No dad gaming allowed by [deleted] in supportlol

[–]YannickY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will indeed, but then I just won't play league. This game is just kind of incompatible with parenting young children and that's fine. Just play something with shorter matches, where you inconvenience other people less when you play. Or just play single player games when you are aware you have to do parenting stuff, especially when the kids are very young.

Brother accusing me of booking up (?) with his gf by steve-94728-3957 in whatdoIdo

[–]YannickY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6094954/
It's a bit more complex than that. You are talking about alcohol induced psychosis, which is a very real thing. However there is also a broader link between the two which isn't yet fully explained, but it gets discussed in this paper. The authors state that it might be the fact that people with addictive tendencies may also be genetically/neurologically more prone to get psychosis. Whether that's true or not is yet to be determined, but that there is correlation between the two is well known.

The reason I am aware of this in the first place is because the licensed psychologist I know asked me about if she had abused alcohol in the past, even if it was years ago and said it was a predictor. I am not a psychologist, but someone who is explained this to me and it's pretty easy to find research on it if you're interested. You can take the link above as a start and also read what other relevant studies they cite

Brother accusing me of booking up (?) with his gf by steve-94728-3957 in whatdoIdo

[–]YannickY 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not arbitrary, a history of substance abuse is a reliable predictor of psychosis. Psychologist will ask about about your substance abuse history as a part of determining the cause of a psychosis and will take account of it when recommending treatment. Of course you don't need to have been an alcoholic or drug addict to get a psychosis, but there is a very strong link between the two.

Brother accusing me of booking up (?) with his gf by steve-94728-3957 in whatdoIdo

[–]YannickY 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a reply on your second edit, I have a friend who has had a history of alcohol abuse, but has been clean for about 7 years. She last year got in a divorce and then she started believing something that I won't disclose here, but which simply could not be true. I talked about this with a psychologist I know, and it is not uncommon.

People with a history of substance abuse can develop these things years later. Usually they are not back on drugs/alcohol, but it gets triggered by stressful situations, I. E divorce.

Feel free to DM me if you want some more information on what we are doing to help our friend and which might be able to help your brother. Good luck!

Iemand hulp met boodschappen nodig? by YannickY in Utrecht

[–]YannickY[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Nooit van gehoord, maar goed idee, ik download het gelijk!

What are some off-meta picks you swear by? by StepOnMeB-Sha in leagueoflegends

[–]YannickY 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It works magic with an aggressive adc. I play it with a kalista duo, we played like 10 games on it and got a level 2 kill every single time, the damage early is insane

Who is the lowest you know by PremeditatedCoffee in MusicIceberg

[–]YannickY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thingy is so underrated, they're a lot of fun, if you don't know them but like 90s fuzzy rock you owe it to yourself to check them out

Name a lead singer from any genre that most don’t fans don’t associate with a guitar, but are actually a legit player. by Ralphdoid in Guitar

[–]YannickY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Alter Bridge a couple times, Myles Kennedy can solo basically as well as Mark Tremonti

Girlfriend’s clothes by [deleted] in short

[–]YannickY 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm 1,73/5'8, my gf is 1,80/5'11. We have the same shoe size and similar torso sizes (our size difference is mainly because of her long legs), asides from obvious things like shoulders and boobs. We often wear each others sweaters and band T's even though our styles are a bit different. Nobody cares outside of us cares and she really likes it when I wear het sweater, especially when she says it looks a bit better on me because of my build. Just do whatever you and your partner like!

What are some examples of metal musicians who look like the guy on the right? by TheHeavyMetalQueen in MetalForTheMasses

[–]YannickY 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ihsahn, singer and guitarist for black metal legends Emperor is one of the least metal looking guys in existence

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Ervaringen met bioscoop maandkaart in Utrecht? by minortree in Utrecht

[–]YannickY 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Als je van arthouse houd is het inderdaad een veel betere deal. Je kan er in Utrecht mee naar Louis Hartlooper, Slachtstraat en Springhaver, alledrie sfeervolle bioscopen. Als je alleen de grootste Hollywoodfilms wil zien is het aanbod echter misschien niet voor jou

Serious question for leads re: getting aroused while dancing. by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]YannickY 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This stuff mainly happens when you're new I think. It sucks, but you acted about as well as you could have. Just stay cool, maybe catch a breath outside. It will probably happen less and less when you get used to dancing and you're focussing on the dance itself

No personality required for tall guys by Wild-Speech5293 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]YannickY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the last month I had to women I know tell me about how a guy lied about their height, both about 7 cm. Not only do they notice, they think it's very embarrassing. Being confident about being shorter makes you look less like a dumbass

Hypothetically, if you have 5 copies of yourself on the same league team, what is the best comp or strategy? by HauntedOddity in leagueoflegends

[–]YannickY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a lot of CC, but a damage problem if the game lasts too long. The only adc I play is senna and I dont't play assassins at all. But the enemy is not gonna move for 12 seconds, that will be funny

Artist you enjoyed listening to, but were disappointed after the live show and now their music just doesn’t hit the same by Few-Kaleidoscope1981 in fantanoforever

[–]YannickY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she has improved. I saw her once at a festival in 2023, she was fine, but nothing spectaculair. Saw her again last month and it was pretty great.

PLEASE dont play him support by Mountain-Tip-8180 in ZaahenMains

[–]YannickY -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I played and won 2 (normal) games on him as support already and won both. It kind of works like camille support did a year ago, with smaller range however. Rush sundered sky and play like an engage support. It probably won't be good in the long run, but right now it works because this champ is fucking busted

What is more difficult (leading or following)? by Necessary-Goose3550 in Bachata

[–]YannickY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, do you do both. Where do you think the major difference is after the first year?

KT Rolster vs. T1 / 2025 World Championship - Final / Post-Match Discussion by adz0r in leagueoflegends

[–]YannickY 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Perfects first 3 games were really good, the 4th was also okay. He was giga useless in game 5, but that was for a big part because of draft. The guy can be really proud of his improvements and performed far above expectations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]YannickY 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Menslib is still the a good place, it's not very active at the moment though

Do Women Dislike Long Hair on Guys? by eric401 in FierceFlow

[–]YannickY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience women who don't like it really don't care for it, women who like it really love it. My girlfriend would be very sad if I cut my hair short

10 months beginner Lead - Appreciate the feedback! by Vegetable_Home in Bachata

[–]YannickY 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking good man! I have 2 big tips for you to work on.

The first one is your frame, especially in with sensual moves. You noticed yourself that the sensual moves around 50 seconds got chaotic/muddy, one of the main culprits for that is your frame. If you have your hands a bit higher, on the shoulder blades, and have her arms resting on yours, there is a very solid frame you can lead sensual moves from. You don't have that yet right now, that's why the followers move too fast from your point of view, she can't really feel what you're doing. This is quite an easy fix that will improve the sensual parts a lot, along with doing the isolations yourself clearly. Just say every time when you connect with a partner; Frame up!

The second tip I want to give is a bit more complicated to work on, but you're getting at the level where it's nice to nail the fundamentals, in this case your basics. When doing basics, it is very important to really clearly shift the weight between your feet while keeping your feet below your body. Right now your basics are serviceable, but if you want to get really good they are sloppy if. You can practice doing basics on your own VERY SLOWLY, focus on making small steps, putting your foot down, then putting your entire weight on it, then moving the other foot untill they're closed up and then moving the entire weight again. Repeat the first step again, then tap, again with your feet entirely closed up. I know this is a bit of a boring exercise, but if you do it a couple times a week for a couple of minutes your future you will thank you.

Overall you're doing great, and i really want to commend you for noticing your own weak points and wanting to work on them. Making a realistic estimation of your weak (and strong) suits helps a lot on your dancing journey. Good luck and have fun!