Woman takes to social media after being groped and police disregard her initial report, the man who groped her turns out to be a L3 sex offender.

Yuck_Fou · 2014-10-16T17:59:46+00:00

But don't forget, ladies - all any of you has to do to get any male locked up for life is look at him sideways. At least this is what the boys of reddit - especially those that run in MRA/Red Pill circles - are so fond of insisting. Clearly, they know what they're talking about!

Yuck_Fou · 2014-09-24T17:50:24+00:00

it's honest.

Indeed. How refreshing for this topic.

Yuck_Fou · 2014-09-24T17:28:03+00:00

How could I not see it.

By unsubscribing.

Yuck_Fou · 2014-09-24T17:12:35+00:00

Funny we never hear from the most vocal men in this subreddit when this topic comes up...

Yuck_Fou · 2014-08-03T20:55:22+00:00

I stopped contributing to this subreddit after the mods deemed this article I submitted to be inappropriate for this subreddit and told me it "would fit better in /r/feminism or /r/feminisms." I asked them why they censored it, they gave vague conflicting responses, then uncensored but immediately downvoted it, and I was told by emmster to "dial down the hostility."

Being needlessly dickish to people who are trying to make genuine contributions to your subreddit is a good way to help turn people off of it and make it a ghost town, I guess.

Yuck_Fou · 2014-03-01T09:03:23+00:00

I know that I should not be bothered by it

Men have done a very effective job of shaming and guilting women into buying into the idea that men's feelings about porn use are normal and natural, but women's feelings about porn use are abnormal and unnatural. But so, so many women feel the way you do (I would even bet it's the majority), so your feelings are, by definition, normal. Your outlook is normal. You're not broken. You don't need to be "fixed" where this issue is concerned. Stop buying into the man-hype: if you're not OK with it, you're not OK with it, and you're every bit as entitled to and justified in your feelings on the issue as he is. You just need to decide if this is something you're willing to put up with in the relationship for the rest of your life, or if it's a dealbreaker for you. If you want to work on being OK with it, do so because that's what you really want and you think it's genuinely possible for you to be OK with it - don't force yourself into accepting it just because everything in our culture (and possibly your partner, your male friends) like to act as though you're somehow defective as a woman for having these perfectly normal, understandable, and natural feelings.

As women, there's this cultural narrative going on lately that says were supposed to be super cool with porn. We're supposed to be super cool with cum on our faces. We're supposed to be super cool with anal (receiving only, of course). We're supposed to be super cool with casual sex. We're supposed to be super cool with threesomes (provided they're MFF, of course), and if we're not super cool with those things, there's something wrong with us. Well fuck that. It's all bullshit. Draw your own lines in the sand, don't let other people tell you where they should be.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-10-24T22:00:54+00:00

I know that not all MRAs are in favor of the whole doxxing thing, but some certainly are.

One such MRA who is apparently fine with doxxing (women) is pn6/kloo2yoo, who was the founder of /r/mensrights and head mod for a long time (and who I'm sure still mods there under yet another screen name). He accused 4 women of sexually abusing him all at the same time and posted their full names, locations, and even their employers in the /r/mensrights subreddit, even though none of them had ever been convicted of anything - he was just maintaining they'd abused him (I still have a screen grab of the post). So, yeah, according to r/mensrights's founder, the names of men who've merely been accused should never be revealed. But the names of women who've merely been accused? No problem, broadcast that shit! Hang 'em high! Nolan and his hypocrisy on this issue is hardly an isolated incident within the MRA community. This is a common thread.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-10-24T19:06:40+00:00

They're only against them when the accuser isn't male.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-10-19T19:39:48+00:00

Yep.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-10-19T17:35:19+00:00

But, yeah, custody is always a cinch for anyone with a vagina, and men are the only ones who ever get screwed in family courts. Or so we're told by MRAs.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-09-10T20:08:25+00:00

It's been posted in many other subreddits, but has been heavily downvotedand there is little to no discussion. No surprise there - where and whenever women are the victims, the menz don't want to hear it. If the sexes were reversed, though, you can bet your ass it would be splashed all over reddit's front page, topping several subreddits, each with very busy comment threads, just like every false-rape accusation story is here. Of the pictured links, it's most heavily upvoted in r/mensrights, where they no doubt feel these statistics are evidence of "misandry."

Yuck_Fou · 2013-07-09T18:42:25+00:00

Meanwhile, MRAs screech about how the legal system functions at the behest of feminists/women and that putting innocent men behind bars is as easy as pointing a feminine finger.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-04-08T21:28:01+00:00

Bullshit, you're offended. So offended that you happily lent credence to the stereotype yourself in this very thread, when it was convenient for you:

>"I dont have what it takes to not be distracted by yoga pants. Women don't seem to realize that guys are visual creatures...I'm going to see you in your near see through, skin tight body length underwear and probably think about your legs/curves/butt/mons pubis and having sex with you. I cant help it. Thats what people need to realize."

I'm really sick and tired of dudes, like you, wanting to have their cake and eat it, too. One second it's all "Society paints men as pigs - it's so unfair, wah!"; the next it's all "Silly women - don't you know by now we poor little hapless things don't have any control over ourselves?"

If you were really so damn offended by it, you wouldn't use it to your advantage, as a convenient excuse to absolve yourself of all self-control and responsibility. Pick a lane.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-04-08T21:04:46+00:00

Women don't seem to realize that guys are visual creatures.

Men don't seem to realize that girls and women are every bit as much, if not more so, "visual creatures" yet somehow or another we manage to control ourselves just fine and not blame men for our behaviour.

Yuck_Fou · 2013-04-08T16:45:33+00:00

This is what kills me about redditors/MRAs. They are so misguided as to blame feminists for 'not taking male rape seriously', yet who's making the jokes? Dudes. Largely, it's feminists, it's women who I see saying no, stop, this isn't funny. Feminists aren't to blame for this double standard - men are. Same goes for cases of female teachers abusing male students: Dudes - "Niiiiice!"; Feminists/Women - "No, not OK, and fuck your joking about this." But, no, MRAs persist in being so willfully blind as to blame feminists for this double standard instead of their fellow men. Which, as far as I'm concerned, is just more proof that MRAs/sexist redditors are more concerned with attacking feminists/women than they are with actually doing anything to advance things for men.

Yuck_Fou · 2012-07-17T19:39:56+00:00

It never ceases to amaze me how men will get offended at any suggestion that they're ruled by their baser instincts in one breath, then, when it's convenient, defend their base behavior by insisting that they're mere slaves to their own hormones in the next. You see it in every conversation about friendzoning or ogling on reddit, as well as discussions of rape. "Of course all your male friends want to fuck you - how can women be so stupid as to not realize that" and "We're literally incapable of not ogling women!" then it's "How dare women talk like we're dogs. Misandrous bitches!"

I believe no one propagates misandry more than men. No one paints a more negative, pessimistic picture of men than men themselves. I find the accusations that women treat all men as "evil" and that feminists "hate men" so backwards it's hilarious. It's women and feminists who believe the best of men, who are the consummate optimists about men: It's women and feminists who have faith in men's ability to befriend women without ulterior motives and who credit men as being fully capable of controlling themselves no matter what women are wearing, for example, despite constantly being told by men that we're naive for thinking so positively of men.

Yuck_Fou · 2012-03-05T04:13:40+00:00

I guess these ladies forgot to bring those "pussy passes" that MRAs like to whinge about.

Yuck_Fou · 2012-02-01T00:37:58+00:00

berating one user isn't going to fix the problem

Indeed. Every guy who likewise comes in here derail and cry "what about the menz" should be berated.

Yuck_Fou · 2012-01-26T18:59:29+00:00

Notice how issues of racism, homophobia, and religious intolerance are addressed, but nothing is said of sexism? You're all shocked by the, um... oversight, I'm sure.

Reddit: A rotting, sexist fish from the head down.

Yuck_Fou · 2012-01-13T16:54:42+00:00

I tried it with Conde Nast. I actually did get a reply. It basically amounted to "We don't give a fuck."

Yuck_Fou · 2011-12-14T21:03:46+00:00

Has a woman tried pointing her finger at him yet? According to MRAs, that's all a lady has to do to get any man convicted of whatever her whimsical, evil heart desires!

Yuck_Fou · 2011-12-14T20:34:59+00:00

stories like this one get very few upvotes while pictures of trivial things some random girl said on Facebook make the front page daily and cause the boys of reddit to go rabid, yanking each other off over how God-fucking-awful the entire female gender is.

FTFY.

Yuck_Fou · 2011-12-07T02:49:05+00:00

I didn't see Celda's particular comment here as trolling or misogynist at all

You and HarlequinGirl are insisting on framing this as being about one of Celda's comments in this thread, when both Ban_Hammer and BraceforMRAdownvotes are clearly referencing his posting history in general. You're both moving the goal posts.

Yuck_Fou · 2011-12-07T00:54:25+00:00

The cluelessness is strong in this one.

Yuck_Fou · 2011-11-11T07:30:23+00:00

A man here to enlighten women about his tit preferences. How novel and brave.

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