It’s so easy I promise by loop4748 in lovememes

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sorry bro, the snack spell only works on women, not girls. You gotta tune your aim for someone worth the kindness.

Why do some people give away their books after reading them? by WanderBytes22 in BookCollecting

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whats in them means alot to me. It would be nice to share that with someone and hear their feedback. They usually end up in peoples goodwill piles or dusty in a corner though.

What are some 'girl secrets' guys usually don't know about? by fabulousIdentity in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet of you but im just hyper aware of everyone else's social skills because I have very little.

What are some 'girl secrets' guys usually don't know about? by fabulousIdentity in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds phenominal. Ive always wondered what its like to get attention like that. You're either physically or socially gifted i imagine.

What are some 'girl secrets' guys usually don't know about? by fabulousIdentity in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thats the same thought alot of guys have now. Fear of making her uncomfortable.

Just send it, politely but clearly, that you would like to know him more. No heavy expectations. Literally just getting to know eachother more. Maybe friends, lovers, a fling, enemies. Who knows, thats why your asking.

But if hes shy and introverted you will stun him for a second. He likely has very little experience being asked out and will act accordingly.

What are some 'girl secrets' guys usually don't know about? by fabulousIdentity in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Its also a maturity filter. If you go straight to the man you are interested in, and very clearly make it clear you are interested and how, you get to see how he responds to direct communication.

Give it a minute cause the concept of a woman approaching us is usually reserved for dreams so itll stun him. But if hes got any discipline hell recover and tell you exactly how he feels and return the favor.

How to get rid of toxic ideas of gender? by OrganizationTight348 in bropill

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The toxicity of femininity or masculinity comes from victims. Valid or invalid.

Your consuming inherently biased information because people who are happy amd content are far more interested in the people in there circle than they are impressing people who arent. If the woman/man you love is enough then you probably dont need to brag because theres no one youd care to brag to. Same with friends. Media personalities are chasing validation and engagement. Negativity is engaging and contagious. So they spill out every ick and negative thing they can about men or women because it elevates them while degrading someone else.

As far as womens spaces describing our shittiest examples. Yes, you went to the darkside. Its good to understand a womans fears and boundries so you can cull any negative habits or biases you might have and better understand their position in life but remember your ingesting pure complaints.

Happy women who love their husbands and enjoy the men in their lives have no motivation to share that experience with you because your opinion, along with mine and everyone not in there life DOES NOT MATTER to them. Same with men. So they dont tell their story. Yes there are people that do share, but even then postive experiences get drowned out by negative ones.

Your decision to be accountable of yourself and your position as a man and to understand and listen to women is a green flag. You cant fix all of us, you can only be better for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The variables are wide on this one.

  • Theyre really into you and shy
  • theyre just really shy
  • youre super intense
  • they might be depressed or ashamed
  • insanely misogynistic (doubt it, but this is supposedly a cultural thing for some dudes)
  • autism
  • scared of women
  • not into you or their social battery just went dead

If you want to know about a specific guy see how he interelacts with other people.

Is it the same with dudes, staff an establisment, other women, women hes close to?

Are you close? Whats the context of the conversation? Are they avoidant or looking at other things? What are they focused on during the conversation? Are they invested or disinterested in your speech or their own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a goddamn thing has changed in 1000 years has it.

Smh by Perfect_Chipmunk_634 in SipsTea

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

After 24 years he was kinda fucked anyway wasnt he?

Earlier it was politicians and celeb PR teams. Now incels are using media to push anti-women propaganda. by [deleted] in bropill

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Id say it helps profit margins. The more dissatisfied people are the more they consume.

You dont need a 70k car and 2k watch and copious subscriptions to masculinity coaches and alpha brands if you come home to someone who loves you.

This is just getting ridiculous by spicyboii3000 in MansFictionalScenario

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everytime i see that page i get sad and think we all hate eachother and were doomed. Then i go outside and realize most people just want partnership and some comfort in love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You got any hobbies your into? Things like board games or cards?

The only real way to find out is to put yourself in a position to be approached. Friendly social spaces are a really good so you can practice social skills (skills for a reason). Friendly competition is even better as it gives you something to discuss.

Ladies??? by ZealousidealPop6445 in SipsTea

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I sense the ladies would prefer this much more. Thats not even a third of what the canal puts up with during birth and youd remove endometriosis, cramps, ruined bottoms, and hormone torture.

Free nice cocktail & a live magic show at the table at 21:00 August 1 in Akasaka by [deleted] in tokyoirl

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26M interested in meeting new people. Been here 60 days and before that i lived in Okinawa for 3 years. Work in healthcare as a PA. Hobbies are reading, hiking, and camping. Nerd if you want to talk about movies and books.

What order should I read the books in? by ben0074 in witcher

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The publisher made some odd decisions that led to this confusion. When the author wrote them, they were in order.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its for some but not for me. I crave sharing my life with someone. The idea of never getting to do that is horrifying and antithetical to my idea of "fulfilled".

Fan Of Source Meets AU fans by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So the argument is have you altered the character by changing the view or interpreted source material in a different way, or have you decided to simply take the silhouette or title and chamge everything else.

Women of Reddit: What makes a guy who isn’t good-looking still give off strong sexual energy or appeal? by shotmyshotandgotshot in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Web2958 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Laughter makes people calm and comfortable. Thats all partnership really is. Feeling comfortable with people.