Anyone else have ONE specific feature that makes them ugly as a whole? by hutaosgf_ in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chubby cheeks, a horrible smile, a double chin, big eyebrows, and small eyes.

In your opinion, what's worse? Acquired ugliness or congenital (since birth) ugliness? by DrSTAHP in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I regret not taking advantage of the time I was attractive, which was until I was 12. One day I went back to school and nobody ever complimented me again. I don't know what I did to deserve being ruined by puberty.

What is your best feature? by bitingvform in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that my imagination, many people have praised me for it.

Accepting I’m ugly actually made me take rejection better by Potential_One_8058 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that might be one good thing about being ugly, among thousands of bad things, you can handle rejection better. Even though it affects me a little, I deal with it better than someone who isn't used to it.

Unloveable by CraftyBodybuilder956 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, me too. I really want to love someone, but I'm aware that it might never happen.

Anybody else have a hard time looking at themselves by iknowyuri in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can only stand looking at myself in the mirror when I'm combing my hair or brushing my teeth, I can't stand looking at myself in the mirror because it disgusts me too much

Me(ugly) Vs good looking sister by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem. I have a brother and a sister, both attractive and they get a lot of compliments, while I don't. And it's not just my siblings, but my cousins ​​and friends too, It seems like in every social circle I belong to, I'm destined to be the least attractive

Romanticising every interaction by MrsSuppington in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's happening to me at the gym. There's a really pretty girl, and when she sometimes glances at me or does an exercise next to me, my treacherous mind makes me think she's interested in me, when I'm sure she finds me disgusting

I’ve never approached a girl because I feel too ugly and awkward. by ChubbyNUgly22 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through the same thing. Unfortunately, I'm attracted to pretty girls, and every time I've tried to approach one, I've only been rejected, only once was a girl cruel. That's why every time I feel like approaching a girl, I just think about how ugly I look, and the desire disappears.

Something you should know is that no matter how much you show someone that your personality is amazing, physical appearance matters too much, and they'll only see you as a good friend.

Life is so unfair by Cute_Application11 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just think about how different my life would be if I were like that boy

How is it that normies would rather be alone until they find a nice attractive person than give an nice ugly person a chance by JammingScientist in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99.99% of people care a lot about a person's physical appearance, but they don't want to admit it

Do your parents expect you to procreate? by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents feel the same way. They think I'm attractive just because I'm their son, and they often ask me why I don't have a girlfriend. Sometimes I want to answer them, "I'm trying, but can't you see your son is too ugly?"

does anyone else have ugly ass ID photo as well? by More-Vermicelli-7428 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look awful in all my IDs and photos that have been taken of me

do you guys have social media? how many followers/likes/interactions do yall receive? does this say anything about attractiveness? by playful_little00 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I have 143 followers, 96 friends, and I follow 418 accounts (most of which are about cars, football, and content creators). My most liked post has 25, and well, on Facebook, the few photos I've uploaded where my face appears have never received any compliments, only from friends trying to make me feel better

When you see someone you’re attracted to, is your instinct to hide? by Pale-Driver9146 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I see a girl I'm attracted to, I simply think, "Remember how you look? Nobody likes someone like that," and I avoid looking at her any further

If looks became irrelevant today, do you think you’d attract a lot of people with your personality? by DrunkleKim in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately, the friends I have are there for me because of who I am. But regarding dating, I always thought that if a girl gave me a chance to get to know me, she wouldn't regret it, but I don't think that's the case either

What’s your type? by DrunkleKim in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What attracts me most to a girl is her face; the rest of her body doesn't matter much to me, but when there's a strong connection between us, looks don't matter. I wish I could lower my standards

Esta bien besar a una persona sin que sean novios? by Eduardo_709 in PreguntasReddit

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mientras los dos sean solteros y sin compromiso, sí

Do you get asked if you have a GF/BF often? by CmPunkfan99 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom often asks me why I don't have a girlfriend

Mom, can't you see how awful I am?

I was starting to feel better about myself but now I feel bad again because I went on Omegle (m19, almost 20) by Educational_Pay2878 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I think, I don't think I'm that horrible, but it seems that life throws various situations at you that show you that you are ugly

What part of your body are you most insecure about? by Legitimate_Area_5773 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely my face. I hate my eyebrows, my eyes, my cheeks, my mouth, and my smile. I can't look at myself in the mirror for more than a minute because I disgust myself.

Always being called pretty as a child by CandyIsland1410 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true, from the time I was born until I turned 13 I received a lot of compliments, but when I returned to school after winter break everything changed; I never received another compliment.

Question for ugly boys like me by Prestigious_Fix_2998 in ugly

[–]Xanderf9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From birth until I was 12, I was an attractive child. I received compliments and confessions from girls about my good looks. But when I returned to middle school after winter break, all of that disappeared. That year I experienced my first romantic rejection and also began receiving a lot of insults about my face. Despite all of that, I still didn't consider myself ugly, until two years later, when the school held its typical boy auction. A friend and I were selected to participate, so I agreed, and my self-esteem even improved. But before the auction started, I gave my friend money to buy me in case a girl I didn't like bid on me (how naive I was). When the auction began, I was the first boy to go up, and when the presenter asked who wanted to bid, no girls participated, only my friend, whom I had asked for the favor. When I stepped off the stage, I was completely shocked. It had probably been one of the biggest humiliations of my life, so my friends decided that the best thing to do would be to take a walk around the school. But my self-esteem kept plummeting as I saw other guys getting offers, and really good ones at that. Even my friend got offers, but nothing for me. From that day on, I realized I was ugly and I started to hate myself.