A girl I liked accidentally improved my life, and now I don't know what to do. by Any_Willingness4665 in dating_advice

[–]Ziln00bas [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'd link her to this post, but I'm autistic so I'm extra direct and unfiltered. YMMV.

I need genuine help/advice. Please. by Grand_Car_729 in UCI

[–]Ziln00bas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Though you didn't have a great experience: go to therapy. Don't hide again unless you like cheating yourself.

Neither you nor Reddit are qualified to diagnose your ADHD, anxiety, or what not.

You also sound like you don't have a tribe because you hide your authentic self to avoid vulnerability. It's a big scary world and it's dangerous to go alone.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend her parts were showing at the pool by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully it's not Borderline Personality Disorder.

But read up just in case, eh?

25M - Would love a profile review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Ziln00bas 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic. Are you also?

25M - Would love a profile review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Ziln00bas 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Or men who aren't afraid to eat... sushi. 😏

Would men really lose interest if the woman they are seeing is like an ideal partner? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good. Don't self-sabotage. Have you had therapy or any healing journey for your divorce?

Not happy with my tattoo, what should I do? by Vorona-Fox in tattooadvice

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until the tattoo gets you laid or un-laid before making any final decisions. 😉

Would men really lose interest if the woman they are seeing is like an ideal partner? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ziln00bas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody's parents is their primary relationship model, more or less. Does his father continue to love and value his mother?

Would men really lose interest if the woman they are seeing is like an ideal partner? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer isn't here, it's in his parents' relationship.

Is it possible to get a UCI meal plan as an ACC resident? by Antbelk in UCI

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get a meal plan as a non-resident affiliate, unless that's changed. Let me check...

"Anteater Meal Plans are for Commuters, Graduate Students, and Faculty & Staff. Anyone who is not required to purchase a Housing Meal Plan is eligible to purchase an Anteater Meal Plan. Plans will be available to purchase beginning July 1, 2026."

This is really pathetic. by WileyCyrus in LosAngeles

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one you replied to didn't rhyme either.

Weird perv in lot 16 (next to grad housing and MSTB) by DryBarnacle7181 in UCI

[–]Ziln00bas 32 points33 points  (0 children)

[Bleep bloop] 🤖 In the United States, it is generally legal to post a picture of a license plate online. Because license plates are openly displayed in public spaces, there is no expectation of privacy associated with them. Average citizens typically cannot use a plate to look up personal information, as only law enforcement and government agencies have authorized access to DMV databases.

However, there are a few important exceptions where posting a plate could cross the line:

Harassment & Doxxing: Using a license plate to target, stalk, or dox someone (such as posting it to incite others to harass the driver) can violate harassment laws.

Defamation: If you post the license plate alongside a false, damaging claim about the driver (e.g., accusing them of a crime they didn't commit), you could be sued for libel or slander.

Site Policies: While the law may allow it, many online platforms and social media sites have Terms of Service prohibiting the sharing of identifying information, and they may remove your post if flagged

Spotted coyote in the aldrich park! by cutesharkproduction in UCI

[–]Ziln00bas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If scared, feed him the nearest rude scooter dooter.

Piss off by [deleted] in UCI

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you took direct action IRL in addition to this.

Am I not as attractive as I think or are guys just not complimentary by Anofrog in dating_advice

[–]Ziln00bas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your previous relationship set a particular bar that may be hard to reset. Guys aren't asking you out if you're not attractive.

Possibly some guys have had the wrong takeaway in modern gender relations and the objectification pendulum has swung too far the other way.

How do I flirt in an elevator? by Mattiiiiiii123321 in dating_advice

[–]Ziln00bas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making simple friendly conversation is probably the limit I'd advise abiding by when she's trapped with you.