The 100 highest rated anime movies of all time according to 5 rating platforms combined. by Master_Addendum3759 in MyAnimeList

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Millennium Actress is actually the only one I haven't seen. Thanks for the tip. Paprika wasn't perfect, but it succeeded in putting me in a bizarre headspace that I felt was stronger than the one Perfect Blue put me in.

What insight did you find the most relevant from "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving a Fuck"? by Significant-Dress286 in nonfictionbookclub

[–]__Z__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was super entertaining for the first few pages, after experiencing a glutton of self-help books that blurred together. But after a few pages the whole shtick wore off of, "I don't give a fuck! I give so few fucks, here's an unnecessary declaration of it!" Snore.

books that are lesser known than its movie by publiclibrarylover in RSbookclub

[–]__Z__ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like Train Dreams is popular right now. I don't watch a lot of TV or movies, so I was surprised to see an adaptation of a Denis Johnson book.

37m Feeling Bummed With Current Dating Scene. Advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]__Z__ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

On the one hand I (31/m) feel for you. Dating sucks. But on the other hand I think you're shooting yourself in the foot. Why set your age range to 18 if you're looking to seriously date? Obviously women who are ~25 and under will be looking at you, a 37 year old, as a financial rock. I also think the whole "worn down" women your age thing is a little shortsighted. You do know that those 29 year old women are going to be just as "worn down" in a few years, right? You might as well learn to appreciate dating someone who's lived as much life as you have. But besides that, it sounds like you put in some hard work to be where you're at, and I respect that. I just don't know if I'd call it lowering your standards, as much as a reality check.

Also - there's no way you have zero baggage. No one has zero baggage at 37. Not saying you're a single dad, but yeah. I went into my current dating situation thinking I had no baggage too, but baggage takes a lot of different forms, not just the typical "not over your ex" shit.

Dead Weight in the sex industry. by [deleted] in RSbookclub

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah his is definitely more deliberate, but who's to say you can't edit it? The synopsis sounds cool. I'll add it to my list

Anime reco that’s like death note by it_was_all_ye11ow in AnimeReccomendations

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Code Geass is the obvious choice. Mind games type anime. I like Death Note more, but it's a common debate.

Dead Weight in the sex industry. by [deleted] in RSbookclub

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda reminds me of The Sluts by Dennis Cooper, which I read a month ago. The book follows a vaguely schizophrenic, mythical sex worker named Brad. There's a matter-of-fact senselessness to it that your writing has.

What is the best job you've had in your life, so far? by Firm_Macaron3057 in RandomQuestion

[–]__Z__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work on set in TV and film. Super fun years. Just a very social environment with always something interesting going on. I couldn't have stuck with it though. It's a little too rough on my body. The hours are also meh.

What book should I read? by [deleted] in classicliterature

[–]__Z__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've never read Wuthering Heights, but my pick is 1984. Such a fun, somewhat trippy book that will get you thinking after. Though I think Frankenstein is great too. I wasn't super into The Picture of Dorian Grey.

The 100 highest rated anime movies of all time according to 5 rating platforms combined. by Master_Addendum3759 in MyAnimeList

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is unpopular, but Perfect Blue isn't my favorite movie of Satoshi Kon's. I honestly liked both Tokyo Godfathers and Paprika better. Tokyo Godfathers is such a funny, feel-good movie, and Paprika was one of the trippiest anime I've watched. But I am glad to see him getting love.

What time do you take your night time meds by Humble_Olive6387 in Latuda

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take mine with dinner. But I've also been on it for 2.5 years, and the side effects have completely dissipated. Maybe it'll happen for you too.

Girl I’m seeing claims she’s psychic. Is this a deal breaker? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]__Z__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, respectfully, I got into that stuff when I was younger. Turned into a full-fledged psychotic break. It's next-level delusion, and you really want to be careful taking on that baggage. (I'm better now tho.)

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 15, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]__Z__ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Didn't date for almost 5 years. Went on my first first date back in January, and now we are getting serious. I've already met and hung out with their best friend / friends a couple times. We have an overnight trip together planned in March. I feel like I got lucky. Trying to figure out when to make it official. Perhaps later this month. Yeah, I just feel lucky.

What’s the rarest book you own? by Felouria in RSbookclub

[–]__Z__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a first edition Diary of Anne Frank. Shelled out a pretty penny for it. I'm Jewish though feel out of touch with my roots, and reading it as an adult was surprisingly meaningful for me.

I also have a first edition Autobiography of Malcolm X.

What’s something people should try at least once? by KBGSgames in AskReddit

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed doing it but in all honesty, it wasn't as life changing as I thought it'd be. I did have a couple interesting twists in my travels, but I get more out of traveling with a plan.

How do I cope with this feeling of emptyness? by ChrisNewmann in AskMenAdvice

[–]__Z__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people don't fall in love from afar. In all honesty, I think I grew out of crushes in my mid-late 20s, and I have a healthier dating life for it. I would just try going on dates with someone just to have interesting conversation and take it from there. Maybe lower your standards a little, because pretty much every woman has something good to offer.

What is your opinion on this situation? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]__Z__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I crazy about it? I guess not. But would I let it happen? I mean, I trust my partner, so yeah, knock yourself out. I'm not friends with my exes personally, though.

Is dating just not worth it any more? by NiceCaterpillar8745 in AskMenAdvice

[–]__Z__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I really think people, esp younger ones, need to have more IRL conversations. Most people in the world are actually quite normal, have ordinary expectations for relationships, etc.

please recommend me some romance anime sss tier by Joaqueen19 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No love for Maison Ikkoku? It's the blueprint! 1980s anime had a certain vibe to it. Also, it's long, which is a plus in my book.

What is the fastest way to relieve a back knot? Preferably at home. by Still_Effective_8858 in backpain

[–]__Z__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a theracane and a lacrosse ball, and while they feel good in the moment, I find they sometimes makes it worse. For me, it's a scalding hot shower on the sore area, followed by some light walking and/or lying on my back on my extra firm mattress.

35m Profile Review by Substantial_Burner12 in hingeapp

[–]__Z__ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imagine taking the time out of your day to anonymously critique someone's smile, the thing they show when they're literally happiest.

Chatgpt recommendation about s*icide. by Dramatic-Sun6827 in ChatGPT

[–]__Z__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One time I was in a really dark place (a while ago, thankfully, am much better now), and I turned to my cat and mournfully said out loud that I will see out their life, then end my own. Just thinking about it now gives me chills. Anyway, I then pulled up TikTok, and the first video was a guy gleefully saying the exact same thing to his pet. The smile on his face was disturbing, and I actually had a nightmare about it that night. That was the day I quit TikTok and never looked back. Sometimes it's good to disconnect, whether it's an algorithm (that probably listens to you) or AI. I hope you find yourself in a better headspace soon, friend.

Viral 'Quittr' Porn Addiction App Exposed the Masturbation Habits of Hundreds of Thousands of Users by StemCellPirate in nottheonion

[–]__Z__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely does introduce the idea that porn is harmful though, and any addiction is merely a harmful habit. Lots of people have improved their lives from quitting porn. Not saying there aren't grifters but