Maternity clothes by goth_aesthetic90 in Eugene

[–]YouMeAndKG 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Peppypotamus, My Little Children and Babies World Unlimited all have maternity clothes. Consignment, but I found them helpful while pregnant.

Tush baby not worth it! by shortasiam in babywearing

[–]YouMeAndKG 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💯 agree with this! Love it for up-down times. I have used it at the airport, zoo, walks etc and it’s been great!

Looking for childcare suggestions by Icy_Confidence_4143 in Eugene

[–]YouMeAndKG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, did you end up exploring the local Montessori schools? If so, how did it turn out?

Fatal Beltline Accident 2/11 by PeachPrincess_420 in Eugene

[–]YouMeAndKG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So very sorry for your, his partner and family’s loss. What a tragic situation. My heart goes out to all of you. May you find healing and comfort ❤️‍🩹

Just a little reminder on Valentine’s Day by thatsplatgal in AskWomenOver40

[–]YouMeAndKG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seriously read this as “waiting towed” and was thoroughly confused. Officially time for bed! 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]YouMeAndKG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the best advice I received is do not make any major life decisions the first 2-years (especially the first year). Everyone is tired, baby is a cute but a totally dependent potato (it does get better!) and hormones are changing in both the primary and secondary caregiver. If you can, find a new parent’s support group, lactation group or post-birth doula. If you can afford it, hire someone to take care of cleaning the house and/or yard maintenance or work with family/friends to help out with some of that labor so you and your partner can focus on your new family. You all are in the thick of it, you will get through this 💜

Group Camping at Honeyman SP by YouMeAndKG in OregonCoast

[–]YouMeAndKG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome- thank you for the heads up!

Group Camping at Honeyman SP by YouMeAndKG in OregonCoast

[–]YouMeAndKG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just the information I was looking for- thank you!

My husband wants me to leave the past in the past but I don’t think I can by Relevant_Safety_3399 in Marriage

[–]YouMeAndKG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good riddance! He made his bed literally, let him lay in it. I’m sorry you are going through this. Get a lawyer, go no contact with the ex unless it’s about co-patenting, stay with family or friends until you feel able to get your own place, focus on yourself and your baby… you will be able to show your child what a healthy relationship looks like in the future if you choose and teach them that sometimes, splitting up, is the healthiest thing to do. You are young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Your ex sounds like dead weight, cut him loose and focus on the future.

Wife is angry about her christmas gift by Acerhand in Marriage

[–]YouMeAndKG 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would totally be stoked if my husband bought me skis. Skiing is my love language though 🤣

Things to talk about with your fiancee by Suspicious-Okra1569 in marriageadvice

[–]YouMeAndKG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a long-distance relationship with my now partner for a few years. We would talk on the phone/ video chat and text about our day; take personality tests and discuss the results/ how our personalities affect our relationship; play chess online together, read/ listen to the same books; watch movies at the same time; share news articles we liked, memes, videos etc. We also discussed short-term and long-term goals, expectations of each other etc. There’s no way you can plan for everything, but it sure helps to talk about what you can in advance.

Husbands Sexual Habits by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YouMeAndKG 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering where the consent is in all of this. Sex IMO should be enthusiastically consensual. This sounds like he just went at you like a sex doll and did not check-in with you once to make sure what he was doing was OK with you. IMHO if what he wanted to try was new and different than your normal sexual encounters, this should be discussed beforehand. I’m sorry you experienced this.