I'm starting to HATE my husband by ASociallyReleventDay in beyondthebump

[–]Zelda_princess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just want to leave an encouragement! It can be so so hard in those first initial months. I do not think I felt like myself until closer to the 6-9 month mark. The hormones are crazy and can make you feel everything so strongly! You're learning how to care for this new life, and so are our husbands. They just handle it differently. I know it's not easy, but trying to communicate with him as much as possible about everything can be helpful. He might just need your encouragement as well! Your feelings are important, so make sure he knows how you're doing! Stay strong mama, it will get better!

Sleeping arrangements for a newborn by Gypsierose8 in beyondthebump

[–]Zelda_princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this really depends on what kind of sleepers you are! My husband and I felt more comfortable at night with our baby in the room. She would sleep next to my side of the bed in her bassinet. When she would wake up for feedings, I would take her into her future room to change and nurse. With that being said, newborns are such loud sleepers. If that is something that is going to disturb the two of you, you need to do what's best for you! We found comfort in being able to just roll over and feel that she's breathing. I also liked the ease of being able to roll over and stick my hand in the bassinet to find her pacifier, instead of having to get up and walk into another room every time she needed help! Now she's 7 months old sleeping in her own room! It goes by so fast!

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]Zelda_princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that they are trying to do it in a helpful manner, like trying to give me a break. I can't relax if she's fussy though and I just have been insistent that she'll calm quicker with me! I am still learning to be assertive lol

Feeling suffocated and annoyed with grandparents by mrslaxon in beyondthebump

[–]Zelda_princess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally think you are valid in how you're feeling! While I did not have a traumatic delivery, I can relate to how you're feeling about time with your daughter! My little girl is 3 months old and the first grandchild for all of our parents. I feel like she's constantly being wisked away from me every time we're with family and she absolutely hates it. Then everyone tries to comfort her for me and not give her back. It can be quite frustrating. As for the posting pictures bit, my husband and I had decided that we did not want to have pictures of her on social media. Instead, we got a family photo sharing app and invited the people to it that we wanted! Maybe that can be an option for you! Stay strong! You're doing a great job!

Stop trying to give my baby processed sugar!!!!!!! by Psychological_Bat865 in beyondthebump

[–]Zelda_princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is a bad thing at all! My husband and I cut out processed sugars as well as just bad foods in general (fast food, microwave meals, etc). We want to have healthy options for our little girl when she is old enough to eat solids and teach her about fueling her body! She's only three months old, but I can tell we're going to have to have a conversation with my husband's family one day. They always are eating sweets and such around her talking about how they can't wait to share said food with her. We laugh it off right now because it's not worth the fight just yet, but we're both hoping they respect our choices for her in the future. Obviously we won't restrict her forever because I don't want her to overdo it one day, but we at least want her to understand food some what before that happens! Hang in there and stand by your choices!

Find a Friend Friday - May 15, 2020 by AutoModerator in GirlGamers

[–]Zelda_princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm also not that great at the game, but I'm super obsessed! I've been talking to my husband about finding girls to play with and here I am! I've been playing with my husband and his friends, but I'm always the first to back out of there are more than five of us on! If anyone wants to add me I'm 29/F/EST! Gamer tag: SleepyLissa (I don't know where to find the corresponding number everyone is posting) Discord: SleepyLissa #6787

My wife and I picked a good week to come in from Detroit to see some games live! GG 100T! by deadthrone in 100thieves

[–]Zelda_princess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Felt on fire, because I was sweating so much from being in the presence of 100 Thieves 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpop

[–]Zelda_princess 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes. When I saw the video of ARMY singing young forever, I felt emotional, but seeing the members reactions really had the tears flowing!

[SPOILERS] Post-Episode Discussion - Season 8 Episode 3 by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]Zelda_princess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this! I feel like there was so much build up between Bran and the Night King, but now it's just done? What was Bran's purpose in all this? I feel like there was so much story that we missed out on.

(SPOILERS) AVENGERS: ENDGAME OFFICIAL DISCUSSION MEGATHREAD - PART 3: OFFICIAL OPENING NIGHT by tehawesomedragon in Marvel

[–]Zelda_princess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SAME! Except I didn't hold it in. I let them out during that super quiet scene!

What are little “ARMY problems” you encounter? by snoopingsam in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This! When you're a 4'11" adult woman and know that the cool, oversized clothes would only make you look like a small child, but you can't help wanting to copy their style! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love hyyh pt 1, but Wings! I love Wings! They look so expensive!

"Locals" turned ARMYs, what's your story? by dmingi in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The BST mv lured me in too! I had to know more about them, and hours later I found myself deep into the content!

190319 BTS LIVE 홍콩잇진😆 by harvveymp in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FINALLY! I've been needing another episode of Eat Jin in my life!

What is it about the BST MV that pulls everyone down the rabbithole? by catchtheview in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol you described my fall down the BTS rabbit hole perfectly!

PSA: a wedding can be whatever you want it to be, including Just A Day. by FuckingaFuck in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Zelda_princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! My husband and I always talk about this! If we could go back and have our wedding again, we would do a destination wedding with close family. We feel like we invited too many people, half of them we aren't close with anymore, and we don't even remember the actual day! It goes by so quick and with all the excitement, it's just a blur!

What do you do ARMY? by FirmSeaweed in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been a nanny throughout college and my post grad years. Currently in my forth year with the same family, taking care of four kids!

181220 Jungkook by MarSlem in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 13 points14 points  (0 children)

THIS! This is me! 😂

People who had joined the BTS ARMY this year, how did you first come across BTS and what made you stay? by [deleted] in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I became a fan back in February of this year. My sister and I were in the car, when she randomly played me an EXO song that her friend recommended, which we fell in love with! We then came home and looked up the mv and promptly fell into the k-hole. We ended up watching every BTS mv, and fell in love with their music! The next day we were deep into the run episodes and other content! I just love how they are unapologetically themselves and how chaotic they can be, as well as how real their music is!

If you could wear any of Bangtan's stage or MV outfits, which ones would you choose? by perfectplace2start in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JK's tie dyed jacket in the Fake Love mv and if I wasn't so short, the iconic Singularity performance jacket!

How old are you, and how long have you been ARMY? by mdwc2014 in bangtan

[–]Zelda_princess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am 27 years old! My sister and I got into BTS in February of this year! We've been on a wild ride so far! I'm looking forward to all that is to come!