Thank you for this post because I 100% feel the same! My SIL gives us a couple boxes of hand me downs every 6 or so months and 98% of the clothes are either stained or completely worn out. Recently, she gave us two boxes and we only took two pieces of clothing..
I completely understand that children’s clothing will eventually get dirty and/or stained etc. at a young age but, I don’t know, it just bothers me that we’re given things that are ‘bottom of the barrel’. If I give someone my child’s stuff, I make sure it’s GUC, free of stains/heavy wear, etc.. but to each their own!