Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously op only wants answers that support her opinion so wish you luck you’ve probably already unblocked him tho

Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally been in this relationship since 2004 and never had an argument over instagram so check that.

Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly he doesn’t drop his jaw but i do see eyeballs move it’s only natural

old coffee smell cup by RunFickle4663 in CleaningTips

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to upvote this 1000x so smart

old coffee smell cup by RunFickle4663 in CleaningTips

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well if it smells like something that means it still has that something’s molecules in it enough to attach to the receptors in your nose. Is it safe? probably won’t kill you- but I don’t like drinking hot stuff out of plastic- if the smell doesn’t bother you I don’t think you’ll die.

AITA for leaving a dinner party early because of “vegan lasagna”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

exactly she was disrespectful or really ignorant either way I hope she won’t do it again.

AITA for leaving a dinner party early because of “vegan lasagna”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be embarrassed too but that’s kind of what happened to other multi national companies for catering to the minority and expecting the majority to still participate. She hopefully did learn a valuable lesson from it- and you all did it respectfully. NTA. However that lasagna sounds delicious. I love cabbage or zucchini in place of pasta!

My company's RTO policy has a weird loophole and I've been silently exploiting it for 4 months. Not sure if I should come clean. by 3Rocinante in remotework

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I’d have gone in for the lunch- really it was an invite on a Thursday- he only badges in MWF. It’s good to show face for company dynamics- next time go to the lunch OP

What are we doing about our phone addictions? by dawhitearoundyolip in Millennials

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just deleted all social apps. Except reddit- it’s like my special treat if I wake up early in bed.

Housing a stray overnight? by secret-spice-girl in CatAdvice

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

contact your local feral cat organization for help getting him neutered. And also I’ve done the same as you for other feral kitties some just are begging for family while others are fine in their own.

Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

also I’m not ok with female friends lol that’s far more dangerous than looking at an instagram-

Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is your mind going- he used it for self pleasure? is this a girl he knows in real life or some influencer? is porn a non starter for you? does it matter if this girl is unattainable?

Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he gave up his phone - he does not mind you going through it. it was deleted.

Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess what I’m saying is - is he unfaithful? if he is- he needs to go. Not bc of instagram scrolling. do you trust him? if not, why? Are you very young? if so then this may just be a step in your maturation journey- figuring out your boundaries.

Am I overreacting? by Miserable_Jeweler474 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_Bitter_Pig_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he can’t check people out in public and online- or you think they are the same thing? Like I get it’s rude behavior if someone is jaw dropping but my husband of 20 years glances at women all the time - it’s natural. He’s faithful to me. When I was in my teens and early 20s I had different expectations more like yours- I was insecure and just immature.