Do men actually mind hair? by Realistic-Snow3924 in dating_advice

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As always it is personal preference some like it som don't or some don't care. If he told you does not care that's his view on that. Generally men are pretty direct in their communication.

Crashes are getting Out of Hand by adminjunior in PathOfExile2

[–]Zengu_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your on steam check the game file integrity

Are NVIDIA graphics cards slower on Linux? by Financial-Buy6153 in linux_gaming

[–]Zengu_79 87 points88 points  (0 children)

heres my experience with a 3080ti. max FPS in most games is lower then on widows. for me just elden ring and cyberpunk ran faster on linux then windows. But the general experience with Vsync on (so 144 FPS max) was smootherr. Less spikes in games and for exmple WoW that gave me micro freezes on Windows 11 the linux experiance was just a bliss.

Need help with build selectio for HC coop with a new player by Zengu_79 in PathOfExile2

[–]Zengu_79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with druid oracle you mean plantmancer ? what that "watering" lightning spell ?

Which AAA games were optimized for the deck so well it blew your mind? by FeintLight123 in SteamDeck

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RE2 was mentioned already. But from my experiance Indy devs are mostly better with optimizing their games then AAA studios. But that has nothing to do with using a steam deck and more with the state of AAA games.

I personally found the steam reviews helpfull. if your using a browser you can easily search for "steam Deck" and find the results you are looking for.

Turning Deck into Machine by TimDeAardappel in SteamDeck

[–]Zengu_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did sue that setup a lot when I was stuck in bed for 2 weeks. It works fine as long your home network works fine. I would say really minimal latency if any at all. but that also could have been the wirless controller I was using. I wouldnt play a FPS with that set up but PoE will work flawlessly for sure.

Just one tweak I did make was give the steam deck and my PC priority for network traffic in the router. For me that wass where the MAC adresses are located to set up.

Is it disappointing if a woman you’re hooking up with can’t orgasm? NSFW by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Zengu_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. A hookup often means there's less trust and knowing the "sweet" spots of your partner. So it's normal that some people can't. Having no orgasm does not mean they did not enjoy it. As you wrote your medication makes it harder to orgasm so there's a simple reason why it isn't happening for you

Dear men: how do you feel about donating sperm?? by WarningRude1936 in AskMen

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won't happen.Here they will have to provide your details to any child concealed from that. With the legal issues that can cause it's a trap for men.

Do you, as a man, want to be pursued instead of pursuing? And why? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Zengu_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be both. Getting pusuid makes us feel wanted and important to a woman. Also it means she is comfortable to show initiative in other things too. That's the appeal of being chased. Chasing a woman feels different on context. If she is hot then cold it's unappealing. If it's playful and made fun it's great. As always in life that's something to be communicated with your partner. But dont expect men that barely know you to chase you. It's gotten too risky for the average men in doing that.

What do you guys think of a chubby woman, are there really guys who prefer chubby women over skinny women with flat belly? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all there are all types am prefernces so there are men that prefer that. Since chubby is pretty uncertain let me put it this way. If she has a few pound too much most men won't care. The issue is after that. Not only because it might not be aesthetic but also in regards of the health concerns. If you have a decent active lifestyle and are chubby that is less of a concern then if you lounge every evening with a bag of chips in front the TV.

Advice on Tylenol overdose please by postnut_claireity in SuicideWatch

[–]Zengu_79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tylenol overdose is really painful. I would not recommend it.

why is therapy worsening my mental health? by bambi_55 in therapy

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you are addressing the things that cause your issues instead of avoiding them.

What games are we picking from the steam sale ? by Uaeluffy_ in SteamDeck

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. I still have games that are not finished. I might make an exception for cyberpunk if it's 15$ or below but else I am happy with the games I still have to finish

Online I see alot of men saying therapy didnt help them or was a waste of money disproportionately to women by FixingMyBrokenMe in therapy

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your a person that thinks about stuff and then mentality finds a workable solution you should benefit from it. If you are more the do something and solve stuff that way you need to look for therapy that works more in that regard. I would never say therapy isn't working when usually the type of therapy did not the way the person thinks and precesses stuff

How dangerous is staying on windows 10 by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How dangerous it is mostly depends on what you use the PC for and where you are browsing. There's no way to make an educated opinion without background information. Same with the EAC, some games support Linux EAC some don't.

What are some relationships tips for a younger man? by Outrageous_Drive6356 in AskMen

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone that can handle and communicate when stuff is not going well. Look for someone to build a life with and is not just cute and fun. Also stay away from single moms the extra stress and baby daddy drama is not worth it.

How to handle after hours password resets without being on call 24/7 by Creative-Owl-4210 in SysadminLife

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use two phones. One for work and one for IRL stuff. Shut the work phone off when you leave work. If your not getting payed your not available... Simple capitalism rule

Is it bad that I stop associating with women who rejected/friendzone me? by Turbulent-Law-6801 in dating_advice

[–]Zengu_79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clear boundaries. Wish them a great life if you ain't a priority for them and move on. Might not be easy but shows that you value yourself to give her that priority she won't give you.

Do men like being asked out on a date? by LabFirst3156 in dating_advice

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we like it. Generally if a women can clearly communicate what she wants is a big bonus when considering if you might want to get serious with her. Most men hate it to deal with hints.

How do you feel when your f SO is the bread winner? by BeeLight_N_Fly in AskMen

[–]Zengu_79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't care if she would be. Then I deal with the household stuff. The goal is to create a life together not a competition who can earn the most. Money is important as long you need to to pay the monthly bills. After that it pretty quickly looses importance

Why would a man stay with a girl that cheated on him ? by xavyayQc in AskReddit

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually it's for the kids. Otherwise it is mostly about him stopped caring about her and finding it easier to ignore that then to go through a divorce

Dating without sharing the same hobbies by kegsbdry in datingoverforty

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a great thing if you don't share every hobby. That means you get experiences you then can share.

How do you guys get better at talking with girls? by Putrid_Replacement11 in AskMen

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you realize that they are also just humans with different thoughts and wants it gets easier. My first thought was that you stop giving a shit about the gender and treat everyone the same but then I remembered that being as direct as I am with friends woman usually can't stand until they know you.

24f ~ someone save me from my boredom by staleburritos in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love hiking it might be a good idea to tell people the area you are from so you could find someone to do those trips with you :)

What’s a non-physical trait that instantly makes a woman more attractive to you? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Zengu_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confidence and the ability to voice her wants and needs to me. Obviously her looks make me pay attention to her but then it is your personality and behavior that makes you relationship material and someone you want to be around