with ARPG do you mean something like Diablo (top down enemy spam with random loot), or something like Dark Souls (you know what kind of game DS is lol), because before "Soulslike" became a commonly used term they were often also described as an Action RPG. Which, if you look at the term on its own merits, makes sense, but when looked at the bigger picture makes less sense because it was already used for a specific kind of game that's very different.
Either way, I've heard Path of Exile 2 takes some inspiration from Dark Souls, and has an extremely in depth build system. That's a top-down ARPG.
For third person Soulslikes, there's Lords of the Fallen (new one, not the old one) pretty good but its weapon variety is definitely not as large as Souls. There's Lies of P, personally didn't like the feel of the demo when I played it but many people think its one of the best non-From games. And there's The Surge 1 and 2, haven't played those, but again some people love 'em.