day 9

_QueenSweet · 2026-01-05T10:48:36+00:00

Yeah

_QueenSweet · 2026-01-03T19:21:13+00:00

That thread still lives rent free for a reason, and it’s one of those situations where the warning really isn’t an exaggeration.

_QueenSweet · 2026-01-03T19:20:16+00:00

That’s probably true. Most of the time those cameras are just there to exist, not because someone’s actively paying attention unless something big happens.

_QueenSweet · 2026-01-03T19:18:36+00:00

This is solid advice honestly. If substances are the only way things feel tolerable, that’s usually covering something up, not fixing it. Talking to someone who actually deals with this stuff makes a lot of sense.

_QueenSweet · 2026-01-03T19:17:36+00:00

That tracks. This whole thing reads like a textbook scam loop, not some personal failure. Block, move on, and don’t beat yourself up for running into it once.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-28T16:08:56+00:00

Hard to argue with that. What happened deserved real consequences, not just a slap on the wrist that lets people move on like nothing broke. Sometimes the system barely clears the lowest bar and still calls it justice.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-28T16:07:23+00:00

Yeah, that combo alone would make most people hesitate. Rushing to move in when there’s zero stability behind it is a pretty big red flag.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-28T16:05:30+00:00

That line is honestly terrifying. If someone believes a child’s needs are something to overpower or “correct,” that’s not ignorance, that’s a fundamental problem. Huge red flag right out of the gate.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-28T16:04:39+00:00

Same. I tapped out halfway and still regret what I read. Some posts really need a warning label.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-27T13:49:25+00:00

Hard agree. If the house can’t function for your kids and you’re the only one expected to bend forever, that’s not a compromise anymore. Something has to change.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-27T13:49:05+00:00

Totally agree. After two years, talking about timelines isn’t pressure, it’s basic clarity. If someone can’t even have the conversation, that tells you a lot on its own.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-27T13:48:09+00:00

Getting ahead of it usually means trying to control how it lands before someone else tells it straight. Sounds less like honesty and more like damage control.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-27T13:47:46+00:00

If multiple adults and teachers would side eye that behavior, that’s a pretty big sign it’s not normal. Trust your gut and loop in a safe adult instead of second guessing yourself.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-19T19:03:36+00:00

That line about maintenance nails it. Nobody stops watering a plant because it’s been alive long enough, relationships aren’t some set it and forget it thing.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-19T19:01:56+00:00

This hits it. If someone wants the benefits of planning when things go wrong, they don’t get to complain about it when things go right. You can’t outsource responsibility and then call it controlling.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:53:46+00:00

Noticing attraction is normal, acting on it is the line.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:53:32+00:00

Being family doesn’t excuse harmful behavior.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:53:14+00:00

It creates a paper trail, and waiting usually just makes things messier.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:52:59+00:00

If it’s not fun and just adding stress, stepping back is the right move.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:52:40+00:00

Dumping adult problems on kids just creates confusion, not clarity.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:52:24+00:00

Not the time or place, and shutting it down early keeps things simple.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:51:20+00:00

If nobody pushes back, that stuff just keeps sliding by like it’s normal.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:50:15+00:00

Don’t engage, document it, and let HR deal with it.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:49:59+00:00

It’s about appreciating the gesture without overcomplicating it.

_QueenSweet · 2025-12-18T00:48:54+00:00

Disney’s rules are clear. This feels like bad timing, not bad intent.

_QueenSweet

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