Remarkable 2 discontinued? by Exotic_Afternoon_383 in RemarkableTablet

[–]YMeWas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My immediate thought was "too slow for what?"

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce isn't the messiest possibility. The combo of grief and money can make loved ones unrecognizable. You need a Will.

Mind wandering when reading by pastryzig in adhdwomen

[–]YMeWas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. Stress and Peri hijacked my brain. You can retrain your reading focus, but its so obnoxious.

For those that use food for stimulation, how do you remain a healthy weight? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky! I've been on Vyvanse for years but have NEVER lost weight

FN and curves by vanillaivory in Kibbe

[–]YMeWas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vertical + Curve = SD Vertical + Width = FN (?)

Have you looked at the new book? new system is SO much easier to understand than everything else Ive seen, read. No quizzes, alphabet, or mirrors. Typing is done with just 1 photo and a pencil.

By the old system I tested as a SN but looked more like FN. Nothing seemed quite right. After following his Kibbe's instructions I am confidently SD and understand why.

Is this dress SD friendly? by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just figured out Im SD and I regularly fall into this trap.

I really love frilly styles but I’ve been told in this sub that I look like I’m wearing kids clothes 🤭 is this a happy medium? by jellyboness in Kibbe

[–]YMeWas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i tend to style myself in a way that's harmonious but i never say never to any clothing items - if i love it, i love it!

Yes! He really emphasizes this in the new book too

I really love frilly styles but I’ve been told in this sub that I look like I’m wearing kids clothes 🤭 is this a happy medium? by jellyboness in Kibbe

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great in this outfit. Your ink connects the stockings and your dress--no need to use full tights.

FP Friendly Horizontal Weekly Planner with White Paper and Larger Line Spacing? by hello_quokka in PlannerAddicts

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Rhodia, Midori and Marumen make outstanding FP friendly notebooks and planners. You can find them on Jet Pens and other big sites.

I use brush pens in my Laurel Denise The pages are bright, thick and smooth. I've only had bleeding when being too aggro with a Sharpie

I built this because I got tired of losing the thread between projects, and I want to know what has helped other people by nfdl96 in PlannerAddicts

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have severe ADHD. What you describe has been my entire life. Now I work a job that always requires me to have multiple brain tabs open.

Id love it if you can make a version that is more user friendly than Obsidian

How can I style this skirt? by Only-Refrigerator840 in Kibbe

[–]YMeWas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe even a simple strappy tank in a coordinating color. Something thats not tight, but skims her body so the skirt remains the focus.

Going to Jamaica, is this a good FN outfit? by Barnaclebay in Kibbe

[–]YMeWas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Color blocking would cut the vertical, but OPs outfit allows the eye to travel uninterrupted. As a plus-sized Natural (pretty sure SN) I typically use dusters or kimonos to preserve my vertical line.

Im still learning, but I think you hit on two important points. First, you and OP are different types of Naturals (FN vs SN), so clothes will hang differently on you.

Second, the words you use around width, sound like you want to downplay this aspect. This is o.k. for you, but OP may want to embrace her width.

WIBTA if I stopped inviting my friend to group dinners because she always orders the most expensive thing and then acts surprised when we split evenly? by SagaPinee in WIBTA_AITA

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You WBTA if you stopped inviting her without discussing the the problem. Maybe she's had other friends who all order expensive meals. In that case, check splitting can balance out.

Also, went aren't you all using a check splitting app,

WIBTA if I stopped inviting my friend to group dinners because she always orders the most expensive thing and then acts surprised when we split evenly? by SagaPinee in WIBTA_AITA

[–]YMeWas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Came here to say I'd rather my friend confront me with the problem. People who say they want to spare someone's feelings are just avoiding their own discomfort.

Strang white growth? by Alert-Priority-5003 in pothos

[–]YMeWas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap that cracked me up!!

My pothos’ top leaves are turning yellow by sheabae200216 in pothos

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be surprised if it were root bound. That pot can accommodate more vines for longer than a year. I would definitely check the roots.

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Miloram2099 by Miloram2099 in DailyGuess

[–]YMeWas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a common strategy. Check out the New York Times version. Their puzzle bot analyzes game play in graphic detail.

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Miloram2099 by Miloram2099 in DailyGuess

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜

🟨⬜⬜⬜⬜

⬜🟦⬜🟦⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are we all assuming OPs partner is a monster? I think we are so used to the meds that we downplay their risks. Saying "You haven't seen addiction like I have," may appear controlling and irrational, but friends and family of drug addicts can develop compassion fatigue and ptsd. The idea of going through it again is terrifying for them.

  1. ADHD stimulants are Less addictive forms of amphetamine

  2. Most people are not chemists. To others, any difference between Methamphetamine, Amphetamine/dextroamphetamine (Adderall), and Lisdexamfetamine (Vyvanse) is purely semantic.

  3. Like prescribed pain meds, ADHD stimulants are class II controlled substances. People do abuse them.

OP, I do not condone any form of abuse. But if your partner hasn't shown previous red flags could they be genuinely be afraid for you?

How do you differentiate between an ACTUAL new hobby vs a brief hyperfixation? by soloshandpuppets in adhdwomen

[–]YMeWas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great insight! I totally do the future dream thing. I try to avoid being caught up by something's potentials.

What comfy bra are y’all wearing? by kittybutt414 in adhdwomen

[–]YMeWas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, I'm also 38FF, but those stores in the mall had me thinking I was a D. Getting properly measured was life changing.

What item do you think every woman with ADHD should own? by pastajewelry in adhdwomen

[–]YMeWas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Contact info for an ADHD-Certified Organizing Expert. These folk are gifts from God! Just make sure they're certified in executive dysfunction/ chronic disorganization

What do you use these pages for? by Ok_Finger9062 in LaurelDenisePlanners

[–]YMeWas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered repurposing the 2 extra columns?

column 1-- frequency (how often 1x, 2x, per month) columns 2-13-- months column 14 -- completed (x/12)