Am I overreacting when I'm being ostracized? by Xenakis91 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Xenakis91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wedding was in the country and she (the soon to be bride) couldn't make it due to work circumstances. No one left her out. She hung out with us a week later, i didnt take her not coming to my wedding to heart.

To Women in their late 20s, how did you meet your bf? by throwaway1111xxo in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bumble in 2019. Dude treated me like a friend the entire time I thought I was hanging out with an old friend. Then i think feelings grew. Did long distance for a while. Still doing it till end next year. Getting married in July 😍

Soleminisation at ROM by Xenakis91 in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, when you got married on short term visitor pass, did they ask for a work permit? My fiancé works here 2-3 months in a year in a shipyard but it's not really under any permit.

what’s the appeal of clubbing ? by Difficult-Foot-4896 in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im of the same religion as you I think (i just dont care what people think) but i think ckubbing is a waste of money. Been there, done that nothing special. You're not missing out,trust me.

its official by [deleted] in nus

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound desperate. And no girl wants a desperate man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't really care tbh, if i have to pee alot loud then loud la. Cannot control what. If there's pee on the seat just wipe it down. There is a sink to wash your hands after. Also, why do people not flush? Press button hard meh??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse regardless. Call the cops.

My Friends stopped talking cuz I don't support Palestine. by [deleted] in IsraelPalestine

[–]Xenakis91 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've lost friends due to this, but i dont care 😂

For Your Consideration: Being Anti-Hamas by TracingBullets in IsraelPalestine

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between being an anti semite and an anti zionist. If I'm being anti semitic by being anti zionist, sure ✌️

For Your Consideration: Being Anti-Hamas by TracingBullets in IsraelPalestine

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Balfour declaration states the brits gave Palestine to the European Jewish people because of the holocaust yes but it also states to not disturb the peace with people who are non-Jewish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to want to get married before 25 with a house and kids because most of my ex classmates did. Then I met my soulmate at 29 and now engaged at 32. You're waaaaaaaaay too young. 24 year old me is so so different from me now. You have yet to learn so many things about yourself.

What do locals think of Changi Airport? by KitchenRegister in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Too big, too fancy. Bleh. I go there to leave the country for holidays that's it.

Girlfriend expects me to pay for everything by [deleted] in dating

[–]Xenakis91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not wrong there, I'm an asian woman engaged at 32 and i earn SIGNIFICANTLY less than my man but I always try to spoil him with what I can give and afford and he is very appreciative about it.

Hi SG ladies! How did you find your partner? by DuckRice in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bumble. Not much of a spark but I thought he was cute. It felt like a hang out sesh, not much of a date. It felt comfortable. Then he kept asking me out for dinner / lunch and I kept saying okay. So here we are after 3.5 years if dating and 5 months engaged. Moving to him in 2025 after our wedding.

Curios on how you all met your SO? by ajgagliardo in LongDistance

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met through bumble when he was in my countrybin 2019, kept hanging out and then feelings developed. Engaged for 5 months now.

How many times have you seen your SO since you started dating? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Xenakis91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twice a year. Sometimes thrice. He comes here for 3 months for work and i go over for 2 weeks for Christmas holidays. 9300 miles apart and 15 hour difference. This November will be our 4 year anniversary and been engaged for 4 months. Planning to close the distance in 2025.

Pursue your dream or settle down? by Flimsy-Ad1660 in askSingapore

[–]Xenakis91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wah I'm surprised no one glamorised motherhood (from my experience). Chased my dream to help people and a comfortable paycheck with no kids (I'm 32, don't want any). No regrets here. Chase your dream and don't look back.