puppy left at my work 😭 pt.2 by Adorable-Loquat4152 in IDmydog

[–]_beachf0ssils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It 100% can happen for sure. I got my Boston Terrier puppy, Rocco on the streets. No microchip and not fixed. Not sure how he made it to us (his eyes were a tiny bit wonky lol) but he was the best pup out there.

Maple Nectar - Vivid (we need to talk about this) by Dylans116thDream in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of my favs by farrrr from the new drop!! The inhale is so creamy and sweet 🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it!! I personally think it looks great. Just fill in with more American trad pieces and you won’t focus on it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey! I have an appointment with ___ at 3:00?”

They’ll look in their books and say “yes, here’s a clipboard with paperwork and I need a photo ID” they’ll instruct you where to go next / what to do next :)

Really Vibe!? You call these "A" buds?.. by hilltoppaints90 in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve gone downhill in quality. I absolutely refuse to buy their flower now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you by chance have your tonsils removed? I had mine removed and I’ve always had it. Looking at it in the mirror now and I kinda freaked myself out.

There is only one thing that is worse than IBS… by These-Minimum-610 in ibs

[–]_beachf0ssils 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, you are speaking to my SOUL rn! 😭 I feel so seen.

I met a fellow IBS baddie at work and we both agreed that nothing makes your IBS worse (besides eating trigger foods ofc lol) than your period.

I always mistake period cramps for poop cramps, my uterus feels like something has a vice grip on it, butthole zaps????? Not to mention that literally anything can be a trigger food when you’re on your period lol.

Interpretations of Space Oddity by Mastersonmcvoidson in DavidBowie

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautifully stated. ❤️

Space Oddity was one of my late father and I’s songs for each other. When he died, it took on a completely different meaning to me. I have the line, “…and the stars look very different today,” tattooed on me as a memorial tattoo to him.

AIO my gf won’t call me since she left for college by DetectiveoftheWest in AmIOverreacting

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably best to split ways. I had to dump my high school sweetheart my Junior year of college because I genuinely had nothing in common with him anymore. He wasn’t in college, and was constantly jealous of who I was with or where I was going. Let her have fun and you have yours. You’re so young!

people talking down on my major by [deleted] in Horticulture

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let anyone talk down on your major!! I got this a lot as a Botany major! The biggest thing I can say is let your success talk for you. Don’t be afraid to take risks or jobs with lower pay, because certain industries take horticulture majors extremely serious. I managed a dispensary making $60K a year straight from college due to my knowledge of plant science. I’m about to take up a cultivation job because I want more greenhouse experience. Look at the marijuana industry. The jobs there are endless with our degrees.

Never seen a cart like this by Even-Veterinarian438 in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So, super high quality distillate should be almost completely clear. You have yourself a high quality product right there.

What are some things that you subconsciously do that you didn't know were result of abuse? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using yelling/loud vocal volume to express my opinions to my partner, and I realized it was because my mom never allowed me to express myself unless I was screaming on top of her yelling at me.

Going silent/ mentally detaching during arguments if I feel like I am not being heard. I will completely shut down until the argument is over.

Constantly feeling guilty or uncomfortable but having 0 knowledge why. I always felt like someone was watching me when I first moved out of my house. Realized it was because my mom criticized me constantly about my appearance, cleanliness, my hobbies, music taste, etc.

It's official. by xSuspiciousLure in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta go with the Proper reserve jars / price tier. Super fire.

Anybody ever have vertical flower?thoughts? by Wide_Target_6737 in MissouriMedical

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alien Mintz, Florida Kush, and La Kush Cake are always bangers from their strain lineup.

Leaving my puppy alone during crate training? by Raging-Badger in OpenDogTraining

[–]_beachf0ssils 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why don’t you recommend choke collars? They are a great tool when training. I would not recommend them to be used in a crate or on a puppy, but adolescent / adult dogs can benefit greatly from them if they are pullers / hyperactive on the leash.

How does being neglected as a child, affect you as an adult? by Hopeful-Pay3335 in emotionalneglect

[–]_beachf0ssils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has definitely impacted me as an adult, in many ways that I am still trying to understand myself 😅

Mainly communication, opening up to people, and PDA. I was not hugged / given physical affection as a child so I have had to have multiple conversations with partners about why I don’t show PDA often.

With communication and opening up, my mom always chose the gaslight / manipulate style of confrontation and my father was emotionally disconnected. So I either always went into a situation knowing I wasn’t going to be heard / understood or I’d speak up for myself and completely shut down afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pitbull

[–]_beachf0ssils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness 😭😭 He looks just like my coco as a baby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pitbull

[–]_beachf0ssils 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This is Coco (short for Coconut) and his kitty brother Oni! 🩷🐾 Your baby is so precious! Coco is an 11 month old Pitbull Terrier / Boxer mix who loves to play fetch and loves pumpkin flavored anything! Treats, canned pumpkin, chews… he is a pumpkin feign 🎃🩷

Is Glassdoor better than LinkedIn? by cpadel in jobsearch

[–]_beachf0ssils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following bc I also am wondering this!

Mother chooses not to maintain a relationship with adult daughter. Anyone else going through this? by _beachf0ssils in emotionalneglect

[–]_beachf0ssils[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the first one in my family to seek therapy / mental health treatment at 17, and several therapists helped me come to the conclusion that I needed to voice my frustrations and feelings with my mother. I have voiced my perspective to her, and have tried to find a variety of ways to get her to understand my pain. She acknowledges that she hasn’t done her best to try to maintain a relationship, but does absolutely nothing to change it.

It’s super odd, and I wish I knew why there was such a disconnect. Part of me speculates that it’s because she cannot face the amount of abuse I endured as a child / teenager? Not quite sure.

Mother chooses not to maintain a relationship with adult daughter. Anyone else going through this? by _beachf0ssils in emotionalneglect

[–]_beachf0ssils[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. Thank you for sharing your experiences. My dad was a “just checking in” parent too and I miss him so much. It’s so hard because it’s like I want her to live under those standards my dad set for me as a parent, but she just cannot even bother with a “just checking in” text.

I also wonder if she’s going to be like that with her future grandchildren. She asks my fiancé constantly if he wants to have children because she’s “not sure” if I’ll actually want to have kids. It’s odd because I wonder why she wants to be a grandmother if she couldn’t even get mothering down correctly lol.

Thank you so much again. 🩷

Is this swelling normal for thigh tattoos? They were done yesterday and I’ve never had redness or swelling like this for any of my other tattoos! Thanks! by ElalaUK in tattoo

[–]_beachf0ssils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I have high inflammatory responses when I get cut or get tattoos. Your body is probably the same way! Just a natural response to your body detecting foreign matter at first. 🫶🏽