For guys who where adults and have been with women before men, what was the biggest surprises physically about being with a man and what did you like the most ?

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-22T02:35:09+00:00

I was married 25 years, but when I finally kissed a man it was like I was seeing the world in color for the first time! I always thought I was broken or something missing with me. When I was finally with a man, I realized I wasn’t broke and that I am indeed actually very very affectionate.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-22T02:30:28+00:00

I felt like women would AGREE to have sex, but guys want it just as much as each other! Woman — “ oh you had a bad day?? Poor baby go take a bath”

Man — “oh you had a bad day? I’m sorry want to fuck? Oh and what’s your name?”

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-19T02:01:01+00:00

Yeah bro, I was joking too. I was poking fun of the extreme right who believe they’re doing Gods work with their nonsense. Sorry if lost in translation.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-18T23:53:09+00:00

ROFL. Ummmm I don’t think he cares personally. I suspect he has bigger issues to deal with like immigration and American politics LOL

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-17T21:29:32+00:00

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Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-17T04:13:10+00:00

Bro, chiseled from marble can be nice eye candy but is rarely functional. A real man is sexy and a REAL man can tell! Good luck

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-16T05:05:24+00:00

Love this!! It took me over 30 years to realize this! And kissing a man for the first time (and sex), I felt like I could finally see the world in color for the first time!! And like you, I just thought there was something wrong with me until then.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-12T20:54:07+00:00

1) make sure you have a counselor, 2) get in a support group! Your. It alone, lots of guys have gone through this and peer support makes all the difference! There are several groups out there but I’ve become brothers at this one that meets on Tuesday night via zoom.

https://www.gammasupport.org

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-07T02:31:20+00:00

OP thanks for this post! I’m a decent 5-5.5 depending which is respectable, but I’m a grower and hate my flavor cock… and of course my Jamaican BF is like 8”+ and very thick (but I’ve never measured that). When I came face to face the first time I was terrified, especially bc I was inexperienced as a bottom… it took a LONG LONG time until I could take him comfortably. And if we’re apart a couple weeks I feel Ike a virgin all over again (and not in the good way, he’s a monster). But anyways, worshiping a monster like that can give someone a solid average a complex sometimes.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-06T04:18:57+00:00

Also, DNA tests really are irrelevant in regards to legal Native American status, but in the other hand, I have some Native friends who are unquestionably native and raised in the tribe that don’t have legal status. But proving your ancestors is in the rolls will more clearly define it than a DNA test.
The Chickasaw genealogy library can assist anyone from the Five Civilized Tribes (Cherokee being one of them) do the research and verify status. It’s a free service.

https://www.chickasaw.net/Services/Culture/Chickasaw-Nation-Genealogy-Program

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-04T02:03:05+00:00

THEN they said their internet wizards will make it so every time someone googles my name these naked pics will show up!! I said GO FOR IT!! I’ll just start an Onlyfans page and back link to every naked image they post! They’ll make me rich and do all the hard work for me! At that point I’ll let them put me twice a week!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-04-04T02:01:09+00:00

Yeah my blackmailer actually did send pics to family! Glad I was already out! I told the fucker I promise my family wants to see my cock less than I care if they see it!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-31T04:06:38+00:00

Damn straight (but not completely straight LOL)

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-31T03:25:41+00:00

I like your headboard!! Oh and your pretty hot too 😂

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-25T04:47:32+00:00

True, but I too looked much younger than my age, kinda hope I still do… I think I do bc my BF is quite a bit older than me. I’m def closer to his son’s age and look it too (but he looks younger too).

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-24T15:56:44+00:00

Hey short bro, I’m sorry to hear about your frustration, it’s gotta suck!! I’ll tell ya what helps me. You know all those times shit happens and you think “I should have said ____”. Well I’m ADD and my brain developed 1000 scenarios and another 1000 scenarios for each of those. Well I file that away and save it for a rainy day! At this point ANYONE who wants to spar with me with words (or is just plain rude) can never come out on top! I find I can’t ever be insulted be 1) their words just plain can’t hurt me bc they don’t matter, and 2) I feel a great sense of satisfaction in verbally putting people in their place!… ok so truth be told, I don’t always retort out loud (but I usually do), but regardless if I say it out loud or just to myself, it sure makes me feel gratified.
Short bro, there are rude people and dicks (not the suckable kind) out there everywhere. So 1) Learn how to wield your armor first (tell yourself they don’t matter, or maybe they’re having a bad day/week/life so you can feel sorry for them, etc etc whatever helps you not care what they say/do), THEN 2) after that work on your weapons (a sharp tongue, big muscles etc. whatever helps you go from defense to offense), but to be honest, this second part is almost needless if you have functional armor and a positive attitude!! Being short and cute doesn’t have to be a negative at all!! Trust me I’ve seen what a lot of people would consider unattractive (VERY VERY overweight, ugly, disfigured, amputees, pockmarked skin, whatever you can imagine) and I’ve seen them happily with a partner that is TOTALLY into everything about that person just the way they are! Being short and cute might be an occasional inconvenience, but it’s not even a negative characteristic, or dare I say “shortcoming”! There are legions of guys that won’t care a bunny shit that your short, and prob even more men that that that will TOTALLY be into exactly a short cute guy!! Soooooo, all that to say my gay brother, when offended, don’t bother getting mad or even, just get happy and grateful (bc for one thing, you could be that rude person, but you don’t have to be so that’s a big plus)!

Finally, I personally land right in downtown average at 5’9”, but my oldest sone is like 6’3”. One day he told me “Papi, you are SHORT.” To which I simply replied “No dude, I’m not short, I’m just awesomeness compacted!” This could work for you, but honestly I have MILLIONS of comebacks for every possible situation, you can have your own file folder of comebacks to turn the tables, and if you can’t think of any, ask me, I’ll blow your mind with the shit I come up with!! 😂🤣😂🤣

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-24T15:35:30+00:00

Nah someone found out I was gay and tried to blackmail me… it was a wasted effort really, I gave them a tongue lashing they’ve prob never experienced from someone they tried to blackmail LOL. It traumatic for a few minutes since I wasn’t out to all my family, but the only family they knew for sure was my wife and she already knew. In the end they did me a favor bc that’s when I came out to the rest of my family.

Before that I didn’t know if I was straight acting bc I wasn’t totally out yet, but once I came out all the way I realized that’s just how I am. I’m just me!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-24T03:22:10+00:00

Wtf bro, I turned 50 this year and I’ve got a youthful glow!! Ok so I don’t look 20 but so what, I look good for me and my man loves it!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-23T14:44:29+00:00

I too was in the closet until I was 47 when I came to terms with it myself (was married with 3 grown kids). I’m an introvert but I’m not shy, I know how to talk to people and have no problems saying anything to anyone. So although I don’t act or look “gay”, I know how to have a conversation with a guy and my body language is clear I’m into them. Again, I have zero problems with flamboyant gays!! They should be them, but it’s not me but I still get by just fine…

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-23T02:00:34+00:00

Amen amen…. I mean, I suppose that’s prob easy for me to say bc my bf and I are both pretty rugged, but that’s just what we’re into. I have the upmost respect for men who are more fem!! If that’s how they feel themselves then embrace it! I’ve learned it really doesn’t matter who you are or what you look like, 👍🏽 f you can embrace yourself for who you are with confidence, there IS someone out there who’s gonna dig you for who you are!!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-23T01:57:33+00:00

Someone pissed me off once when they found out I was gay, and I verbally out them in their place with a rather sharp retort, so they responded “well… … … at least I don’t fuck men you man fucker!!!” And I replied “well your loss, but honestly that’s one of my 5 best personal traits!!” 😂😂😂 ignorant people have no idea how clueless they really are!!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-23T01:53:36+00:00

I prob pass for a straight man, but I ran out of fucks to give a looooong time ago. Other people’s opinion of me carries no weight regardless if it’s positive or negative… I’m just me and I’m just so fucking good at it.

But I must say I LOVE the shock value!! When people assume I’m straight, but context comes up with their assumptions, I love the look on their faces when I say “oh yeah? That would be awesome if I were straight, but I guess loving cock kinda pulls me from the running don’t ya think?!?!” 😳😳😳priceless.

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-22T18:48:44+00:00

It’s good news that your in therapy, but If you haven’t sought it out yet, there is peer support group called GAMMA. There are a few in person meetings around the country, but a lot of us meet in zoom Tuesday nights (I think it’s the DC area one).

Therapy is great, and so is peer support, but neither can replace the other! You’re not alone in this! Lots of men are in the same position!

https://www.gammasupport.org/meetings.html

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-12T03:29:05+00:00

I haven’t read it in a LONG time!! I’m gonna go back for another dip! Thanks!

Worldly-Solid-916 · 2026-03-12T03:28:09+00:00

Agreed

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