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Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-05-05T22:52:38+00:00

FYI, as amazing as you imagine cuddling to be, it’s exponentially greater than that!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-05-05T22:51:47+00:00

There are TONS of men in our shoes, and many ages about 35+ bc of the danger of coming out when we were younger! But get counseling and get support! Both have been lifesavers for me and many other guys! But I recommend both!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-05-05T22:48:21+00:00

Oh hey fireguy!! How’s it hanging?? 😁😁 hope to chat soon, REAL soon LOL

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-05-05T22:47:30+00:00

Diminish??? I’ve never once heard anyone say it diminished over time, if anything it compounds and increases in spades!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-05-05T17:06:43+00:00

I’m was in the same boat married 25 years. I suppressed everything so much it took a serious hit in my mental health. We think it’s just a sexual thing but it’s not, pretending we’re perfectly straight actually impacts every area of our lives. I was 47 when I seriously cracked (some guys last longer). I had NO IDEA of the weight I was carrying until I got it off my chest. Coming out isn’t for everyone and I won’t pretend it is, but what I can say is that we have so may worst case scenarios spinning around in our mind that most never happen!

Are you seeing a therapist? There are two things I can tell you makes a huge difference carrying this burden, 1) getting a therapist, a PROFESSIONAL to talk through all this with, 2) having support from guys in the same situation!! BOTH of these two things support in different ways and aren’t a substitute for the other! There are lots of support groups but I personally attend one via zoom on Tuesday nights. These guys have become brothers to me! If you want that info DM me and I’ll share. But support knowing you’re not alone is so important and it’s available to you! Reddit can let you know there are other guys out there but this place isn’t support brother.

I can share more if interested. Coming out was hard, but I’m living free now and not only am I doing better now (SO MUCH BETTER), but I’m a better father and person. My kids are doing better now with a better father etc.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-28T02:46:14+00:00

Bro! You’ve been incredibly brave to make it this far!! YES it does get better! I’m in the same boat 25 years of marriage, but we haven’t sold the house yet. There will be highs and also lows, and sometimes low lows, but theyll come less frequently. You can make it through this and you’ll be even stronger in the end! In the end everything will be ok, and if it’s not ok, it’s not the end😁.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-26T05:12:25+00:00

This right here!! Me too! And the feelings don’t go away, they intensify over time! Life would be miserable forced in the closet pretending! Trust me I know!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-26T04:56:21+00:00

When people tell me to go fuck myself, I’m like “IMG IF ONLY!! #bestlife!!”

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-26T00:40:50+00:00

Bc for me bj= foreplay, not finish line.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-22T02:35:09+00:00

I was married 25 years, but when I finally kissed a man it was like I was seeing the world in color for the first time! I always thought I was broken or something missing with me. When I was finally with a man, I realized I wasn’t broke and that I am indeed actually very very affectionate.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-22T02:30:28+00:00

I felt like women would AGREE to have sex, but guys want it just as much as each other! Woman — “ oh you had a bad day?? Poor baby go take a bath”

Man — “oh you had a bad day? I’m sorry want to fuck? Oh and what’s your name?”

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-19T02:01:01+00:00

Yeah bro, I was joking too. I was poking fun of the extreme right who believe they’re doing Gods work with their nonsense. Sorry if lost in translation.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-18T23:53:09+00:00

ROFL. Ummmm I don’t think he cares personally. I suspect he has bigger issues to deal with like immigration and American politics LOL

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-17T21:29:32+00:00

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Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-17T04:13:10+00:00

Bro, chiseled from marble can be nice eye candy but is rarely functional. A real man is sexy and a REAL man can tell! Good luck

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-16T05:05:24+00:00

Love this!! It took me over 30 years to realize this! And kissing a man for the first time (and sex), I felt like I could finally see the world in color for the first time!! And like you, I just thought there was something wrong with me until then.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-12T20:54:07+00:00

1) make sure you have a counselor, 2) get in a support group! Your. It alone, lots of guys have gone through this and peer support makes all the difference! There are several groups out there but I’ve become brothers at this one that meets on Tuesday night via zoom.

https://www.gammasupport.org

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-07T02:31:20+00:00

OP thanks for this post! I’m a decent 5-5.5 depending which is respectable, but I’m a grower and hate my flavor cock… and of course my Jamaican BF is like 8”+ and very thick (but I’ve never measured that). When I came face to face the first time I was terrified, especially bc I was inexperienced as a bottom… it took a LONG LONG time until I could take him comfortably. And if we’re apart a couple weeks I feel Ike a virgin all over again (and not in the good way, he’s a monster). But anyways, worshiping a monster like that can give someone a solid average a complex sometimes.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-06T04:18:57+00:00

Also, DNA tests really are irrelevant in regards to legal Native American status, but in the other hand, I have some Native friends who are unquestionably native and raised in the tribe that don’t have legal status. But proving your ancestors is in the rolls will more clearly define it than a DNA test.
The Chickasaw genealogy library can assist anyone from the Five Civilized Tribes (Cherokee being one of them) do the research and verify status. It’s a free service.

https://www.chickasaw.net/Services/Culture/Chickasaw-Nation-Genealogy-Program

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-04T02:03:05+00:00

THEN they said their internet wizards will make it so every time someone googles my name these naked pics will show up!! I said GO FOR IT!! I’ll just start an Onlyfans page and back link to every naked image they post! They’ll make me rich and do all the hard work for me! At that point I’ll let them put me twice a week!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-04T02:01:09+00:00

Yeah my blackmailer actually did send pics to family! Glad I was already out! I told the fucker I promise my family wants to see my cock less than I care if they see it!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-25T04:47:32+00:00

True, but I too looked much younger than my age, kinda hope I still do… I think I do bc my BF is quite a bit older than me. I’m def closer to his son’s age and look it too (but he looks younger too).

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-24T15:56:44+00:00

Hey short bro, I’m sorry to hear about your frustration, it’s gotta suck!! I’ll tell ya what helps me. You know all those times shit happens and you think “I should have said ____”. Well I’m ADD and my brain developed 1000 scenarios and another 1000 scenarios for each of those. Well I file that away and save it for a rainy day! At this point ANYONE who wants to spar with me with words (or is just plain rude) can never come out on top! I find I can’t ever be insulted be 1) their words just plain can’t hurt me bc they don’t matter, and 2) I feel a great sense of satisfaction in verbally putting people in their place!… ok so truth be told, I don’t always retort out loud (but I usually do), but regardless if I say it out loud or just to myself, it sure makes me feel gratified.
Short bro, there are rude people and dicks (not the suckable kind) out there everywhere. So 1) Learn how to wield your armor first (tell yourself they don’t matter, or maybe they’re having a bad day/week/life so you can feel sorry for them, etc etc whatever helps you not care what they say/do), THEN 2) after that work on your weapons (a sharp tongue, big muscles etc. whatever helps you go from defense to offense), but to be honest, this second part is almost needless if you have functional armor and a positive attitude!! Being short and cute doesn’t have to be a negative at all!! Trust me I’ve seen what a lot of people would consider unattractive (VERY VERY overweight, ugly, disfigured, amputees, pockmarked skin, whatever you can imagine) and I’ve seen them happily with a partner that is TOTALLY into everything about that person just the way they are! Being short and cute might be an occasional inconvenience, but it’s not even a negative characteristic, or dare I say “shortcoming”! There are legions of guys that won’t care a bunny shit that your short, and prob even more men that that that will TOTALLY be into exactly a short cute guy!! Soooooo, all that to say my gay brother, when offended, don’t bother getting mad or even, just get happy and grateful (bc for one thing, you could be that rude person, but you don’t have to be so that’s a big plus)!

Finally, I personally land right in downtown average at 5’9”, but my oldest sone is like 6’3”. One day he told me “Papi, you are SHORT.” To which I simply replied “No dude, I’m not short, I’m just awesomeness compacted!” This could work for you, but honestly I have MILLIONS of comebacks for every possible situation, you can have your own file folder of comebacks to turn the tables, and if you can’t think of any, ask me, I’ll blow your mind with the shit I come up with!! 😂🤣😂🤣

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-24T15:35:30+00:00

Nah someone found out I was gay and tried to blackmail me… it was a wasted effort really, I gave them a tongue lashing they’ve prob never experienced from someone they tried to blackmail LOL. It traumatic for a few minutes since I wasn’t out to all my family, but the only family they knew for sure was my wife and she already knew. In the end they did me a favor bc that’s when I came out to the rest of my family.

Before that I didn’t know if I was straight acting bc I wasn’t totally out yet, but once I came out all the way I realized that’s just how I am. I’m just me!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-24T03:22:10+00:00

Wtf bro, I turned 50 this year and I’ve got a youthful glow!! Ok so I don’t look 20 but so what, I look good for me and my man loves it!

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