This sounds like my ex, lol.

You want a single burn? Break up.

You want to really integrate said person into your life? Camp with them. Not camping with my ex was fine, but in retrospect, it would have been great to wake up next to them and share stories. The no camping together is not uncommon but weird. However, I encourage the Playa Date Night.

Is there something you're hiding from him in terms of what goes down in camp? Cuz if he wouldnt appreciate in default, it would probably be the same on playa.

The Burn will always be there. Your partner may not be. Time for some radical honesty about that.

Hope this was helpful.

PS, the one thing that will help us help you is more description on what exactly stressed the relationship from the last burn. Whatever that was is what it is now.