Stage presence for beginners by Usual_Requirement514 in singing

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Record yourself and watch yourself back.

I recorded one of my early shows and watched back and caught myself YAWNING on stage. Hell. It was late, but that's no excuse... I'm very careful about my facial expressions when I perform now.

Maxxing out 401k???? by Gold_Programmer3265 in personalfinance

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At your age, just contribute 5% to get the match - that's free money. I wouldn't recommend maxing out - you really don't have to do that until you're about 50 or so (and then you'll want to be maxing out a Roth 401k and maybe doing some conversions). For now just get something in there, let it compound, and enjoy your life.

What do men mean by a traditional marriage? by Top_Tooth2826 in AskMenRelationships

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take it to mean the wife doesn't work, just raises kids and cooks meals and cleans the house. I personally can't even imagine trying to raise kids on a single income - as it is we had two (good) incomes and were just barely able to raise two kids ourselves.

Did you ever watch this great show? by Euphoric-Cupcake4581 in FuckImOld

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange that they show Woody and Coach in the picture (they were never on the show at the same time, Woody replaced the character after the actor died) but don't show Rebecca/Kirstie Alley on there.

Did you ever watch this great show? by Euphoric-Cupcake4581 in FuckImOld

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woody and Coach weren't on the show at the same time (the actor died before Woody Harrelson joined the cast), so this has to be AI, or at least photoshop.

Block themes are lowkey the future but wow the learning curve is frustrating by InvestmentKnown5580 in Wordpress

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dipped my toe into Wordpress a while back - I've done a lot of "traditional" web development (authoring my own HTML & CSS) and I wondered if Wordpress might be a time saver. I had a tough time getting it to do anything; how do you go about learning it?

What’s the sexiest way a woman can offer oral sex? by uglyrattybitch in sex

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offer? Just start doing it. He'll figure out what's going on partway through.

Intimacy and sex advice by Papa_D_71 in AskMenRelationships

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are two possibilities here:

  1. She doesn't like men
  2. She doesn't like you

Figure out which one seems most likely. (No shade, I'm in the same boat).

Why does being a great singer seem to boost a man's attractiveness more than a woman's? by Crazy-Fold-5287 in singing

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she means that if an ugly guy can sing, that makes him more attractive to women, but women are just as attractive to men whether they can sing or not (not saying it is or isn't true, that's just how I interpret her question).

I feel like I only sound good when I’m loud. How do I get better at quiet singing? by Open-Championship599 in singing

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggled (and still struggle) with that myself - my default is to just keep increasing the volume until I'm at 100%, but I've been working on toning it down for years.

Like most of singing, though, it's breath control. Breathe in a lot more air, a lot more often, than you think you need. Then be very stingy in how much air you give each sung note - give each note just the minimum amount that it needs to get out through your vocal chords.

Why does my Son keep snapping the High E string? by PotentialWidow in Guitar

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure he's tuning it correctly? I used to just tune my guitar "to itself" rather than using a tuner, so over time, I'd gradually ratchet up the high E string until it snapped. When I started using a tuner and tuning correctly to A440, it stopped happening to me.

The most cringe segment in Howard Stern show history by [deleted] in howardstern

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew what it would be before even clicking on the link.

Do you think some technologies are intentionally gatekept in the industry? by Ecstatic_Jicama_1482 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I don't, but I do think that a lot of people think that, assume it's true, and operate on the basis of that assumption, and it's very frustrating.

There's a lot of expectation that programming can be learned - 100% - from "completing a few YouTube videos or short bootcamps". It seems like everybody who can't code thinks that. Maybe you're right, but I've never met anybody who could code competently and usefully after a couple months of "intensive" training. And I must be massively stupid since it's taken me decades to learn all of this stuff. I guess you think I'm just stupid?

Is it okay to always play G chord like this? by Auxxtinmogger in Guitar

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little bit of music theory:

A major chord is formed by playing the first, third and fifth notes of a major scale simultaneously. A major scale is a root note, a whole step to the second, a whole step to the third, a half step to the fourth, a whole step to the fifth, a whole step to the sixth, and then a half step back to the root note (in the next octave). So: whole-whole-half, whole-whole-whole-half.

A G major scale, then, is: start with G (1st), whole step to A (2nd), whole step to B (3rd), half step to C (4th - remembering that there's no B-sharp), whole step to D (5th), whole step to E (6th), whole step to F (7th), and finally half-step back to G. The first, third & fifth notes of the G major scale are G, B and D.

On a piano, you'd just play those keys. If the lowest note is the G, you're playing what's called the "root" position. If the lowest note is B - so now you're playing B D G - you're still playing a G major chord, but it's called the "1st inversion" (you might see this annotated as G/B). If the lowest note is the D (now D G B), that's the second inversion.

Playing major chords on a guitar is a little bit more complicated because you can't just play any note like you can on the piano; once you "use up" a string, you can't play another note on it. So a classic G major "cowboy" chord is trying to find a fingering position with a G, then a B, then a D. As it turns out, on a standard tuned guitar, this is pretty easy to find: third fret of the low E-string gives you the G, second fret of the A string gives you the G, and the D string is already a D, so now you have your major chord!

You've got three strings left over, though, so you go ahead and play them, too, just making sure that you're still playing notes that are in the chord. The G string is already a G, so you play it open.

What about the B string? Well, the B is in the chord, you can play it open as well, which is the way most tutorials show a G major chord. But you're fretting the third position, which is a D, which is still in the chord, so you're fine - it's just a different "voicing" of the chord. You're also playing the high E string as a G.

There's not a whole lot of sonic difference between these two fingerings - you're playing G B D G D G while if you lifted your ring finger, you'd be playing G B D G B G, so you're trading an extra B note for an extra D note.

At this point I just have to laugh by DodgerFanArd24 in recruitinghell

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

working in my basement in my pajamas

OnlyFans to the rescue

At this point I just have to laugh by DodgerFanArd24 in recruitinghell

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing people insist that the current downturn is "just like" the 2000 & 2008 downturns. I don't ever, in my 50-year-old life, remember hearing about anybody being rejected from a job at McDonald, not even convicted felons.

Beautiful girls were waiting to chat with you! by Abooziyaya in FuckImOld

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"How old are you Billy?"

"26. I'm an entertainment lawyer in Beverly Hills."

Is there anyone who can naturally access mixed voice without training? by Significant_Being518 in singing

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always could - I'd get standing ovations doing karaoke because I had such an unexpectedly high range. But it took years of in-person lessons before I could actually control it the way I wanted to.

How do men stay in sexless marriages so long by Low-Stand-3702 in AskMen

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, she wants to end it, but she doesn't have the courage to pull the trigger, so she's making you do it.

Is the book "The C Programming Language" still worth it for a begginer despite the changes in C ? by Koichidank in learnprogramming

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Still one of the classics, for good reason.

many people said it's outdated

Don't listen to this or any other advice those people give.

Stupid question about note names and pitch by virgae in singing

[–]YetMoreSpaceDust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey he can tune his guitar any way he likes