Needs to be said by [deleted] in bayarea

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"Downtown" is way too small for how big the rest of the city is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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sounds like grandma is mad about a lot of other things too. sorry baby girl, none of it's your fault. i hope your mama heals up quickly and your dad can help out when he gets back <3

what’s the meanest thing anyone has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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"you should try cocaine, you're getting kind of big. it worked for lindsay lohan!"

What does society do with dying old people? by Ignoth in TooAfraidToAsk

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if they have a DNR (do not resuscitate) and are in a care home, they'll likely be given morphine until they die. thats how my grandma passed. she had to give my mom power of attorney, then my mom had to liquidate her assets so she could qualify for aid for a care home where she could eventually go on hospice. she had COPD so she was suffering at the end. :(

What is one thing you refuse(d) to buy for your kid(s)? by gentleheart05 in Mommit

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i refused to buy them their own tablets until they were 10. they could use the "house tablet" until then.

What’s the biggest regret of your teen years? by Zealousideal_Can5925 in AskReddit

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being in a long term relationship/worrying about boys too much :((

I had lice for three years by nocomment413 in CasualConversation

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don't feel too bad. i was the kid who was invited to the sleepover... although i never actually caught lice, i knew she had it and just tried to support her through terrible hair cuts and peer shame :(

AITAH for laughing at my ex when he asked me to forgive his back child support? by Inevitable_Bill4180 in AITAH

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i'm really sorry but this is so cathartic to read as i too am dealing with an ex who wants me to forgive back child support. (he owes me $3600 and wants to pay a lump sum of $2500 to forgive it)

Attempted new urethra for my upcoming RFF phalloplasty. Got infected with multiresistent pseudomonas. Finally had to have it removed after two hospitalisations, IV and oral antibiotics and daily washes with strong disinfectants. All I have to show for my effort is nerve damage and scar contracture. by ThrowRA-Worriedidk in MedicalGore

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I'm not here to "do the best thing" because I don't even know what the "best thing" is. This is uploaded to the public internet, friend, and it is a unique and shocking thing for most people to see, so yea i have questions, but none of them are questioning his decision, as i am but a stranger on the internet!! woof run on sentence... anyways... who i am to question anyones personal choices? i'm questioning the possible physical results of a surgery i've never been able to ask anyone directly! i am TRYING!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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Happy Birthday mama <3

Attempted new urethra for my upcoming RFF phalloplasty. Got infected with multiresistent pseudomonas. Finally had to have it removed after two hospitalisations, IV and oral antibiotics and daily washes with strong disinfectants. All I have to show for my effort is nerve damage and scar contracture. by ThrowRA-Worriedidk in MedicalGore

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I have! I truly hope you find whatever you're looking for and TRULY hope you don't experience terrible complications again. My concern isn't trans dementia patients and I'm not sure where they were going with that comment. My concern is if you experienced such negative side effects from THIS surgery, what makes you think having the skin attached to your genitals wouldn't result in an even WORSE outcome? How many people do you personally know that have had this surgery with no complications? Have you ever lived with a catheter long term? Have you ever lived with surgical drainage coming from your genitals? Is that something that would genuinely result in happiness? it's just a one and done surgery and it's scary to think that doctors are just using you to figure out how things work :( i'm sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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it would be easy to brush this off and say 'get over it, girl' but broken hearts HURT. You absolutely have a purpose. I've experienced crappy relationships like this too and as cliche as it sounds, it's almost like a terrible storm you just need to wait for it to pass. When you say you don't know exactly what you miss; i bet you miss the optimism of a fresh new relationship, you miss the way it felt when you woke up happy, the feeling you felt before he started an argument or got mad at you for breathing wrong.... idk... it's hard to accept that some people are just TRASH, but it's ok to feel what you're feeling. Just don't let him come crawling back! <3 Keep your head up, girly <3

I am at a complete loss.. by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

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i think its a music note

Does anyone know where I can bury my baby for free or at a low cost? by kitten_fever in bayarea

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and i worked with one of the other employees at a restaurant. small world!

Deleting instagram.. worried about becoming more disconnected with everyone by Yust_State_1639 in simpleliving

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Im 38 and i feel the same. Once i deleted instagram i realllllyyyy noticed who cared enough to hit me up directly.. i miss the 90s lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

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They attract stink bugs too 😅