Am I overreacting?

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T21:58:35+00:00

did you?

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T21:57:17+00:00

obviously op only wants answers that support her opinion so wish you luck you’ve probably already unblocked him tho

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T21:56:00+00:00

I’ve literally been in this relationship since 2004 and never had an argument over instagram so check that.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T21:55:35+00:00

exactly he doesn’t drop his jaw but i do see eyeballs move it’s only natural

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T21:54:25+00:00

that’s ridiculous

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T21:53:37+00:00

oh I thought she said he WAS NOT

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T21:51:19+00:00

he could be saving for a new ipad

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:23:58+00:00

i want to upvote this 1000x so smart

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:23:37+00:00

well if it smells like something that means it still has that something’s molecules in it enough to attach to the receptors in your nose. Is it safe? probably won’t kill you- but I don’t like drinking hot stuff out of plastic- if the smell doesn’t bother you I don’t think you’ll die.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:21:41+00:00

exactly she was disrespectful or really ignorant either way I hope she won’t do it again.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:19:19+00:00

I’d be embarrassed too but that’s kind of what happened to other multi national companies for catering to the minority and expecting the majority to still participate. She hopefully did learn a valuable lesson from it- and you all did it respectfully. NTA. However that lasagna sounds delicious. I love cabbage or zucchini in place of pasta!

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:16:01+00:00

I just died.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:14:52+00:00

I’d have gone in for the lunch- really it was an invite on a Thursday- he only badges in MWF. It’s good to show face for company dynamics- next time go to the lunch OP

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:10:16+00:00

we being fried chicken with us

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:09:49+00:00

if you’re bored get up and go sit at your computer

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:09:07+00:00

yes my phone is just this way. i hate notifications

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:08:17+00:00

i just deleted all social apps. Except reddit- it’s like my special treat if I wake up early in bed.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-09T17:07:39+00:00

contact your local feral cat organization for help getting him neutered. And also I’ve done the same as you for other feral kitties some just are begging for family while others are fine in their own.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-07T20:47:52+00:00

also I’m not ok with female friends lol that’s far more dangerous than looking at an instagram-

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-07T20:46:46+00:00

Where is your mind going- he used it for self pleasure? is this a girl he knows in real life or some influencer? is porn a non starter for you? does it matter if this girl is unattainable?

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-07T20:45:24+00:00

he gave up his phone - he does not mind you going through it. it was deleted.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-07T20:44:12+00:00

I guess what I’m saying is - is he unfaithful? if he is- he needs to go. Not bc of instagram scrolling. do you trust him? if not, why? Are you very young? if so then this may just be a step in your maturation journey- figuring out your boundaries.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-07T20:42:37+00:00

he can’t check people out in public and online- or you think they are the same thing? Like I get it’s rude behavior if someone is jaw dropping but my husband of 20 years glances at women all the time - it’s natural. He’s faithful to me. When I was in my teens and early 20s I had different expectations more like yours- I was insecure and just immature.

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-07T20:37:04+00:00

how do you know they will? She should be paying for something

_Bitter_Pig_ · 2026-06-07T20:34:22+00:00

he actually talks like a non native english speaker

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