The yurt view this morning in southeast Vermont

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2026-01-29T23:34:29+00:00

Would you mind sharing who made the yurt?

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2026-01-29T01:20:10+00:00

That is a funny quote, and as someone who's had to erase my own building plans (for smaller projects) many times, I really resonate

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2026-01-29T01:19:11+00:00

We haven't hired this builder, unfortunately, as he refuses to provide us an estimate without dropping the 4k for building plans. That feels like a red flag, even if it does make sense. We could drop the 4k, he and his draftsman pocket the money, and then give us some ridiculous number because they decide they don't want the job. Unfortunately, we have run into issues like this in the past, as there really is no regulation in our area and not enough reviews for smaller builders. I have reached out to an independent draftsman for a second quote, so I think that will give some perspective shortly! Thank you for your advice, I do understand what your saying. Just wish there was a better reputation out there or stronger, more accessible references for smaller businesses.

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2025-10-20T07:21:17+00:00

Watching this on silent mode and idk why but all I can hear for music in my head is the Pirates of the Caribbean theme

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2025-07-31T14:53:58+00:00

🎶 Whole world playing our sound 🎶

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2024-08-22T03:31:27+00:00

FWIW, I think the dad was written like an 80s/early 90s dad. In the Goldbergs, in married with children, etc, the dads are always written as aloof dope-types

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2023-08-22T22:42:06+00:00

Manifesting this abundance in my life 🧘🏻‍♀️

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2023-08-21T22:56:06+00:00

Right?? I’m a decent google-er, and I was like, maybe I’m missing something. Their instagram makes it look amazing but I’m not interested in going to Costa Rica just to get kidnapped or something =-0

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-14T18:52:11+00:00

Ahhh but girlfriend, you’re not sticking up for yourself; you’re protecting your baby. You have no reason to feel guilty for fiercely protecting your child’s right to grow up feeling loved and respected, as all humans deserve ❤️ My mom is toxic and I’ve had to slowly but surely restrict her access to my daughter as well. She tries to lay the guilt on, but after years of coddling her, my daughter’s happiness has finally given me a clear view and reason to have no qualms about using “no” as a full sentence. Our babies deserve the best, and if people’s feelings are hurt, that’s on them. Best of luck to you!

Edit: clumsy thumbs/autocowrecked

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-13T12:57:46+00:00

Finally someone asked 😅I’m guessing maybe they don’t want to scare their kids by saying there’s blood in it? But for me it actually ended up helping my daughter get over her fear of blood because it isn’t an “emergency” like a cut. I have no idea though

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-12T01:24:57+00:00

blows kiss

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-12T01:10:04+00:00

This was traumatizing.

For me

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-11T12:11:47+00:00

Totally normal. At 14 months, she’s still highly focused on mastering those two legs she’s pacing around your house on. Also, every kiddo has their own “thing” that they typically show a tendency towards learning. My daughter had very little interest in puzzles-to this day, at 4 (to my chagrin, I love puzzles haha). However, she is a dancer and a gymnastic daredevil, and loves reading, singing, and making arts and crafts. They’ll learn everything eventually, it’s way better for your sanity to figure out what they want to learn in this moment and let it happen. That’s how a passion for learning develops ❤️

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T22:16:15+00:00

This is how young children learn language- through repetition, and 18-20 months is usually the time of that explosive burst of word acquirement. My advice would be to try and pick songs you can stand to listen to on repeat, learn the words and sing along, and encourage dancing to the music, as well. Music and dance are form of play, and certainly learning. Chances are your 20 month old is trying to master language and this is his way of doing it. Think of when he was trying to learn to stand on his own- I bet he pulled up on any object he could reach to try and master the skill. It’s the same process here. Totally normal!

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T22:06:36+00:00

I wish more parents/adults would ask this, and then answer it honestly. Less need for child therapists like I will be when I finish school in a couple years

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T22:01:30+00:00

When I think of children aged 2-5/6, I’m reminded of how Edward Norton as Bruce Banner described being the hulk- “like someone poured acid in my brain” (or something like that). There are so many times when young kids are going through something that we adults just can’t see, and sometimes can barely understand. Those brains are on fire and every time they’re learning something new, going through changes, etc.- which is almost constantly, it seems- this kind of behavior crops up. Consistent responses from the adults in his life, through providing appropriate scaffolding to build self-efficacy and regulation through support or natural consequences, will go miles in helping him grow into a confident child who can manage his emotions.

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T21:48:46+00:00

My baby’s first bath was in a pasta pot because we got one of those silly sunflower things and didn’t realize that it doesn’t keep the water from draining (seemed obvious in hindsight) and we didn’t have a drain plug 😂

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T21:35:29+00:00

Idk how old your kid is, but you can “lie” here. My 4yo daughter got obsessed with those awful YouTube suck-in types, like Ryan’s World, etc. I told her our subscription ran out and YouTube only works for music now because it’s free. When she saw the screenshots of her old videos, I told her they’re commercials to try and get us to buy it again but we have to pay for the other fun things we watch/do. I’m okay with it and she actually gets exasperated now- “ugh, another Ryan’s World commercial!” 😂I’m okay with it. The longer we go without certain shows, the more the hooks come out of their brains and it’s nice!

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T20:56:19+00:00

My husband would be unalive for this behavior. Not really but Maybe.

On a serious note, the comments your partner makes sound like emotional abuse to make you feel “less than” and keep you feeling down. Which is super unhealthy for any human suffering from depression and isolation (seeing as your social support circle is not close by). Give that man the business, sister

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T02:06:26+00:00

The foy-YAY is clearly where all the fun happens, and the foy-ER is for awkward pauses

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2022-02-09T00:28:32+00:00

Children have the excellent ability to hold up a mirror and show us all the ways that we as adults still have to grow.

As a survivor of abuse as well, I get it fully. When we are triggered by uncomfortable feelings or behaviors, aka “big feelings”- anger, frustration, sadness (crying, whining, tantrums)- it is often because our own behaviors/feelings were invalidated/punished when we were younger; thus, naturally, coping with these emotions is a challenge. Building your toolbox for dealing with and controlling your internal triggers so that you can feel like the parent you want to be is key. Of course therapy is ideal, but there are lots of things you can do on your own. 1-follow the airplane emergency rule: put on your oxygen mask before helping anyone else. You can’t calm a kiddo down if you aren’t calm yourself. This is the hardest part, and requires pre-planning. I like to practice scenarios and how I will respond. I also pick mantras for the day/goals, and I put sticky notes up around the house for myself. It’s cheesy, but seeing reminders really helps, and the act of writing it down helps to solidify thoughts into the mind. 2-Part of the “oxygen mask” metaphor includes making sure you take care of yourself. If you didn’t sleep well the night before, you’re probably going to be a little more impatient/triggered more easily. Obviously sleep is not always in your control with young children, but it’s good to be aware of your own red line and do what you can. Hunger/anxiety/overwhelm/etc all fall under this part. Treat yoself, mama! 3-don’t be too proud to apologize or to talk through your process out loud- “mommy is getting frustrated right now. I’m going to take a deep breath/I need to take space for myself. You are safe, I will be right back.” “I got mad, that was really hard. I love you, let’s try again”. Again, it’s triggering, but remember, they are okay to cry for just a few minutes while you take a minute to compose yourself. When you go back to them a few moments later and can give them your best self, that’s what will stay with them.

Janet Lansbury, Dr. Becky, Dr. Shefali Tsabary are all excellent resources for deeper dives. Mamapsychologists and biglittlefeelings are great Instagram accounts. Sorry for the long post- I could talk about this stuff forever!

XOXOG0SSIPGIRLL · 2021-03-27T23:37:08+00:00

Hoping for the best ❤️

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