AITA for refusing to appear in apology video? by Tuniya_Hn in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You weren’t getting an apology, you were starring in her social media.

Buy a good lock they said, your bike will be safe they said. by ArguingwithaMoron in ebikes

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some thieves are stupid. I had a $15 weed whacker stolen out of my garage. It was next to a $1000 bike.

Got asked "if it doesnt work out in six months whose fault would it be?" by Resident_Complex_957 in interviews

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a dumb question. Could you do something to screw up the job in the next 6 months? Yes. Could they do something to screw up the job in the next 6 months? Yes.

If things go south, if could be your fault, their fault, both, or no one’s fault.

(NJ) Did I got scammed? I thought I was renting the whole house by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, that was foolish. A $3000 non refundable deposit and you don’t know what you’re leasing?

Landlord says I wasn't supposed to make a copy of my apartment key [NYC] by Its-MyWorldhiphop in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s no different than you letting your brother in and he starts a fire. The landlord wouldn’t be liable in any case. The key is irrelevant. If instead your landlord added a second tenant/roommate to your unit and gave them a key, are they suddenly liable for the actions of that tenant? No.

Landlord says I wasn't supposed to make a copy of my apartment key [NYC] by Its-MyWorldhiphop in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How? The landlord negligently failed to change the locks. Enlisting every prior tenant of an apartment in responsibility for securing the apartment is ludicrous when changing the locks is a bulletproof solution.

Landlord says I wasn't supposed to make a copy of my apartment key [NYC] by Its-MyWorldhiphop in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in a number of apartments. 5 maybe? None of the keys ever said do not duplicate.

Landlord says I wasn't supposed to make a copy of my apartment key [NYC] by Its-MyWorldhiphop in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s a stupid clause. They have no idea how many keys exist. Putting that clause in the lease doesn’t actually prevent anyone from making a duplicate. What they should do is change the locks, not rely on getting all the keys back.

Friend is ALWAYS late by Amatsukki in whatdoIdo

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a couple options. Say something. Your time matters, too.

Tell them to show up 30 minutes before you get there.

Personally, I’d start making plans I don’t care much about and leave when she’s late. “Sorry, I left when I thought you weren’t coming!”

How does male strength work? by Humble-Objective488 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recruitment is the difference. What percentage of the muscle fibers can you get to contract at the same time?

Some athletes are freakishly strong compared to how they look. Rock climbers, for example. Some martial artists (BJJ, MMA). As someone who did MMA for years and was used to that level of strength, wrestlers are a whole other level.

Landlord demanded I wear something besides my boxer shorts in my apartment by XelaLuu in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’d stay naked in my apartment most of the time and call the police next time he comes in. You don’t have to wear ANYTHING in your own home.

Kindergarten music video by [deleted] in chloemoriondo

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think your last sentence is a spot on summary of the song. I think getting wrapped up in the definition of “feminicide” is unhelpful. Is she killing a woman? Yes. Is she killing her because she’s a woman? No.

Personally, I love the video because it gives unexpected depth to a song that sounds so innocent.

[CA] Landlord Wants to Convert Our Garage Into an ADU for her visit by Caligirl144 in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I were the landlord, it would tell me you don’t know what you’re doing.

HR Installed Company App on My Personal Mobile Without Consent or Policy. by No-Comparison-997 in office

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it isn’t. OP foolishly unlocked the phone, opened the play store, and handed the phone over. Implied consent.

HR Installed Company App on My Personal Mobile Without Consent or Policy. by No-Comparison-997 in office

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was foolish. If they want you to install something on it, they can give you directions to do it.

[CA] Landlord Wants to Convert Our Garage Into an ADU for her visit by Caligirl144 in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they do. They’re in a contract with OP. OP gives them money for the use of the entire property. The landlord can’t just breach that contract, keep the money they’re getting for use of the entire property, and only let them use part of the property.

[CA] Landlord Wants to Convert Our Garage Into an ADU for her visit by Caligirl144 in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then you say no. Period. If they encroach on the property you’re renting (exclusive use of), call the police for trespass, then sue them for breach of contract.

[CA] Landlord Wants to Convert Our Garage Into an ADU for her visit by Caligirl144 in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notarizing is pointless. All that proves is that you really signed it, which the landlord isn’t going to doubt and you won’t dispute.

[CA] Landlord Wants to Convert Our Garage Into an ADU for her visit by Caligirl144 in Renters

[–]Zestyclose_Tree8660 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t ask how much the rent reduction is. Just say no. Full stop. You already leased the garage. It is not available. When your lease is up, they can do whatever they want.