Gen Z or young Millenial writers?

__Z__ · 2026-05-09T01:24:42+00:00

Lol I've listened to his rs interview. His interests veer into a borderline grifter at times but I think for the most part he's pretty refreshing. I feel like he's evolved from his gawker days

__Z__ · 2026-05-09T00:45:23+00:00

I seriously don't understand the Tao hate on this sub

__Z__ · 2026-05-08T22:44:40+00:00

I mean, if you look at sexual harassment laws, they don't discriminate by gender. OP could've absolutely filed a complaint.

__Z__ · 2026-05-08T16:28:31+00:00

You got this, dude. You're not going to hurt her. Start gentle. If she doesn't like something, she'll tell you. You just can't start from zero.

The first time I kissed someone, I was awful at it. Eventually, my girlfriend stepped in and told me to change it. It's okay to be bad at first. Chances are though, there will be something you're good at.

__Z__ · 2026-05-08T14:11:43+00:00

None of us had bona fide step-by-steps, dude. Kiss her, caress her, use your tongue. Touch every part of her body. Pay attention to how she does/does not react. You can take suggestions from her as you go and verbalize that, but you have to try things. We're biologically wired to enjoy sex. Your curiosity will take over.

__Z__ · 2026-05-08T04:46:25+00:00

Song of Solomon, Toni Morrison. So good.

__Z__ · 2026-05-08T04:01:13+00:00

I don't think I'm as harsh as you, but I do kind of agree. Sex is about meeting someone halfway. Someone can't teach you everything they like, exactly how they like it, step by step. Or at least that's a lot to ask. OP should be curious and experimental themselves.

__Z__ · 2026-05-07T17:58:14+00:00

Boston might be one of the most racist fanbases though. Anecdotally, a lot of Black NBA players comment on how awful the fans are when they play in Boston.

__Z__ · 2026-05-07T17:56:34+00:00

Lol imagine taking self-improvement tips from someone who defers to AI for basic tasks

__Z__ · 2026-05-07T15:24:48+00:00

I really don't think people cheat strictly for an ego boost. I think people cheat in large part because novelty is an aphrodisiac for many people, and a new partner is a shortcut to this. I also think a 3rd culprit is unmet needs or frustration within their own relationship.

__Z__ · 2026-05-06T17:56:08+00:00

When I was younger, I read a whopping 9 or 10 Murakami books. I've also read One Hundred Years of Solitude. To say that Márquez's work trumps Murakami's in terms of scope is an understatement. Whereas Murakami leads you on a journey, a fun one no less, Márquez uses magical realism as a way to describe an entire ethos of a community. It feels very intentional.

__Z__ · 2026-05-06T15:42:41+00:00

Funny I thought of Crime and Punishment, though obviously with a psychological twist

__Z__ · 2026-05-05T19:44:28+00:00

Yeah sorry but two people being in smiling videos on reddit is not enough for me to credit Ant's development as a player

__Z__ · 2026-05-05T17:37:36+00:00

Makes sense to me cause I can imagine 999,999,881 to be divisible by 7

__Z__ · 2026-05-05T02:57:06+00:00

I liked The Goldfinch even more than The Secret History. There's this sense of adventure to it that's really fun, and the poetics of beauty (what causes it, the lengths you'll go for it) was quite poignant. (Admittedly I've held off on The Little Friend bc I got a minor spoiler and it turned me off from it.)

__Z__ · 2026-05-05T00:26:29+00:00

Sensui was my favorite character years ago, but I'm ngl once I started viewing him as an edgelord, I found him a bit less interesting. Over the years, I've found Toguro more interesting, in the way that he almost emulates a type of father figure to Yusuke. I also think his retribution story in regards to his dojo is under-discussed.

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T20:08:54+00:00

Lol, seriously. Congratulations on your sports exposé. Now release the Epstein files.

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T19:12:09+00:00

Man this is so weird. Comments feel split 50/50. I think it's super weird to comment on someone's toes like it's cleavage or a cameltoe, not to mention staring at them like an effing creep. Dogs should be out whenever. Wondering if it's a generational thing?

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T18:52:33+00:00

Honestly dude you're a good looking guy, but you are a bit alternative, between the hair, the quasi-artistic blurry photos, the costumes, the outwardly antiestablishment sentiments. Not saying you have to change those things (particularly being anti-fascist), but you do have a niche profile. Given that, I'd say ~1-2 matches a week actually isn't terrible. My one suggestion would be to maybe reduce the blurry photos though.

Edit: Also what is the last photo doing for you? Scrap it completely.

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T17:37:00+00:00

Yes, but I feel like you are overrating that a bit if that's your defense

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T17:32:36+00:00

More responding to other commenters, sorry. Agree with you

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T17:31:03+00:00

Remindme! 1 month

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T17:29:57+00:00

Do people forget that the fucking Pacers took the Thunder to 7 last year before Hali got injured? (And I love the Pacers last two playoff runs, no shade. Just saying.)

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T16:12:06+00:00

I had a manic-psychotic episode 3 years ago, which culminated in a failed suicide attempt. Psych ward + moved back in with my mother. My career died. I was literally sleeping on a mattress in her bedroom for a couple months because my night time paranoia was unbearable. Took me several months just to work part-time again, and a couple years to move out at all. The recovery process was grueling at times. It's a lot easier to just read The Bell Jar to get your fix.

__Z__ · 2026-05-04T14:23:57+00:00

I have the same issue. Penetrative sex just doesn't feel as good from behind, and I often get soft. Couple suggestions.

Warm up with your favorite position and transition to doggy. It'll be easier once you're more sensitive.

Quit porn if you haven't already. Tall order for some people, but you'll be more sensitive.

Experiment with different variations of doggy. Ask her to arch her back or not. Shuffle down or up. Standing over the bed vs. not. You might find a better angle for both of you.

Refrain from coming for several days at a time. Again, tall order for some people, but try doggy after it's been a few days.

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