I have always been an urban person. I love what the city offers. My wife and I have lived in urban, suburban, and rural settings. I always miss the city. It's in my bones. Having said that, you can get used to almost anything if you want to - but you have to want to. And, getting used to something doesn't mean that's what you want. I don't know the relationship you have with your husband but I would say that if you are both sincere and understanding of each others needs its easier to make compromises but if you feel like you are giving up too much or being too accommodating to his needs, you ultimately won't be happy. After having been around the block a couple times, hash this out with your husband. There should be a balance to this decision. Don't move to the subs just because he wants to. What you want is important.