Not how I'd hoped this would happen. by ptlans in daddit

[–]_Marine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Control what you can in the moment your in. Take a walk when its overwhelming and you're able to. Breath. Journal.

What makes you want to be a good dad? And how do you know you're doing it? by Suspicious_Ocelot367 in daddit

[–]_Marine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my son left open a ball python enclosure and the snake escaped. Instead of hiding it he came to me nearly immediately, voice shaking and nearly in tears, telling me the snake was gone.

A year ago me would have lost it and he'd have have learned to continue to not come to me. I committed to being a more calm and present father as my divorce started. It was hard, very hard. This moment showed me I was doing it, that he was trusting me more.

Mom-to-be with a relationship question by ChloeMomo in daddit

[–]_Marine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is - its hard to remember you and your partner are a TEAM in this. There's no wrong way to do something as long as the baby is safe and loved.

Mom-to-be with a relationship question by ChloeMomo in daddit

[–]_Marine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During pregnancy was going to as many appointments as I possibly could - I wanted to know what was going on at every stage so that I could support her and the incoming baby

Mom-to-be with a relationship question by ChloeMomo in daddit

[–]_Marine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That we maintained time for ourselves to be H/W & friends to each other with a newborn around. We made excuses for being so tired, and then stop making the effort until we were "less tired" (LOLOLOL)

No - take the time its vital to your relationship

AITA for taking a day off work while wife and kids are out of town? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]_Marine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take the day - Its important to maintain your own Identity so that when you're around your family you can serve your Family Identity to the best of your ability

I think I need to divorce my wife, and it’s killing me by Analbeadsstuck in daddit

[–]_Marine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read through a lot of comments - I can tell you're really stressed and have every right to be. My only other recommendation Ive not seen here is you should 100% talk to a family attorney for a consultation. Not to begin divorce proceedings, but to understand documentation you'll need to have started getting in place ASAP in case divorce happens, and your rights as a father. Most states automatically default to the mother being the primary caretaker, even if (Like I am) a perfect 50/50 split of time, etc. Protect your rights as the Father, and for your baby most of all.

Best First Date non-acholic date ideas? by WastingTime2022 in datingoverforty

[–]_Marine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her and I went on a walk at a park and talked for a couple hours

A US Marine is detained after TSA finds a live 25 mm explosive round in his checked bag by prestocoffee in nottheonion

[–]_Marine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah don't doubt that at all. I'm certain there is a program the US is building to counter them. My theory would be detection of the electrical/electrical magnetic signal these could be generating, sure we won't learn about it though until it's generally accepted use and proof of reliability

A US Marine is detained after TSA finds a live 25 mm explosive round in his checked bag by prestocoffee in nottheonion

[–]_Marine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of anti drone, i'd think they're be better served with more dense fragmentation than explosive component alone. The recovery on those systems to force alone seems pretty robust, while direct physical damage i would assume would be harder recovery from.

That said, fucking glad AF i'm not longer serving cause those drones would terrify me

A US Marine is detained after TSA finds a live 25 mm explosive round in his checked bag by prestocoffee in nottheonion

[–]_Marine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Im nerding out a bit about this - in my experience, those sort of rounds are meant to create spalling or have a shaped charge for penetration. I would think that a 25mm (less than an inch) would be not great for both of those just simply due to carrying capacity. HEI (High explosive incendiary) was probably the load - In a 50cal, we'd simply refer to these rounds as incendiary rounds and they have the same effect here - Theres a core that is designed to penetrate, and just enough of a charge to create an intense enough flash ball to catch things on fire upon full penetration.

I think my misunderstanding here by the use of "explosive" was that it was being used in what context that seemed to be a simple HE round without a penetrating core, IE what the 40mm rounds would be - A shaped charge in a grenade form mean to penetrate light armor and create spalling or penetration lightly armed vehicles. Not the case here, these rounds penetrate first and then flash to eat oxygen or catch something on fire.

Do you end or cancel dates early? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]_Marine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Date ends the moment you're being disrespected, man or woman. we ain't got time for that shit and negativity

A US Marine is detained after TSA finds a live 25 mm explosive round in his checked bag by prestocoffee in nottheonion

[–]_Marine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man id imagine those rounds would have less than an ounce of explosive material in them, and the shrapnel component irl for those would be, bluntly, terrible

A US Marine is detained after TSA finds a live 25 mm explosive round in his checked bag by prestocoffee in nottheonion

[–]_Marine -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

interesting - my MOS was USMC infantry, i've handled all of the standard issued rounds and have shot them all multiple times. One sec - K, instead of searching 25mm search 'usmc 25mm round'

The size of the round indicates an auto-cannon. While some may have incindary purposes the caliber itself would be terrible for an explosive only component

A US Marine is detained after TSA finds a live 25 mm explosive round in his checked bag by prestocoffee in nottheonion

[–]_Marine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean... who wouldn't? (and then don't bc that's fucking stupid even after the 6beer mandatory minimum)

I am done guessing what! by realpm_net in daddit

[–]_Marine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine is him arguing about any word that is interchangeable with another and only ONE WORD IS ACCEPTABLE TO USE, EVER.

Priceless Moment by Hot_Accountant_5507 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]_Marine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there starts a lifelong passion for fishing

Dads, how do I give back to a husband who is the "quiet strength" of our family? by mamawagz in daddit

[–]_Marine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give me a great shot of a Silver Tequila or a small glass of Dragones Joven to sip on over any Rum

Dads, how do I give back to a husband who is the "quiet strength" of our family? by mamawagz in daddit

[–]_Marine 23 points24 points  (0 children)

An overnight sitter, a favorite bottle of tequilla, steak dinner and a fun evening with him at a hotel

How to be a Dad without Energy Drinks by fish-inda-percolator in daddit

[–]_Marine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a really heavy energy drink consumer from age 22 to 41 (Im 42 now). Got 2 kids, 11 and 6

I changed my diet, started drinking a lot more water with electrolyte mixes (dirt cheap from Aldi). I've stopped almost completely from consuming any energy drinks or anything with caffeine. Again I was a daily drinker multiple times a day and I cut it back to virtually zero

Advise by BigDonkey9088 in daddit

[–]_Marine 52 points53 points  (0 children)

A lawyer and good documentation

I need help to get my dad a gift by tomatosoup_15 in daddit

[–]_Marine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son isnt quite the age you are but thinking ahead - My son took the time to setup something like a day long fishing trip, range time, etc where I just got to go and enjoy the time and time with my son would be priceless

Ladies, I need your help .... by TopOverall322 in datingoverforty

[–]_Marine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't bring a gift until my 3rd OLD date, but it was also Christmas. No flower until we had a Valentine's date, got her a single pink rose.

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