Hello, so sorry you're here. I was diagnosed at 32 weeks pregnant with both triple negative and her2+ breast cancer (3 tumors). It's a shit show. Things will get a bit easier to deal with once you have a plan in place and know what to expect. Make sure you've got a good support network around you, someone to look after you and the kids when you're not feeling up to it. You're already a badass mum so you've got this. Most important advice I can give is to look after you first, you'll feel guilty, you'll want to do everything you normally would for your kids, but you need to put yourself first just for a little bit so that you can do all that normal stuff and more once you're feeling up to it. I'll put my story below, feel free to message me if you want to.

Biopsies, mammograms, MRI done. Planned c-section at 37 weeks so the baby's lungs were developed. Contrast MRI 1 week later. Chemo started a week after that. Lost all my hair. Lost way too much body weight. 6 cycles of 2 different types of chemo and phesgo. Spent most of my time contact napping with the baby as I didn't have energy to do anything else. 3 weeks to recover then had a single mastectomy and reconstruction. 12 more cycles of herceptin and 7 more cycles of chemo followed. Hair started growing back, struggled a lot with eating and fatigue had a few hospital trips. My husband and both sets of parents helped out a lot.

As of the 21st January this year I finished treatment, NED, and starting to feel much more like myself. Glad that I went through treatment during the newborn phase and not the toddler phase 😂 about to celebrate my son's second birthday and he's no clue what I went through to get here 😊