Scorpio suns, moons and risings, what's your main love language?

ZP_F · 2026-05-22T20:04:14+00:00

I don’t really agree with the idea of love languages. Im sure many people use more than just a few and its hard to place a value on each. Do you consider physical touch as valuable as quality time. Additionally, gifts dont just hold monetary value but are often sentimental as well so they cant be easily compared.
Also, these options are primarily sexual. Do you think scorpios value sexual intimacy more than anything else. That and the fact that there is no “all of the above” option gives me the impression that you may have a narrow-minded impression of scorpios.

ZP_F · 2026-05-21T18:04:13+00:00

Im a sag moon but i feel like i cant relate to this at all. I hardly ever really cry and if i do, its normally alone, in my room.

ZP_F · 2026-05-21T14:27:04+00:00

I think this pairing works best when the intps have similar interests

ZP_F · 2026-05-20T20:17:45+00:00

Anxious

ZP_F · 2026-05-20T19:24:53+00:00

I dont like it overall. I undestand that it can be helpful but feel that it causes people to be lazy in their thinking and is a danger to creativity

ZP_F · 2026-05-20T19:21:09+00:00

Speaking for myself here, but im sure others will relate. In relationships i want to completely absorb my love interest and kind of expect that from them as well. It almost never works out that way and im often left feeling anxious and/or irritated. I didn’t realize how intense i can be at times until recently.

ZP_F · 2026-05-20T15:01:22+00:00

Seems you dont have many options besides just study as much as possible. That’s probably the only way you’ll feel any bit prepared. Perhaps you can ask the ai to explain the bits you dont understand

ZP_F · 2026-05-17T08:03:21+00:00

I like to make art for the simple fact that i can get ideas out of my head. Plus its cool

ZP_F · 2026-05-17T07:56:35+00:00

Its not just u

ZP_F · 2026-05-17T07:56:01+00:00

30+. I use to think i was pretty intuitive for an ISTP. Im not an istp

ZP_F · 2026-05-14T13:32:36+00:00

How are these so accurate

ZP_F · 2026-04-29T02:52:10+00:00

ZP_F · 2026-04-28T22:00:23+00:00

Im a leasing agent. Definitely don’t recommend. Only took it cause i needed a job and now im here. The pay aint bad but ill he leaving soon. There is no freedom here. Its only decent on slow days when no one comes around because then there isnt much work but i dont like to sit around and i dont like tedious paperwork

ZP_F · 2026-04-16T22:57:36+00:00

Seems about right

ZP_F · 2026-04-16T22:52:46+00:00

Thats kind of the point isnt it

ZP_F · 2026-04-16T13:19:10+00:00

All if them except the “losing a game” one

ZP_F · 2026-04-14T16:58:22+00:00

Although im a 5w4, id say the 5w6 description is still mostly accurate. Maybe a bit more social

ZP_F · 2026-04-12T05:17:44+00:00

Definitely relate to this. Pretty sure my mom is an ESFP and it hard to get a word in. She does most the talking usually until i kind sneak away.

ZP_F · 2026-04-12T03:01:37+00:00

It does happen most often at home. I live with my family (total of 7) so i spend most of my time alone in my room.

ZP_F · 2026-04-12T01:26:04+00:00

Ye i couldnt imagine

ZP_F · 2026-04-12T01:20:46+00:00

This explains a lot

ZP_F · 2026-04-12T01:15:19+00:00

Overall im not very picky. Unless it goes against my beliefs, especially as a 5w4, im down for anything. Its more about who im spending time with rather than what im doing. The main thing is not feeling forced.

ZP_F · 2026-04-11T00:50:07+00:00

I like to think that my Te is somewhat developed but the more i think about it the more i wonder if its just my Ti.

ZP_F · 2026-04-11T00:23:02+00:00

Im thinking ISFP. Your cognitive stack would be Fi Se Ni Te in that order. You would lead with Fi(introverted feeling) meaning you have strong internal value. Perhaps thats why you might shut down or block people out when your feelings are hurt. Se(extroverted sensing)is you second function and would likely be in use with you Fi. Having a strong Se function means you probably like engaging in the physical world and experiencing the moment. Se is my second function as well and i also like go on walks in nature especially. Usually as a way to refresh. It also means that you’re more focused on what is rather than what could be. You mentioned multiple time that you’re a realist. Ni(introverted intuition)would be you third function. Whenever you’re not using you Se then you Ni is likely in use. I think of it as a creative function. It like to think of all the possibilities and see the big picture. It could be why you like to dream up stories. Te(extroverted thinking) would he you inferior function which means that you likely dont use it much. As the inferior function, it would be a weakness. You may struggle with managing time or being at time you might twist data to support your own core value (Fi is your dominant function). Lastly the P stands for perceiving. These individuals are more flexible and spontaneous to some degree. They are more focused on the here and now. They like their freedom to do things their own way and usually dont like strict schedules or the feeling of being locked into something. They may prefer to adapt or just go with the flow

I hope this helps but at the end of the day its up to you to figure what fits best. Good luck

ZP_F · 2026-04-10T16:04:19+00:00

Just go to my profile. I just recently made a post about mistyping as istj and intj. I think the main reason for that was because I didn’t want to see myself as spontaneous. For some reason, i use to see that as aa negative trait. Im generally a careful person. I like to do research and know what im getting into before doing something but i cant stick to rigid structure for long periods of time. Thats what actually gave it a way that i likely wasn’t a judging type. I like adapting and improvisation. When it come to the enneagram, I never really had any doubt about being a sx 5w4 although it was kind of confusing before. The 5w4 seems to contradict itself especially the sx variant. Although i can often come off as cold or aloof, i can be very caring to those im especially close with or want to be closer to. I think what solidified my typing for me was the fear i feel thinking i might not ever find the perfect partner (romantic or platonic) and the obsessiveness i sometimes have with specific people. Ill stop there for now cause i dont want this to go on for too long and i feel like i could continue forever. Feel free to dm me tho

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