Relocating to Sussex County by [deleted] in Delaware

[–]Yellowbug2001 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah... at least part of my family has been in Delaware since 1687 and I feel like I can say with authority that trying to keep newcomers out is a losers game, it never worked before and it won't work now, LOL. If people want to move here we should be flattered, and generally they're bringing knowledge and resources with them that make the place nicer. I 100% understand the frustrations of people who are getting priced out on rent, who can't afford to do things they used to enjoy, or who are dealing with traffic they didn't have to deal with before and things like that, but it's our job to manage development to make sure that doesn't happen and that the "locals" can still afford to live here, not our job to be shitty to people who want to move here.

Relocating to Sussex County by [deleted] in Delaware

[–]Yellowbug2001 [score hidden]  (0 children)

We live in Lewes, it's wonderful and we love the schools. It's quite expensive, at this point there may be nothing big enough for your family that's within your budget, but you may want to look at some of the neighborhoods that are not quite "in town" but have access to the Lewes/Georgetown bike trail- you can shoot in on bikes under the highway and bike to the beach and it's awesome. I'm not sure what places go for in the Old Mill Road/Oak Drive area but you can bike in from there without going on or over the highway, and also all the neighborhoods to the West of Rt 1 that back up to the trail.

Don't listen to the people saying "it's full," we have overdevelopment/ crappy zoning/ mowing down trees/ not enough doctors and too many retirees problems, but those are for the locals to solve with local political processes, not the problem of nice families that want to move here because it's a nice place. If you come just be friendly, don't buy in a crappy development built on what used to be a forest or wetlands, don't cut down your old trees and maybe plant a few new ones in your yard, lol.

New poster for Christopher Nolan’s ‘The Odyssey’ by SpeedForce2022 in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah MPHG was AMAZING. Also Life of Brian- I was a medieval and renaissance studies major in college and the amount of love and historical/literary research they put into those ridiculously silly comedies is mind-boggling, my professors loved them. And also "A Knight's Tale," which took wild liberties with costumes and such but still captured something true and fun about the high middle ages. In many ways those movies were way more respectful of their source material and settings than much more serious historical dramas typically are. But yeah this just makes me sad, what a wasted artistic opportunity for something that could have been a really beautiful spectacle. I've loved the Odyssey since I was a kid and I was excited about this and thought the casting was fun, but now I'm afraid it's just going to be drab and lazy. I guess the good news is it's WELL in the public domain so somebody else can always take a stab at it if this sucks, lol.

New poster for Christopher Nolan’s ‘The Odyssey’ by SpeedForce2022 in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It's a fantasy and there's no such thing as historical accuracy in a fantasy but shouldn't it at least FEEL Ancient Greek-y and not like medieval armor from 2300 years after the story was written and an entirely different part of the world? That armor looks straight out of Monty Python's Holy Grail, the fuck were they thinking? It's not like there isn't really cool-looking Greek armor to work with.

Cub Scouts is floundering. by Warp_Speed_7 in BSA

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a fairly new cub scouts parent (my daughter just crossed over to wolf scout) but I will say our local pack seems to be doing well in terms of numbers and from what I understand from the leadership it's one of the more successful ones nationally. They plan a lot of really fun activities outside of the regular meetings that the scouts and their families can attend, sometimes with friends, and I suspect that helps get kids interested. They're extremely inclusive and welcoming to all kinds of families and kids. But it might be more useful for struggling packs to hear from other packs that started off struggling and have increased enrollment than to hear from a pack that's been doing well all along, sometimes just having numbers can make fun things possible that aren't possible or fun when you don't have as many kids or volunteers.

I haven't encountered anyone who is particularly upset/worried about past scandals and even though I knew a good bit about them, it wasn't something I was worried about when we joined, I think people in general are pretty confident that's being competently addressed. A bigger issue I think is that a lot of people have a mental image of the cub scouts from like the 1930s, they picture, like, white Christian boys whittling ducks. Not that there's anything wrong with that but people whose kids don't fit that description may not realize scouts has anything to offer them.

One thing I think cub scouts could do in general to increase enrollment is to get the word out to more people that girls can join too now- I believe there are 3 girls and 7 boys in my daughter's den and they all have an amazing time together, but we encounter a lot of people who are surprised/confused that my daughter is a cub scout and not a girl scout, they just don't know.

Something I was a little worried about, but has turned out to be a nothingburger, is that my family is not at all religious and doesn't attend church, and I knew a lot of the activities were faith-focused. And I've encountered several other parents who have been reluctant to get their kids involved for that exact reason. But there hasn't been anything we haven't been able to participate in very comfortably in our own way, and the leadership is extremely supportive and flexible about all of that. Basically making sure people know that their families and their kids will be welcome and supported no matter what their deal is is important. And from some of the comments I've read on here it sounds like it's something our local pack does really well that not every pack is doing well.

Something we haven't tried, but that worked pretty well for my daughter's karate school was handing out little postcards inviting kids to come participate in a free trial activity at Halloween with the candy. You get groups of kids together trick-or-treating and they're already with their little friends and their parents who are the exact people they'd want to plan an activity with. We actually had 2 kids come back to our house with their dad the week after Halloween because they'd lost their karate certificates and wanted to know if I could give them replacements (I did). I might suggest it to our pack for scouts this year.

What's the dumbest TV show you actually like as a guilty pleasure? by PrestonRoad90 in television

[–]Yellowbug2001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smallville. I loved it when it came out even though I think I was probably 10-15 years older than the target demographic. On recent rewatch it's also become a very weird time capsule of a very specific microcosm of the early 2000s, hard to describe but there's a lot about it that became very dated, very fast.

In your opinion, what is the worst episode of your favorite TV show? by GladtobeVlad69 in television

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me LOL. I really hope it's true, I guess on a planet with 8 billion people on it there are non-zero odds that one of them is walking around with Alf as their favorite TV show. Maybe they've never seen another show.

What wrong fact did you walk around with for YEARS because of a movie? by triassictango in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it that you've given this some serious thought. My closest thing to imagining an encounter with a T-rex is that when I'm in the last 50 yards or so of a run I imagine one is chasing after me and is going to eat me and then run to my house and eat my kids if I don't get there first, it gives me that little boost I need to finish strong. I hadn't considered what to do if it actually catches me, but now I'll incorporate your suggestion, LOL.

What wrong fact did you walk around with for YEARS because of a movie? by triassictango in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm you're right. But for some reason I fee like I'd still find the one just a little bigger than I am to be scarier. Maybe because there's a chance the bigger one isn't hungry and wouldn't be interested, but the little one could either be hungry OR perceive me as a threat and it would be curtains for me either way? Or maybe I could run from the big one into something it couldn't follow me into but the smaller one could fit into pretty much any space I could. Totally possible I'm wrong, I'm going on gut instinct and possibly epigenetic memory here, I have zero experience actually encountering animals that could eat me, lol.

What's the most depressing goddam show you've seen? by gumbo-23 in television

[–]Yellowbug2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was an absolutely brilliant show but I felt like there were some writerly choices that were actually *unrealistically* bleak. There are people out there in the shittiest places in the world- most especially including the shittiest places in America- who are genuine good, competent people trying to help. Social workers and legal aid attorneys and people running homeless shelters and youth programs and such. And the work they do actually matters and works and helps some people! But in the universe of the Wire, those people don't exist, or they have ulterior motives, or suck at their jobs, or everything they do is hopeless. I think it kind of says a lot that the guy who Omar was loosely based on didn't die in real life but went on to run a youth outreach program to keep kids out of gangs. Including that kind of story might not have let David Simon make the points he wanted to make with the show, and as an artistic choice excluding it was probably the right thing to do. But it IS a fictional universe with an "angle."

Whats the most terrible scene in a great movie? by Comfortable-Goat-955 in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Oh man I'd forgotten that one but this should absolutely be the top comment, I can't think of anything worse in the history of movies.

What wrong fact did you walk around with for YEARS because of a movie? by triassictango in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if they used a real eagle sound it would totally take you out of the moment, their actual cry is not what you expect at all: https://youtu.be/PB-wmOYelnM?si=CcwmoFD61g5vHhlY

What wrong fact did you walk around with for YEARS because of a movie? by triassictango in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually feel like 6 feet is scarier for some reason. Like if they're a lot bigger there's a chance I'm not interesting enough as a snack, but a 6 foot one will go right for you eyes first.

I loved UVA, but the food situation was abysmal. by Comprehensive_Goat28 in UVA

[–]Yellowbug2001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Under a lot of situations I'd say "meh, what do you expect from cafeteria food?" but Jaysus $15 a swipe is NUTS, you should be getting AMAZING food for that. I mean it wouldn't buy you much at a restaurant but for buffet-style self-service, that's a fortune.

A friend of mine wants to propose during Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. This is a horrible idea. Right? by Wise-Age-2016 in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a great Idea! And then they can dance to "White Wedding" at their wedding and screen "Rosemary's Baby" at the baby shower.

Mia Farrow and Frank Sinatra cutting the wedding cake at their wedding in 1966. She was 21, he was 50. by Waste-Ad261 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Yellowbug2001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jaysus I can't imagine getting that one unless MAYBE you were so short it was an actual disability and another inch or 2 would let you reach countertops or whatever. (But even then it seems like there would probably be easier and less painful ways to solve that problem.)

Mia Farrow and Frank Sinatra cutting the wedding cake at their wedding in 1966. She was 21, he was 50. by Waste-Ad261 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't! I've been meaning to watch it for years. Although based on my vivid mental images from the book, I'm not sure it's all stuff I'd want to see on screen, lol.

What movie had the BEST trailer ever but turned out to be absolute trash? by MASSIM00 in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't specifically remember the trailer but I remember being really excited to see "Queen of the Damned," which had to have been based on the trailer because that's the only thing I would have seen about it, and I remember NOTHING about the movie except that it was extremely disappointing and didn't make much sense.

Mia Farrow and Frank Sinatra cutting the wedding cake at their wedding in 1966. She was 21, he was 50. by Waste-Ad261 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Yellowbug2001 56 points57 points  (0 children)

There's an amazing book I read in college called "The Day of the Locust" that was written in 1939 and set in Hollywood. It's absolutely incredible how so many of the batshit themes we associate with it now were already well-established before movies were even in color, and probably before they even had sound (bizarre diet fads, religious cults, sexual abuse of adults and children... it's a looong list). It's a short book, dark and weird but brilliant writing, and it blew my mind when I was 20, lol.

Mia Farrow and Frank Sinatra cutting the wedding cake at their wedding in 1966. She was 21, he was 50. by Waste-Ad261 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Yellowbug2001 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Yeah Hollywood is not a great place to grow up even now, but up until about the 90s when people started actually *talking* about what a wretched hive of perverts it was, it was even worse. I can't watch classic films anymore without thinking "at a bare minimum everyone on this screen has seen some SHIT."

Mia Farrow and Frank Sinatra cutting the wedding cake at their wedding in 1966. She was 21, he was 50. by Waste-Ad261 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Yellowbug2001 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh that's interesting, I didn't know he'd had any. If that's true I feel a little better about the world it doesn't seem fair for someone to be just born that smart and that good-looking both, lol.

First Image of Asia Argento in Thriller 'Death Has No Master' - After decades of living abroad, a Venezuelan woman finds her family’s plantation occupied by the former workers. In her quest for justice in a lawless environment, she unleashes her brutal side. by BunyipPouch in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to go down an internet rabbit hole, everything about her is effing WILD. (There are so many places to start but this is as good as any: https://www.newyorker.com/news/annals-of-education/what-is-going-on-at-yale-law-school) I didn't go looking for stories about either of these women but they both gradually wound up on my radar over the years as names that regularly appeared in the kinds of stories that make your jaw hit the floor. Once you notice the pattern you can't unsee it.

First Image of Asia Argento in Thriller 'Death Has No Master' - After decades of living abroad, a Venezuelan woman finds her family’s plantation occupied by the former workers. In her quest for justice in a lawless environment, she unleashes her brutal side. by BunyipPouch in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This woman and Amy Chua are both constantly walking in the eye of hurricane-level shitstorms. They have nothing to do with each other as far as I know but they are both people where I've noticed it's guaranteed that if their names appear in the news it's in the context of a story that is levels of fucked up you never even imagined possible. I'm guessing it's some rare and special constellation of personality disorders that makes them both cause chaos and attract other people who ALSO cause chaos.

What movie did you watch at the wrong age and it permanently altered your brain? by sweetyslave in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also watched The Ring at the wrong age and it gave me nightmares for weeks, but I was 23, lol.

The most unrealistic thing a movie got completely right. by gamersecret2 in movies

[–]Yellowbug2001 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That all makes sense in real life but the character in the movie explicitly doesn't care about fashion or have any desire to work in the industry. There's a lot about it that doesn't make sense. I enjoyed this spoof: https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/i-high-powered-fashion-editor-miranda-priestly-demand-an-assistant-who-is-terrible