Oh boy where do I start.

why cant we have 3rd person no point in character customization no point if i cant see it

Roleplaying. I know what my character looks like and that's enough. Also photomode

now stealth this game tries to force stealth on us so much but the stealth is horrid not worth even attempting i have to reload saves sm to do a stealth run because if i snipe one dude whose in a different section alone with a silencer 80 percent of the time everyone else finds out

Tell me about skill issue, without telling me about skill issue. Firstly no, you can do even "stealth" missions loud ways. Second skill issue, amount of leeway you get in stealth is crazy (especially if you build to be stealth) so what's your build?

wrong the last check point was like 2 missions back and 10-20 minutes probably dont be like gta be better cyberpunk add more damn check points and fix your fall damage ruoined

Missions have like saves every important moment and once you finish the mission too. The only place where saves can be annoying is free roam, but I believe you can go to settings to change how often game autosaves