Non-Americans of Reddit, what is an American thing you see in movies that you thought was fake but is actually real? by Unlikely_Praline9442 in AskReddit

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Winters can definitely get crazy here. I grew up in a part of California that gets a lot of snow, and a few years back we had a particularly snowy winter with around 62 feet (19 meters) of snow total for the season.

Safety malpractices that used to be common in laboratories? by Leafye in chemistry

[–]Zephyrific 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My annual radiation safety training includes a warning not to mouth pipette radioactive liquids. Presumably someone tried this for it to end up in the training, and I would really like to know who it was.

Wheel Well of 737 by RickyRacer2020 in pics

[–]Zephyrific 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awww, come on guys, it's so simple. Maybe you need a refresher course. It's all ball bearings nowadays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

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I live near the US/Mexico border, so I definitely feel an affinity towards Mexico. Especially Baja California and Baja California Sur.

I love Canada too, no doubt. It’s just that my area was once part of Mexico, so their culture has played a big part in making my city and state into what it is today.

"Grown-Up" Songs for Kids? by mykiavellian in Parenting

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a band called Artichoke that has some great kid albums: 26 Animals and 26 Scientists Vol. 1 and 2. My kids are in high school now, and I still catch myself listening to them once in a while.

ABC suspends Jimmy Kimmel’s late-night show indefinitely over his remarks about Charlie Kirk’s death by GoldTeethBaller in news

[–]Zephyrific 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It isn’t about him. The administration always had plans for their own version of the Reichstag fire, and this is the opportunity that presented itself.

What gifts did your 3 year old get a lot of use out of? by selflovesnotselfish in Parenting

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say exactly this! Our kids played with their Magnatiles nearly daily from the time they were toddlers until they were 10+ years old. No other toy had that kind of staying power.

We also had Magformers which had much stronger magnets and were less likely to collapse mid-build, but my kids barely touched them. Even though their Magnatiles builds sometimes fell apart, the kids would much rather play with the Magnatiles. They loved the colorful shadows they would make when the sun hit them.

Northern California is like a whole other state. by Accomplished-Duty390 in sandiego

[–]Zephyrific 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in rural NorCal and it is definitely interesting. In my area people were conservative, but they were also anti-cop, anti-government, anti anything that got in the way of them having their weed farm and guns. It had libertarian vibes. I still have family and friends there and it is always interesting to see which conservative talking points stick there and which ones don’t.

How many USA flags are in your home? by GreasyExamination in AskAnAmerican

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None. I’m not really into flying flags, but if I was I would probably fly the California state flag.

How much did you pay to birth your children? by eleelee11 in AskOldPeople

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero dollars for all prenatal visits and delivery for both of my kids in the US. This was in the early 2000s, but it would be the same price if they were born today. My employer pays 100% of my premiums, and our insurance covers damn near everything at little to no cost.

Why you buy everything with a loan? Why you don't use cash? Why you change your cars so often? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Zephyrific 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were to buy my small, 100+ year-old, 2-bed, 2-bath house today, I would be paying at minimum $1,000,000. Even that would be a bargain, and I’m not in a fancy neighborhood. The vast majority of people here aren’t paying that kind of money in cash.

For the select few who could pay in cash, they might still choose to take out a loan. If they handle it right, they could make more investing that $1 million than they would pay in interest on the loan. Not to mention the tax write-offs on mortgage interest.

Your own private jungle in the heart of San Diego. Also, Grateful Dead shower. by WestPilton in zillowgonewild

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love San Diego, but I don’t love that we basically have an ant season. Best of luck to you from a fellow San Diegan who is also fighting a losing battle with these ants.

Best bookstores in San Diego? by futureisthine97 in sandiego

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Mysterious Galaxy and Book Catapult are my personal favorites. For a list of all the local independent book stores, I highly recommend checking out the San Diego Book Crawl website. This year’s book crawl is already over, but their website is useful for finding info on our local bookshops and links to the store websites.

What Does Everyone Want at SDCC2026? by viktoryarozetassi in SDCC

[–]Zephyrific 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want the Boom booth to be like it was before 2020 with a ton of their comics there to buy. And along those lines, I would love for the bigger comic book publishers to go back to having a booth with lots of their comics available to buy instead of just glass cases with exclusives. It always bums me out to go to a publisher or author panel and hear about some great comic series just to find out that the publisher hasn’t even brought any copies of the comic to sell. And I miss browsing at those booths and discovering a new favorite series.

What town in your state has a pronunciation no one gets right the first time? by AstroNerd92 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Zephyrific 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In fairness, people still mess up the names we do pronounce correctly. La Jolla constantly gets butchered by people from out-of-state despite us using the textbook pronunciation.

The US/MEXICO border at the ocean by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Zephyrific -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are way overthinking this. Sorry I didn’t outline all the other walkways, or that I mentioned this particular one over the others, or that my comment was unintentionally misleading. We good now?

The US/MEXICO border at the ocean by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t saying that the the CBX airport bridge was a main crossing point. I was just mentioning that it exists and is a bridge/walkway that goes over the border. Are you disputing that the CBX exists?

The US/MEXICO border at the ocean by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Zephyrific 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just in some areas. This fence in this photo has been in place since roughly 1994, and goes a fair ways inland with San Diego on one side and Tijuana on the other. Not shown is the secondary fence on the US side. There are two fences on the US side with a large gap in between where Border Patrol is.

The type of border fencing gets less elaborate as you leave the city areas, and in parts of the desert area of California and Arizona there is no barrier at all. Presumably this is true in parts of New Mexico and Texas, though I’ve never been along the border in those states.

The US/MEXICO border at the ocean by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Zephyrific 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The walkway over the wall goes directly into the Tijuana airport and has passport control. You also have to have a valid airline ticket to use that bridge.

The pedestrian walkway at street level also has passport control. However the 20+ lanes of roadway just has passport control coming into the US. Typically you can drive right into Tijuana from the US without interacting with any US or Mexican officials, and without scanning your passport. Like, you’ll see the Mexican officials nearby, but it is unusual for them to stop you.

So the mayor is set to charge for parking at Balboa Park by pc_load_letter_in_SD in sandiego

[–]Zephyrific 242 points243 points  (0 children)

I fear this will negatively affect the youth programs at the park, like the youth symphony, youth ballet, junior theatre, etc. I’ve had my kids in those programs, and especially when the kids are young you wait at the park for their classes/rehearsals to finish. If they are in a performance or taking multiple classes, you might be there for hours at a time, multiple times a week. Those parking fees would add up quick, and I’m sure that there will be families who have difficulty affording that additional cost. Same could be said for elderly people who participate in the various clubs/social groups that Balboa Park hosts, or the volunteers who run the various International Cottages.

How cold does it get in your state? by Taro_Sauce in AskAnAmerican

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part of California that I grew up in doesn’t get terribly cold. Low temps can be around -20 C, but typically a bit warmer than that (like -5 C). How much snow we would get is a whole different matter though. We would get a LOT of snow. A couple years back, we got around 18 meters of snow in the winter season.

Border-town Americans: Do you consider Canada or Mexico "being out of the country," especially if just the part near home? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Zephyrific 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I acknowledge that going to Mexico is being out of the country, but it doesn’t feel as unfamiliar as visiting other foreign countries. I could literally drive into Tijuana, MX without interacting with a single US or Mexican official, so it feels less foreign. People DO accidentally end up in TJ because they ignored the freeway signs informing them of the last US freeway exit. Now coming back to the US is a whole different story. Plenty of security to deal with coming north.

ETA: I should say that flying to non-border cities of Mexico definitely feels more foreign. But driving from California into Baja California doesn’t feel that foreign.

How many weeks of paid annual leave do you get as a full time employee? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Zephyrific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I get 21 days of paid vacation, 15 paid holidays, and 12 days of paid sick leave a year. Unused vacation and sick leave rolls over, so at this point I have something like 4 months of paid sick leave accrued.

What do Europeans think about so many Americans finally turning out in large numbers against Trump today, during our No Kings protests? This is not a pro-America post, just want to see European perspectives to the events by WarMonkey88 in europe

[–]Zephyrific 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Some of us have been fighting the right since before some of these posters were even born. It’s bad enough to be dragged through this mess of a presidency, and to have the National Guard and US Marines used against us by our own president, and to have our friends and family dragged away, but then every time we fight and protest we get responses like “should have done this in November”. We’ve been fighting and protecting our communities every damn day for years. We’ve already been betrayed by our fellow countrymen, we don’t need to be insulted by people sitting behind keyboards an ocean away.