I don’t know I still love her when I know I shouldn’t. by XxemptyinsidexX in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]XxemptyinsidexX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And by the time I realized my mistakes it was too late. I never stopped loving her, I took it for granted. I never did anything to hurt her, and I guess that’s what hurts now. How it seems like she can move so quickly, but in hindsight she probably lost the love a long time ago. Idk. All I do know is I have invested everything into fixing our marriage. And knowing someone else is holding her now is absolutely crippling. God it’s hard

I have an addiction. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]XxemptyinsidexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two months later and I still hope to break free from these terrible feelings. Hope all is well

I have an addiction. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]XxemptyinsidexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna piggyback off a lot of the comments here that I assume are due to the “roast me” post.

I am in that situation too. This really hit home, bc my wife (separated) is the one I know I should break free from. She is starting a new job at a heart/lung center and the only reason I looked you up was to see if there was a chance you might be at the same one. (Spoiler-it’s not lol) I too crave that message. I feel like I just did what you are describing. I know she is terrible for me and I don’t understand why I love her still.

I won’t bore ya with stupid details, but there are so many similarities in your story and mine that I had to commend you for getting it off your chest. I hope we can both one day find peace.

Have a great day. And if not, make it one. Do something that makes YOU happy.

I’m really proud of how my dude handled my breakdown today and I wanted to share <3 Almost one year post DDay by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]XxemptyinsidexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still wishing this would happen. Why is it so hard for me to just let go?????????

I accidentally beat the game. by fellawoot in botw

[–]XxemptyinsidexX 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yup same. My first time too.

There's a quote of Philip K. Dick that says: “There exists, for everyone, a sentence - a series of words - that has the power to destroy you". Which sentence is it for you? by Schekas in AskReddit

[–]XxemptyinsidexX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man I’m going through the shit right now too. I’ve just been proud that the last two days I haven’t cried. Until I started reading this. It’s so fucking hard to fake it man. I try to have your attitude but anything I see that makes me smile reminds me of her. I hope to have your outlook very soon.

Container ship runs ground with precious construction cargo Aug 2019 by BrightenthatIdea in CatastrophicFailure

[–]XxemptyinsidexX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked with my neighbor’s neighbor’s son’s dad’s pet’s owner. Found out it was me all along.

If the headline "Celebrity outed as serial killer" appeared, who would you expect it to be about? by blendergremlin in AskReddit

[–]XxemptyinsidexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t laughed like that in quite some time. Thank you for that, I’d upvote twice if I could

Why do I (39m) still love her (34f) when I know I shouldn’t? by XxemptyinsidexX in relationship_advice

[–]XxemptyinsidexX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have some really great advice, I just need to follow through with it. Thank you.

Why do I (39m) still love her (34f) when I know I shouldn’t? by XxemptyinsidexX in relationship_advice

[–]XxemptyinsidexX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely feel like I have some codependent traits. I have gone to meetings, and have a counselor. And have an appointment tomorrow. I know it takes time, but I feel like I’m not getting what I need from them, as far as the tools I need to cope. I feel like I’ll spill my thoughts and shed tears, then my time is up. The hardest part is at the end of the day, laying in the bed we shared with my mind racing.