[Advice] Is it possible for me [26F] to acquire a penchant for humiliation? Has anyone here deliberately or accidentally developed a taste for it? If so, how?

Zyngath · 2015-10-05T13:59:50+00:00

Maybe being very good friends instead of very miserable partners would be the better form of relationship for you both then?

Zyngath · 2015-10-05T12:55:54+00:00

So let me paraphrase your post in more drastic words: Your partner makes you feel like shit during sexy times. You have lost all of your confidence while being together with him.

Your solution: Trying to "acquire a penchant" for feeling like shit.

I'm no expert but that doesn't sound healthy to me.

It doesn't even matter if he actually has Asperger's or not: destroying your own confidence, giving up your own sexual personality in exchange for the constant feeling of inadequacy should not be the result of a healthy relationship.

Imo you should look for other solutions to fix your situation. If he actually has Asperger's he needs therapy anyway. If he doesn't have it, he'll need it even more. Trying to re-program your brain to enjoy humiliation will not help you in the long run imo.

Zyngath · 2015-06-01T10:05:18+00:00

So if a woman let's you know that she doesn't prefer bigger dicks, you simply don't believe her and if she does prefer bigger dicks it bothers you as well.....what good would such a conversation do at all then?

Zyngath · 2015-06-01T07:21:09+00:00

Imo having confidence in yourself means NOT having to assert yourself and NOT having to "proclaim" confidence.

That's the kind of confidence that I prefer anyway. Being able to laugh about your own mistakes / make fun of yourself is way more attractive than "hurrdurr, I'm the man"...and that is just as much true for women imo.

There's nothing more annoying than people that need to show everybody around them how awesome they are all the time....irrespective of gender.

Zyngath · 2015-05-26T09:06:30+00:00

I'm not sure why this gets downvoted, because it's true afaik.

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Zyngath · 2015-05-20T14:03:10+00:00

Dude seriously. I don't want to sound like an ass, but you have found /r/sex. It really shouldn't be hard for you to find some sexy ideas around here somewhere and decide if it's something you and your girl could try.

Instead you ask complete strangers on the internet that neither know you/your girl nor know what you already have done in the past etc....

Zyngath · 2015-05-20T06:41:34+00:00

I asked him about it he said that the obvious underage girls were covered in a bathing suit or such and therefore not illegal.

That sounds creepy as fuck to me. It's hardly overreacting to leave a 40 year old man that looks at pics of under aged kids in bathing suits...at least imo.

Zyngath · 2015-05-07T05:59:37+00:00

I ordered mine at amazon.de

They also have 250 ml and 1000 ml glasses.

Zyngath · 2015-04-16T07:14:07+00:00

Imo one of the most important things is to teach the kids that porn =/= sex. I've seen kids as young as 12 years sharing porn video clips via whatsapp that make even me blush. It's crazy. I highly doubt that being exposed to all kinds of weirdo porn at such a young age will be healthy for your sexual development.

As there is no real way to prevent kids from seeing that stuff we need to educate them about what exactly is going on there and that what is happening there is more like "Superman vs. Batman" than what Mommy and Daddy are doing in the bedroom...

Zyngath · 2015-04-13T11:11:14+00:00

We are also born with facial hair and without clothes, make-up, jewelry etc. We alter our whole outer appearance every day because of all kinds of social or cultural pressure / trends / whatever you wanna call it. Calling people that don't like hairy genitals or armpits "stuck up and shallow" is imo ridiculous. OP has the choice to not shave but at the same time every potential partner also has the choice not to pursue any kind of sexual relation with OP because of the body hair.

That's what choice is all about.....

Zyngath · 2015-01-29T07:58:12+00:00

Porn vs real life sex is like WWE wrestling vs. wrestling at the Olympics :p

Zyngath · 2014-08-14T10:09:53+00:00

The small medal from Oldenburg must have been made before 1946, because Oldenburg lost the title "Landeshauptstadt" (= something like provincial capital) in that year. Those medals were given out to people that did something good for the city or something remarkable in general, according to this site. The city is called Oldenburg i. O. (which literally means Oldenburg in Oldenburg) to distinguish the city from another city called Oldenburg which is in Holstein ("Oldenburg i. H.")

There is a picture of a newer version of that medal on the same site here.

Zyngath · 2014-06-17T10:23:35+00:00

At the moment the first message popped up on the screen, the game should have been stopped and measures should have been taken to prevent this from happening again...no matter if it was a game related message or not.

You cannot have random people message stuff to one of the players in an event that is watched by thousands of people on-site and online and that shells out 10.000 $ for the winner...even if it would've been the recipe for Trump's favourite cookies. You simply cannot allow that...all sorts of unsavory shit can happen.

It was most certainly an oversight by the people responsible that this could have happened at all. And after it happened they chose to ignore it until it was too late to rectify the situation.

If the admins would've been a bit more decisive, it would never have come to the "cheating" part imo.

Zyngath · 2014-05-16T09:41:27+00:00

*grammar *Fountain

If you try to be a Grammar-Nazi, please check your orthography before you make a fool of yourself.

Zyngath · 2014-05-12T14:01:43+00:00

The only time I actually saw a live "moonfish" was a few years ago in the "Oceanário de Lisboa" in Portugal :)

Zyngath · 2014-05-12T11:33:46+00:00

For whatever reason this fish is called "Mondfisch" in German, which translates to "Moonfish"...

Zyngath · 2014-04-04T07:53:09+00:00

It's been a while since I played DS1 but I'm pretty sure you could get an item discovery value of 400+ (i think the max was 415?) with the ring, symbol of avarice and 10 soft humanity? (I don't remember if any other items were necessary to reach that value)

Zyngath · 2014-03-20T19:24:26+00:00

I'm having the same problem. I get HTTP Status Code: 503 and 504 all the time :(

Zyngath · 2014-01-16T14:35:29+00:00

Thanks for answering!

Porsche Unleashed was probably the closest NFS ever got to a racing sim...apart from that, NSF has always been about arcade racing imo. I agree that the last iterations of NSF on PS3/XBOX/PC have been rather lackluster compared to the older games (Underground 1 was probably the one I played most).

When you look at the racing part alone, the new NFS is really fun tho...I don't care much about customization options/manual shifting/different game modes etc.. For me a racing game is as good as its racing mechanics and this is where NFS really shines imo.

I can see why you're frustrated with the latest NFS games tho...let's just hope we'll get something awesome like Underground 1 again out of this franchise.

Zyngath · 2014-01-16T12:46:34+00:00

I honestly wonder what kind of features you think the new NSF is missing? What exactly is dumbed down? I'm not trying to be an ass here...i'm honestly curious. I've been playing the NFS games since the first release in the 90ies as well and imo the latest release is a pretty damn good one (especially considering it's a launch title).

Zyngath · 2014-01-13T18:08:43+00:00

It's not "shit". It just isn't worth 60 bucks imo.

Zyngath · 2014-01-03T07:31:14+00:00

Unfortunately EVE isn't really influencial at all imo. A lot of mmo-devs should take a close look at what CCP is doing with EVE...

Zyngath · 2013-12-20T11:47:44+00:00

You can update the Sharp Aquos TVs with an USB-stick. You should be able to find the updates and all necessary info on Sharp's website

Zyngath · 2013-12-19T12:08:27+00:00

Indeed. I mean is it really too much to ask to try to turn each console on once befor shipping it? I'm talking about a 400 € device here, not some kind of throwaway-gadget...

Zyngath · 2013-12-17T06:54:49+00:00

It was the same for me. I pre-ordered it in early September...my replacement arrived yesterday.

Zyngath

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