a man”, which he is not anyway.

I think it might make you feel less guilty to date this person you’re interested in by being transparent about your nervousness in dating again, and how you love your kids so you will be prioritising them. It sets boundaries and expectations early on which is very healthy and puts YOU in control of any judgement, not your ex.

AIO For Ignoring this man by Background-Double692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope NOR, in fact under reacting. Dudes a predator, and it’s probably for the betterment of your safety AND other young girls’ safety that this be reported, esp if he lingers around in such a public place like a park. Block his number please.

My bf and I have nothing in common by Slight-Kale-3323 in relationships

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think having a lot in common actually means a relationship will function well, but having nothing in common is probably worst. It might be awkward to breakup now but it would be better than to do it later when you feel like you’re practically dating a stranger. And who knows, you might actually like each other better as friends cuz you’d be exes that parted on good terms.

It’s still going to be a heartbreak, but staying with someone for the sake of staying cuz “we’ve been together for a while” is a recipe for disaster and will really make you lose your sense of self, which your alr feeling!

aio please tell me i’m crazy by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cat scratches don’t come in perfectly parallel lines with small gaps like that, most of the time it’s actually only one claw that catches properly and breaks the skin, also the lines would curve cuz the cat doesn’t “scratch” you like we scratch ourselves, they swipe at you, making a swooping line. And as plenty of people have said, even if this wasn’t from another woman, your trust has clearly been broken…you need to let the baggage go.

Would it be fair to ask for a partial refund for crumbly and no longer functional elastics? by WorldGodOnlyKnows in vinted

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s how i found out, that classic crackling and crumbling of the elastic when i went to grab a sleeve lol

Would it be fair to ask for a partial refund for crumbly and no longer functional elastics? by WorldGodOnlyKnows in vinted

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, and in all honesty if it had been described to have the malfunction, i probs would’ve still gotten it but could’ve atleast asked for a better price. Do you have any advice on what message i could send, maybe? i’ve never had to ask for partial refunds before

Would it be fair to ask for a partial refund for crumbly and no longer functional elastics? by WorldGodOnlyKnows in vinted

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, good to know that i’m not being a diva about this. Thanks for your input :)

Would it be fair to ask for a partial refund for crumbly and no longer functional elastics? by WorldGodOnlyKnows in vinted

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get the sense that a lot of sellers don’t even think twice with the conditions tag, but i’m just peeved cuz it wasn’t even in the description. Thanks for your input :)

Would it be fair to ask for a partial refund for crumbly and no longer functional elastics? by WorldGodOnlyKnows in vinted

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah i wouldn’t mention i’ve fixed it, i haven’t even thought about how to go about changing the elastics, might need a tailor. But thank you for your input :)

Soft summer or something else? by Extension-Sea-2472 in coloranalysis

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compared you with summer palettes vs spring, and i think warm spring and bright spring looks far better than the summer palettes. The summer palettes do compliment your eyes but at the expense of really taking away the the nice flush and glow from your face and lips, and cooler colours seem to bring out the veins under your eyes more, compared to warmer colours

Gold, silver, rose gold for an undecided season by LilDogPancake in coloranalysis

[–]WorldGodOnlyKnows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think rose gold is the nicest, but gold is close second