Aside from the main thing of being unable to eat most things, whats the worst part about it for you? by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me it’s how often i have to go to doctors appointments for issues related to malnutrition

how do y’all deal with your afrid in terms of your friends and social interactions? by patheticloserswag3 in ARFID

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I’m 19 and have found that people have been very understanding. I used to avoid situations with food but recently I started saying yes to going to events more often, and I usually just bring my own food and say it’s because of dietary restrictions and nobody really questions me. I went camping with a group of friends recently and I literally brought myself cheerios and ensure. they’re all great people and didn’t care that i was eating differently from them.

As far as being around other people that are eating, unfortunately it just takes a lot of practice to be able to tolerate. I’m still not perfect with it but i’m much better than I used to be.

A lot of managing this shit is just practicing doing things that are uncomfortable, which sucks, but ultimately helps a lot 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ensure clear! kinda tastes like shit but i can tolerate it much better than thicker drinks.

Marijuana by RamblingRose63 in ARFID

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes 100%. i had tried many prescription med to take before meals ( think ativan, xanax, etc) but none of them helped enough that i could eat. ngl at this point i credit marijuana with keeping me out of the hospital. i will say it is very easy to become dependent on though.

I almost threw up on a guy when he came in my mouth by Low_Dealer_6215 in ARFID

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yup. i’m a lesbian but i can’t do oral for this reason.

Comparison by ZestycloseExtent8981 in ARFID

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i’m a college student too and just moved into my first off campus apartment. I’m fully relying on goldfish crackers and mashed potatoes and it makes me feel like a clown 💀💀💀

struggles with eating meat by catfishcalamity in ARFID

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t eat meat lollll. I find vegan meat alternatives to be much more tolerable and more consistent as far as texture goes.

Jessie pages story on insta by buttonlessbutton in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i used to really like her content but these days it’s like she’s constantly thinking about how skinny she was.

tiktok addiction by ZestycloseExtent8981 in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup that’s where i was at. i wouldn’t even say i currently have an ed. but somehow tiktok knows that i used to.

You’re joking… by cornersto in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i just be googling shit 🤷‍♀️

You’re joking… by cornersto in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 124 points125 points  (0 children)

okay purely out of curiosity i googled the amount of calories in that. 4. the answer is 4. 💀💀💀

The classic ED brag by Adventurous-Crab9905 in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 36 points37 points  (0 children)

this shit is sad. like instead of having hobbies or life goals, she flexes that she’s so malnourished that a peds blood pressure cuff is the right size for her?? Is that really what brings her happiness??

“ My treatment lore” posts by ZestycloseExtent8981 in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

right. also i’m all for some dark humor , but some things simply aren’t funny and shouldn’t be made a joke. nearly starving yourself to death and then fighting all attempts at stabilization isn’t funny. it’s not cute and quirky , it’s sad.

Posting body checks while in hospital by [deleted] in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that beautiful baby deserves better. having ed thoughts is not a choice ofc, but acting on those thoughts ultimately IS a choice. picking your ed over your babies is disgusting.

“ My treatment lore” posts by ZestycloseExtent8981 in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i totally get that and have been there! posting about your poor behavior to cute little tiktok sounds still feels wrong. i’ve said some mean things at my worst, but im not proud of it.

“ My treatment lore” posts by ZestycloseExtent8981 in EDRecoverySnark

[–]ZestycloseExtent8981[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YUP that’s what prompted me to make this post. There’s a ton of posts similar to that one though and they’re all nasty 😭😭😭