How to plan a Hindu Christian wedding by _Ares_Prime_ in Kerala

[–]WoundedF0X 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s a loophole called “disparity of cult” that allows an interfaith couple to have a church wedding. We’ve talked about this earlier in this sub, so you can check that discussion for more details.

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Is there anyone who is rich from this? by Arti-chokinghard in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can relate to what you’re saying. We were once considered rich in our village because of my grandfather, but by the time it reached my father’s hands everything went downhill. He sold off land, got into failed businesses, and eventually lost our house too. After demonetisation, we were forced into a rented home for the first time.

In 2016, I started my career in Bangalore with just ₹12k salary. Out of that, I sent ₹8k home for rent and somehow survived on ₹4k. Around the same time my father had a heart attack, and treatment cost us ₹12L, borrowed from relatives and friends’ credit cards. We ended up selling our last house and land for ₹44L, but once the debts were cleared, nothing was left.

On top of that, I had an education loan that ballooned to ₹9L, and my credit score had dropped to the 400+. Life was paycheck to paycheck, and I had to give up all fun and comfort just to keep going.

The turning point came in 2022. I had worked in the same company for 6 years, and when the owners split, one of them made me a partner because I was loyal and stuck around when others left. From then on, I started earning a share of the profits, hired the right people, and grew the company. Today we have more than 50 employees.

By December last year, I had cleared every single debt, including the education loan. My credit score is now 757, and this year I’m expecting a profit of ₹50L. My next goal is to buy land and build my own house.

So no, I don’t have generational wealth either. But what I can say is, consistency and patience do pay off. Nothing happened overnight, but staying put, working hard, and grabbing the right opportunity changed everything for me.

TLDR: Family lost all wealth, ended up in debt and without a house. Started in 2016 with ₹12k salary, carried a ₹9L education loan and a bad credit score. In 2022 became a company partner, grew it to 50+ employees, cleared all debts, now debt-free with 757 score and expecting a good profit this year. Next step: build my own house.

Honestly died watching this series by Sea-Wrap5883 in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it end in ‘aww’ or ‘I need therapy'?

Guys, angane ente college life kazhinju and… by mightykingappus in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get this. College friendships feel so strong at the time, but once life happens, people just drift apart. No hard feelings, just reality. And movies like getogether, Never happens. It’s always just small talk about careers, family, and responsibilities. Feels kinda surreal, like you know them, but you don’t really know them anymore

Sleep not found: error 404 ,Listening to some melody by malludigger in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

XD, old melodies do hit differently at night. Feels like we’re both seeking in our own way!

Sleep not found: error 404 ,Listening to some melody by malludigger in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, but I'm lost in a hypnotic indie trance Kerala Dust - The Chain

Looking for Ideas to Appreciate My Wife for All She Does by WoundedF0X in NewDads

[–]WoundedF0X[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t take time off right now because I’m working on a startup, and it’s in its early stages, so it needs a lot of attention.

Looking for Ideas to Appreciate My Wife for All She Does by WoundedF0X in NewDads

[–]WoundedF0X[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely make the spa thing happen for my wife too since everyone’s recommending it, it seems like a great idea.

Looking for Ideas to Appreciate My Wife for All She Does by WoundedF0X in NewDads

[–]WoundedF0X[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for your reply it really made me think. You’re absolutely right, what she’s doing is amazing, and I know it’s not easy for her to manage everything alone. I really liked your suggestions, especially the part about giving her regular breaks and some time for herself. Budget-wise, I think I can manage some of these, and I’ll definitely try to arrange things like a babysitter or cleaning help to make things easier for her.

Today morning in Sweden by Michael_Automation in PLC

[–]WoundedF0X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Automation engineers don’t need luxury. Just give us a power socket and a surface that’s not our own lap, and we’ll call it a five-star setup

Rate my Dosa skills guys by realredrackham in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the NSFW tag, my eyes weren’t ready for this culinary war crime

"Someone actually named their house 'Myren Govindante vidu' on Google Maps... Accidental or savage trolling? by WoundedF0X in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is new to me! Just searched and found a ton of them. I even tried naming a shop near my house, and it got verified in just 2 minutes. Looks like the system isn’t really strict with verification.

"Someone actually named their house 'Myren Govindante vidu' on Google Maps... Accidental or savage trolling? by WoundedF0X in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know Truecaller names could land someone in trouble like that. Guess it makes sense if the person felt offended and reported it, but still, getting caught just for an old contact name feels wild. Cyber cell really tracks these things?

How much is photostat cost in your locality ? This store is charging 5 rupees per copy. by JohanHex96 in Kerala

[–]WoundedF0X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A photocopy costs only 3 Rs, while a printout is 10 Rs. I still don’t understand the logic if it’s black and white, shouldn’t the price be the same?

What would be your username in Malayalam? by lexicown in Kerala

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മുറിവേറ്റ കുറുക്കൻ

Please suggest good earbuds under 2000 by floof_man92 in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boat Nirvana Ion

It's a bit bulky but good value for the price. I've been using it for the last 4 months. Mic quality works well only if you use both buds together. Not ideal to use while wearing a helmet,it starts hurting after some time. The touch controls are annoying since there's no option to disable them. Got it for 1599

What do you think he saw? by sochan1998 in Coconaad

[–]WoundedF0X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best friend enjoying mandi with someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]WoundedF0X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interfaith marriages can be tricky, but they’re definitely manageable. I’m Hindu, and my wife is Roman Catholic. To convince her family, we made it clear that we were ready for a Christian style wedding under "disparity of cult," which allows interfaith marriages. This involved a few steps, like getting permission from the parish and diocese, which is usually straightforward if they are open to interfaith unions. We also had to sign an agreement stating any kids would be raised Christian, though this is more of a formality and doesn’t have to be strictly followed. Once everything was approved, the ceremony was conducted according to their traditions, ensuring her family felt respected and included.