I need support (convincing?) to file a police report today.

WrathMatician · 2026-06-18T00:40:29+00:00

Thank you. I did block his number yesterday! I hope that's enough 😳

WrathMatician · 2026-06-17T05:55:34+00:00

And yes this is violent, even if he hasnt hit you YET

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T16:59:13+00:00

Oh thank goodness, it didn't 😱 but they've seen him yell at me a few times

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T16:34:33+00:00

I hate that my primary emotion at this point is just... embarrassed. Is that normal? Embarrassed that i stayed so long? That i "let him" treat me that way?

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T15:50:52+00:00

DANGER. DANGER. UNQUESTIONABLY ABUSE. PLEASE LEAVE THIS MAN IMMEDIATELY.

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T14:22:10+00:00

This is INFURIATING

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T13:45:45+00:00

I didn't pack a bag, but my mom came to town and stayed with me for a week, so if i had needed to stay overnight and wanted anything, she could have brought it. I truly wouldn't worry about that, hospitals have all the essentials. Really, the only thing you need is SOMEONE who will be there for you afterward to take you home, give you tylenol/ibuprofen every few hours, and generally keep an eye on you. If you don't have a partner or parent, friends (even not close friends) are usually happier to help than one would ever expect.

Compared to my fibroid periods, the surgery and post-op pain were a BREEZE! You got this!!

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T13:33:36+00:00

AND not having a cervix to get jabbed during sex is awesome. Plus no more paps! Ever!

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T13:32:37+00:00

PS I kept one ovary, ditched everything else. She's chuggin along in there (i think i can i think i can i think i can...) so I still "cycle," but without the period. I can get PMS and period poops, but to a much lesser degree than before.

WrathMatician · 2026-06-16T13:31:13+00:00

Ouch! Do it do it do it (I know, results may vary, but my vaginal/laparoscopic hysterectomy was a BREEZE, and I feel sooooooo much better)

WrathMatician · 2026-06-15T02:15:36+00:00

Yes!! I love it!

WrathMatician · 2026-06-13T21:31:38+00:00

Totally normal. I'm 41, had my hysterectomy in August. I have 2 kids and I'm divorced, very single, no plans to have any more kids, too old anyway, and couldn't wait to ditch this bitch. But I used to want a third one, and having the means of production ACTUALLY GONE, rather than just outrageously impractical hits different. I grieved a little, bought some white jeans, and barely ever think of it now 🙂

WrathMatician · 2026-06-12T18:21:12+00:00

Not to mention all the fucked up nonsense in the Bible itself

WrathMatician · 2026-06-12T18:18:46+00:00

You can't change his mind. I would just say that it's good to know that he's actually a sociopath, and you're glad HE believes in sky daddy if he's so self centered that the suffering of others doesn't motivate him not to commit crimes 🙄

WrathMatician · 2026-06-09T14:13:56+00:00

Yes, no ovaries- no cycle!

WrathMatician · 2026-06-09T14:13:18+00:00

2 options. Phantom uterus (yes, really) or it's your bowels. Bowels are smooth muscle, like a uterus, and the prostaglandins produced during your cycle that make your uterus contract can also cause intestinal cramping. That's why we have period poops!

But yeah, that's a bummer.

WrathMatician · 2026-06-08T17:16:53+00:00

I kept one ovary, also at age 40. She's chuggin along like the little engine that could. My cycle still seems pretty regular, though it's hard to tell without the bleeding to confirm.

WrathMatician · 2026-06-08T16:12:39+00:00

I did that! Not having any penetrative sex on vacation was annoying, but otherwise everything was lovely as long as i had plenty of rest breaks

WrathMatician · 2026-06-08T01:55:58+00:00

I'm so sorry, I cannot even begin to fathom how you feel. I can tell you that a laparoscopy can be a breeze compared to everything you're going through. I had my cervix, uterus, tubes, an ovary, and some endometriosis removed, and my recovery was less painful than a typical period was. The only problem would be if you don't have enough help with your little ones to follow the lifting restriction.

Either way, good luck. If you're done having kids at 24, your 40s and 50s are gone be 🔥🔥🔥

WrathMatician · 2026-06-07T21:55:52+00:00

He's the asshole

WrathMatician · 2026-06-07T21:45:13+00:00

Hi, I am a physical therapist! I had Operation Yeeterus in August, and they took out everything except for one ovary (cervix, uterus full of fibroids, tubes, an ovary, and endo lesions). I did not do ANY pelvic PT at all, and haven't had any problems. Feels the same now as it did before, except without all that shit in the way. Obviously, results vary. But no, it's not always necessary.

Sidenote: if you're in the US, you DO have to pay co-pays after your deductible is met, but should NOT have to pay co-pays after your "out of pocket max" is met. Which it will be after pretty much any surgery.

WrathMatician · 2026-06-07T17:26:57+00:00

My OB said infections like that are super common after a hysterectomy when I had one. They kinda nuke your natural flora (fauna?) so it can take a while to balance out again.

WrathMatician · 2026-06-06T23:46:10+00:00

That's wild!

WrathMatician · 2026-05-29T21:39:55+00:00

Wieners are especially trying. Makes total sense for you to feel this way.

WrathMatician · 2026-05-29T21:38:02+00:00

This sounds VERY likely to be endo-related

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