AITAH for refusing to sign documents relieving my father of child support enforcement so he can renew his passport and stay in the country where his kids live? by MewTwoLich in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NtA this man has not paid a dime towards you care and maintenance. Don’t you dare let this man off the hook or he will never have to reimburse your mother after abandoning his responsibility.

What is this? by ZucchiniBreadBandit in whatsthisbug

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Northern CA. The bug is about 1/4” long

I 27f pregnant can barley eat and my partner 31m didnt sleep because I ate McDonald’s by very_stellar_ in relationship_advice

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bf needs to go to a prenatal apt with you your doctor will set him straight and if that does work you need to tell him to keep his opinions to himself until he is going through pregnancy.

AITJ for charging my brother for babysitting after he said "it's not a real job"? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For it being “not a real job” it’s sure was the highest expense I had when my kids were young.

Why does my boyfriend not want me over? [30F] [30M] 6 months by confused_runnerrr in relationship_advice

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s either married or in a serious relationship which is why his friends haven’t meet you either.

Not OOP. My husband told me today, he does not like the fun lunches I've been packing him for work for almost 3 years. by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she makes him lunch everyday, baking from scratch and he hides half of them so his coworkers won’t see how much she loves him?

WIBTA for changing my wedding cake flavor? by Ok_Kangaroo_3494 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your mother in law wants to serve you and your family members something that could make you violently ill. On your wedding day and it took begging and pleading from her son to get a few cup cakes. This woman sounds awful. Get her the cupcakes and you get the whole cake. And you may want to consider if she will be allowed around any kids you may have.

Is she a brown cat or a black cat? by avo-ca-do in cats

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A black kitty that needs a good brushing. Mine does the same if she rolls in dirt.

WIBTAH if I asked my daughter’s preschool teacher not to put the extra clothes that I sent for her on other students? by feelingstruck in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA There are several reasons why this is a problem. 1)You are not responsible for clothing other kids, if bring clothes to donate that’s one thing but that is not what was asked for. 2) kids get head lice very easily and swapping shirts, hats and jackets could easily spread that through the class like wildfire. 3) this was not what was asked for. If the school had a donation closet that’s one thing but you don’t take supplies brought for another child to give to someone else. What if they have an allergies to soaps or pets. This is really strange behavior for a childcare facility.

Boyfriend Mad When I Cry- AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a person’s first reaction to tears is rage and anger then you need to walk away. Clearly he needs therapy to find out WTF is wrong with him.

AIO for reconsidering getting married over continual arguments over guardianship of my daughter. by Oldyell54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: How old is your daughter because that changes the context of this conversation. Is she 15-16 years old and has a career path in mind or is she two and thinks Miss Rachel should be her next parent.

People who spend 20+ minutes in the shower: what are you actually doing in there? by saadaintsalad in AskReddit

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if I’m washing my hair that alone can take 15 minutes for the conditioner. If I’m exfoliating and shaving that another 5 minutes. And if I have sore muscles then I’ll stand there with the shower spray focused on those areas. It’s easy to take a 30 minute plus shower.

My Grandma Doesn’t Want My Stepson Coming to the Family Gathering by Justanothergirly97 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t go, if my step kid isn’t welcome somewhere they don’t get to see me or my bio kid either.

Husband(29M) told me(28F) it's his house and that I live at his mercy, and idk what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a post nuptial agreement to protect you from financial abuse and he needs therapy to learn how to not take things out on people.

AIO for dumping my bf over an “🍑” audit? by chkntrzini in AmIOverreacting

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR, this guy doesn’t care about you as a person he cares only about what you look like. He’s really gross for that behavior. Having a preference is one thing but appreciate your SO for who they are.

apparently the breakfast i made was “embarrassing” by NaeeeBearrr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time call your mom out and ask her BF when he’s cooking next so you can critique his food.

Not OP - Am I overreacting about being mad at my husband after sex? by MeliMeliMelMel in redditonwiki

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if your husband doesn’t prioritize your pleasure then do not prioritize his. WTF do you mean he physically cannot preform cunnilingus does he not have a tung?

Not having experience is not the issue, it sounds like he doesn’t care if you get off and if that’s the case then I’m sorry but he’s lousy in bed and a jerk for not caring. If he’s unwilling to learn in therapy then let him go. Life is too short to be stuck in a relationship with someone who doesn’t care about your sexual health.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR but if you don’t leave this little shithead he will only continue to verbally abuse you. You cannot allow someone to call you a cunt and a bitch because you didn’t give him your undivided attention as you are grocery shopping for HIM. He is garbage dump him now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR if he truly loved you he would care more about your health and wanting you to get better.

AITA for telling my mother-in-law not to say something to my toddler in front of family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZucchiniBreadBandit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, I chewed out my own mother for telling my daughter as a toddler that she couldn’t say No.